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tauseeftariq
18th April 2006, 05:14
slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

Muhammad Khalil
18th April 2006, 22:39
slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc: :tauba :tauba
Yaar Tum ker laina......................
dunia main aur b kaam hain muhabbat k siwaaaaaaaaaaa

'SamRazi'
18th April 2006, 22:56
kaisey ajeeb ajeeb sawal lai ke raatey ho ........... kal jawab doun gi is ka

Muhammad Khalil
18th April 2006, 23:08
kaisey ajeeb ajeeb sawal lai ke raatey ho ........... kal jawab doun gi is ka aaj kia bhook lagi hay ger ja ker khana to nahi kahee khana:mm:

Bheegi-Palkain
19th April 2006, 00:36
Asslam_O_Alikum WR WB

Chnda tabiat to sahi hay na aaj kal ? :tasali:

FeaamnAllah:lpop: :lpop:

RulzZ
19th April 2006, 00:59
aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

Asal mozo yeh hai...:lol
yes aajkal 2nd shadi karnay walay ko aur 2nd shadi ko bura samjha jata hai kion ka jawab day kar maiN nay tamasha nahee ban'na :khi:, aur jahaan tak baat hai girlz ki kay woh isay bura samajhti hain to us kay leay sirf itna kay aajkal girlz "ghairatmand" hogai hain aur mard....:D, hazrat Ali ka aik qool paRha tha woh kehtay hain "Ghairat aurat kayleay kufr aur mard kay leay imaan hai" ab is zumanay kay falsafi hotay to woh yaqinan hazrat Ali ko samjhatay....!!

D@y W@lk3r
19th April 2006, 11:35
Hummmmmmmmmm Acha sawal,,,, main samjhta hoon kay muhabbat to kabhi bhi hosakti hain umer kay kisi bhi dor main...app nay shaid mairi aik post nahi read ki jo mainay bari mhenat say likhi thi"""Muhabbat kay liyah shadi karna zarori nahi"" Search karkay read zaror karna... Khar app kay sawal ka jawab to yah hain kay shadi kay bad bhi muhabbat hosakti hain....muhabbat to wo hesas hain jo chupkay say insaan kay dil par cha jata hain...wesay muhabbat to ki nahi jati hojati hain...
Is ki bhi aik waja hain... mahir nafsiyaat is ki waja yah detay hain... kay ager aik shadi shuda jora jo apni life say motmain nahi hain.. un main yah hadsaat zada hotay hain.. kyiunkay wo apni zindagi say mutmain nahi hotay aur wo koi kami mhesoos kartay hain.....is ka aik hi hal hain jo main yah hi kahonga kay jab app shadi shuda hojay to apni shadi shuda zindagi ko berkrar rakhnay kay liyah hamesha usko achay say acha karay. apni wife ko apni muhabbat ka har pal hesas delay... kiyunkay hesas delanay say hi hesas hota hain... uski choti choti baatoon ka kheal rakhay.. uski baatoon ko sunay takay us ko hesas ho kay waki main koi hain jo us ka kheal rakhta hain... be^fikri duriyaa paida kardeti hain.........yaar bass muhabbat par mat pocha karo .....werna main is par likhta hi chala jaonga....
RAha shadi ka swal to insaan paida aik baar hota hain...marta aik bar hain aur shadi bhi aik baar karta hain...wo muhbaat hi kiya jo aik kay janay kay bad thandi par jay....no shadi only one time............................:yo:

tauseeftariq
19th April 2006, 15:26
:tauba :tauba
Yaar Tum ker laina......................
dunia main aur b kaam hain muhabbat k siwaaaaaaaaaaa

thanks,,,,,, khalil bhi app nain ijazat dey di....:yahoo: .......:banana:

wy sy mein nain app ke ray pchi thi app kiya kerin gey?:cc: :cc:

tauseeftariq
19th April 2006, 15:45
kaisey ajeeb ajeeb sawal lai ke raatey ho ........... kal jawab doun gi is ka

..:lol :lol :lol :lol
pehly zamin ke khateen bhut achi thin ek dum kehtin
"sar taj app ker lien nain 2nd ,3rd aur 4th shadi"..
:cool:
per aj ke khwateen bhut sochti hain... dosri shadi
naam sey chad jati hain......:kr:

koi baat nahin sis app soch ker gawab din hum muntezer rehin ge:yo:

tauseeftariq
19th April 2006, 15:51
Asslam_O_Alikum WR WB

Chnda tabiat to sahi hay na aaj kal ? :tasali:

FeaamnAllah:lpop: :lpop:

haan haan bulkul teekh hai........... mazy main hoon :yahoo:

inaa changaa sawal kiya hai?
app tu batoo app kiya kerin gey....... dosri shadi ker lein
gey ya nahin?

tauseeftariq
19th April 2006, 16:01
Asal mozo yeh hai...:lol
yes aajkal 2nd shadi karnay walay ko aur 2nd shadi ko bura samjha jata hai kion ka jawab day kar maiN nay tamasha nahee ban'na :khi:, aur jahaan tak baat hai girlz ki kay woh isay bura samajhti hain to us kay leay sirf itna kay aajkal girlz "ghairatmand" hogai hain aur mard....:D, hazrat Ali ka aik qool paRha tha woh kehtay hain "Ghairat aurat kayleay kufr aur mard kay leay imaan hai" ab is zumanay kay falsafi hotay to woh yaqinan hazrat Ali ko samjhatay....!!

hummm......... dekhin.....
agher mard apni dono biwion main insaaf ker saktaa hai
tu its 100% ok no problem with it........
haan agher kisi ko daar hai key woh inssaf nahin ker saktaa
tu phir 1 kafi hai.......

ek mazy ke baat yah hai ke loog akser as "insaaf"
ko nahin samjh patay...... it means ke dono ko ek jisi
chezin din......... agher ek sokhi rooti kaah rhai hai
tu 2nd ko ko bhi sokhi rooti...... dey
tu yeh insaaf hai.......

yeh example hai same salook ki....... muhbbat woh kisi
ek sey ziyda kery tu no problem

bhut intresting topic hai yeh.... key islam nain
chaar sahdion ke ijaat kiyon di.....

tauseeftariq
19th April 2006, 16:20
Hummmmmmmmmm Acha sawal,,,, main samjhta hoon kay muhabbat to kabhi bhi hosakti hain umer kay kisi bhi dor main...app nay shaid mairi aik post nahi read ki jo mainay bari mhenat say likhi thi"""Muhabbat kay liyah shadi karna zarori nahi"" Search karkay read zaror karna... Khar app kay sawal ka jawab to yah hain kay shadi kay bad bhi muhabbat hosakti hain....muhabbat to wo hesas hain jo chupkay say insaan kay dil par cha jata hain...wesay muhabbat to ki nahi jati hojati hain...
Is ki bhi aik waja hain... mahir nafsiyaat is ki waja yah detay hain... kay ager aik shadi shuda jora jo apni life say motmain nahi hain.. un main yah hadsaat zada hotay hain.. kyiunkay wo apni zindagi say mutmain nahi hotay aur wo koi kami mhesoos kartay hain.....is ka aik hi hal hain jo main yah hi kahonga kay jab app shadi shuda hojay to apni shadi shuda zindagi ko berkrar rakhnay kay liyah hamesha usko achay say acha karay. apni wife ko apni muhabbat ka har pal hesas delay... kiyunkay hesas delanay say hi hesas hota hain... uski choti choti baatoon ka kheal rakhay.. uski baatoon ko sunay takay us ko hesas ho kay waki main koi hain jo us ka kheal rakhta hain... be^fikri duriyaa paida kardeti hain.........yaar bass muhabbat par mat pocha karo .....werna main is par likhta hi chala jaonga....
RAha shadi ka swal to insaan paida aik baar hota hain...marta aik bar hain aur shadi bhi aik baar karta hain...wo muhbaat hi kiya jo aik kay janay kay bad thandi par jay....no shadi only one time............................:yo:

ya yeh Psychology wala .. chapter padha thaa main nain
Honours main .........

..hummmmm tu app 1 shadi ke qail hain...

per agher ....... farz ker lin.... key app ko waqi
bhut hi gheeri muhbbat ho jay...... tab app shaid kerin gey 2nd ya dil per patahr rekh lien gey?

D@y W@lk3r
20th April 2006, 08:37
ya yeh Psychology wala .. chapter padha thaa main nain
Honours main .........

..hummmmm tu app 1 shadi ke qail hain...

per agher ....... farz ker lin.... key app ko waqi
bhut hi gheeri muhbbat ho jay...... tab app shaid kerin gey 2nd ya dil per patahr rekh lien gey?
NO Never :na:

shy
20th April 2006, 15:05
jo esa karte hen dil chahta he un ko :nunu: :a stick: http://eidmubarak.com/imageboxes/box45/i458303544395.gif

tauseeftariq
20th April 2006, 16:28
NO Never :na:
oks .. :lol

tauseeftariq
20th April 2006, 16:54
jo esa karte hen dil chahta he un ko :nunu: :a stick: http://www.pegham.com/

Shy jee..... app tu gusaa ho gain....:fuming: :fuming: :fuming:
be cooooooolllllllllllllllllllllllllllll :cool: :cool: :cool:
zaraa thadny demaagh sey sochin tu...... as main koi har nahin.....:)
achaa app reason tu din koi ?

D@y W@lk3r
21st April 2006, 09:09
Shy jee..... app tu gusaa ho gain....:fuming: :fuming: :fuming:
be cooooooolllllllllllllllllllllllllllll :cool: :cool: :cool:
zaraa thadny demaagh sey sochin tu...... as main koi har nahin.....:)
achaa app reason tu din koi ?Yaa Ager tum ko karna hain to yah sab say reason kiyun mang rahay hoon ... karlo:khi:

ummid
21st April 2006, 20:41
slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

ager humare saath kabhi aisa hoga(Allah na kare) tu i will easily allowed my life partner to re-marry with that girl....
i think ke galat rishtey rakhne se accha hai ke Insaan Allah ki hadonko zaihan mein rakhe jis ne apne bandu ke liye her mamle mein bauhat si aasaniyan rakhi hai....
jis cheez ki ijazat Allah aur us ke Rasool(PBUH) ne de di hai us ke liye hum rok lagane ka koi haq nahi rakhte......
jub mard ko chhar shadi ki ijazat Islam ne di hai tu foozol baaton mein sir khapane se kuch nahi hoga....woh jise pasand kare us se shaadi ker le bus itna dhyaan rakhe ke jitne bhi nikah kare apni her biwi ke hooqoq ko sahi sahi pura kare.....

Muhammad Khalil
21st April 2006, 21:33
thanks,,,,,, khalil bhi app nain ijazat dey di....:yahoo: .......:banana:

wy sy mein nain app ke ray pchi thi app kiya kerin gey?:cc: :cc: yaar mujy to pehly hee mohabbat hay.....

tauseeftariq
21st April 2006, 21:38
ager humare saath kabhi aisa hoga(Allah na kare) tu i will easily allowed my life partner to re-marry with that girl....
i think ke galat rishtey rakhne se accha hai ke Insaan Allah ki hadonko zaihan mein rakhe jis ne apne bandu ke liye her mamle mein bauhat si aasaniyan rakhi hai....
jis cheez ki ijazat Allah aur us ke Rasool(PBUH) ne de di hai us ke liye hum rok lagane ka koi haq nahi rakhte......
jub mard ko chhar shadi ki ijazat Islam ne di hai tu foozol baaton mein sir khapane se kuch nahi hoga....woh jise pasand kare us se shaadi ker le bus itna dhyaan rakhe ke jitne bhi nikah kare apni her biwi ke hooqoq ko sahi sahi pura kare.....


:thmbup: Gr8.......Ummed jee:thmbup:
this is The Best reply to this thread :phool: :phool:


wah wah.. kiya baat hai app ke alaa sooch ki
kaash ke sub lakdian aisi tarah sochin........:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:
bilkul drust khaa app nain 100% agree kertaa hoon app sey

yes.... yeh baat sub sey iham hi ke 2sri shadi woh kery jo dono ko yaksaan hoqooq de saky aur donon main insaaf ker saky........
again....:thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup:

Muhammad Khalil
21st April 2006, 21:41
ager humare saath kabhi aisa hoga(Allah na kare) tu i will easily allowed my life partner to re-marry with that girl....
i think ke galat rishtey rakhne se accha hai ke Insaan Allah ki hadonko zaihan mein rakhe jis ne apne bandu ke liye her mamle mein bauhat si aasaniyan rakhi hai....
jis cheez ki ijazat Allah aur us ke Rasool(PBUH) ne de di hai us ke liye hum rok lagane ka koi haq nahi rakhte......
jub mard ko chhar shadi ki ijazat Islam ne di hai tu foozol baaton mein sir khapane se kuch nahi hoga....woh jise pasand kare us se shaadi ker le bus itna dhyaan rakhe ke jitne bhi nikah kare apni her biwi ke hooqoq ko sahi sahi pura kare.....:thmbup: weldone
ager aisa hu to yeh dunia hee janat ban jay:stars:

ummid
21st April 2006, 21:42
:thmbup: Gr8.......Ummed jee:thmbup:
this is The Best reply to this thread :phool: :phool:





wah wah.. kiya baat hai app ke alaa sooch ki
kaash ke sub lakdian aisi tarah sochin........:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:
bilkul drust khaa app nain 100% agree kertaa hoon app sey

yes.... yeh baat sub sey iham hi ke 2sri shadi woh kery jo dono ko yaksaan hoqooq de saky aur donon main insaaf ker saky........
again....:thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup:



Thank you...........:phool:
waise Ummid JEE likhne ki kya zarorat paish aa gai...
hum aap ki sis hain aap jub behan kehte hain tu hume zyada khushi hoti hai..:thmbup:

tauseeftariq
21st April 2006, 21:46
yaar mujy to pehly hee mohabbat hay.....
agher shaidi ke baad phir sey ho gi tu kiya ho gaa??
:khi:

ummid
21st April 2006, 21:50
:thmbup: weldone
ager aisa hu to yeh dunia hee janat ban jay:stars:

shukriya...:phool:
waise khalil bhai...duniya duniya hi rahe tu accha hai...janat mein jaane ke liye marna zarori hai....(jst kidding)

tauseeftariq
21st April 2006, 21:52
Thank you...........:phool:
waise Ummid JEE likhne ki kya zarorat paish aa gai...
hum aap ki sis hain aap jub behan kehte hain tu hume zyada khushi hoti hai..:thmbup:
:lol :lol oks ........... ur welcome sis.......
tekh hai app ko behnaa hi bulian gey....... "Jee" tu zaraa ziyda
importance deny ke liye lagaa diya thaa.............. :khi:
khush rhaoo behnaa

tauseeftariq
21st April 2006, 21:55
Yaa Ager tum ko karna hain to yah sab say reason kiyun mang rahay hoon ... karlo:khi:
:kr: :kr: :kr: ......

sahi khaa app nain per sub bhi bhenoo ko razi ker key karoon ga
na tab maza aye gaa :yahoo: :banana:

shy
22nd April 2006, 05:29
Shy jee..... app tu gusaa ho gain....:fuming: :fuming: :fuming:
be cooooooolllllllllllllllllllllllllllll :cool: :cool: :cool:
zaraa thadny demaagh sey sochin tu...... as main koi har nahin.....:)
achaa app reason tu din koi ?
mohabat to serf aik hi baar hoti he:mm: or mujhe samjh nahi ati k jo log aik wife se mohabat ka dawa karte hen or kuch time ke baad kisi or se mohabat ka dawa kar k us se shadi kar lete hen wo kitne ajeeb log hote hen:budhu: hmare aik janne wale hen unhon ne esa kia,kids bhi the n sab aik happy family ki tarah reh rahe the achanak kisi or se mohabat ho gai or us se shadi kar li:tauba fer aik na khatam hone wala jhagra shiru or kids par kitna bura aser para ye sab dekh kar to mera dil chahta he kash me us bande ki khoob pitai lagaun:nunu: :a stick:

tauseeftariq
24th April 2006, 16:54
mohabat to serf aik hi baar hoti he:mm: or mujhe samjh nahi ati k jo log aik wife se mohabat ka dawa karte hen or kuch time ke baad kisi or se mohabat ka dawa kar k us se shadi kar lete hen wo kitne ajeeb log hote hen:budhu: hmare aik janne wale hen unhon ne esa kia,kids bhi the n sab aik happy family ki tarah reh rahe the achanak kisi or se mohabat ho gai or us se shadi kar li:tauba fer aik na khatam hone wala jhagra shiru or kids par kitna bura aser para ye sab dekh kar to mera dil chahta he kash me us bande ki khoob pitai lagaun:nunu: :a stick:

hummm pehley tu yeh baat galat hai
ke muhbaat ek baar hoti hai..... baithak main as per ek
thread hai pahd lein.....:lol

dekhin main nain yeh nahin khaa key pehli biwi ya bachoon ke saath ziydati hoo........ un ko un ka haq poraa dein......... tawaja, aur muhbbat main bhi koi
kami na aye........

per biwi sahibaa bhi kawmkhaw ke ladiaon sey gureez kerin............

agher insaan insaaf rekh saky tu kary warna na kery

shy
25th April 2006, 05:34
hummm pehley tu yeh baat galat hai
ke muhbaat ek baar hoti hai..... baithak main as per ek
thread hai pahd lein.....:lol

dekhin main nain yeh nahin khaa key pehli biwi ya bachoon ke saath ziydati hoo........ un ko un ka haq poraa dein......... tawaja, aur muhbbat main bhi koi
kami na aye........

per biwi sahibaa bhi kawmkhaw ke ladiaon sey gureez kerin............

agher insaan insaaf rekh saky tu kary warna na kery
pehli baat to ye ke insaf se kaam ka kam hi liya jata he,nawi naweli ke laad n nakhre zeada uthaey jate hen:tauba or mohabat aik baar hoti he wo jo bar bar hoti he wo mohabat nahi kuch or hota ho ga:rolleyes: or farz karen ager bivi ko hi kiisi or se mohabat ho jaey to fer?:wk :khi:

Aanchal
25th April 2006, 08:41
shadi kay bad idher udhar taank jhank karnay ki kia zarorat hai ? :lpop:

Yaaram
25th April 2006, 13:43
Muhabbat sirf beevi se honi chhaye aur bass agar aap ko baad main muhabbat ho jati hay to yeh pehli beevi ke lye na insaafi hay :)

tauseeftariq
25th April 2006, 16:02
pehli baat to ye ke insaf se kaam ka kam hi liya jata he,nawi naweli ke laad n nakhre zeada uthaey jate hen:tauba or mohabat aik baar hoti he wo jo bar bar hoti he wo mohabat nahi kuch or hota ho ga:rolleyes: or farz karen ager bivi ko hi kiisi or se mohabat ho jaey to fer?:wk :khi:
hummm nahin yeh insaaf nahin..... first dulhan jab ati hai
tab husband ka saraa time us ke liye ho saktaa hai
but jab 2nd dulhan ati hai tu ab us ko maloom hona chahiye....... ke us ko adhaa waqat miley ga.......

yeh topic bhut wasi hai as per kuch books hain ..
kafi achey Ulma e akram ke....... books ke names abhi yaad nahin...... main nain khud kafi books main as topic ko padhaa hai...... and i think its right.......

tauseeftariq
25th April 2006, 16:08
shadi kay bad idher udhar taank jhank karnay ki kia zarorat hai ? :lpop:

ab banda bashar hai....... nigha tu uth hi jati hai
:kr:

tauseeftariq
25th April 2006, 16:22
Muhabbat sirf beevi se honi chhaye aur bass agar aap ko baad main muhabbat ho jati hay to yeh pehli beevi ke lye na insaafi hay :)
hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm................ yaram bhi
muhbbat ...... as jazba hai jis ke un muamilat main shriyat main gunjish hai
yani agher app kisi ek biwi ko ziyda pasand kerty hon dosri ke nisbat tu yeh jaiz hai........ kiyon ke dil per kisi ka ikhtiyar nahin...........
bus app nain dono ko baraber waqat aur sahoolatin deni hain....
koi farq nahin kernaa........

so muhbat ke bary main na insaafi nahin...........:)

Bheegi-Palkain
25th April 2006, 19:03
Assalam_O_Alikum WR WB

Tariq u nay me ko pitnay ka pura samaan tayar kar liya hay :bb:

ab me kasy batow kay Bahir hi muhbatian hy ziyada lolzz Biwi say to kabhi kbhi .. lolzz:wk

FeaamnAllah:lpop: :lpop:

tauseeftariq
25th April 2006, 19:17
Assalam_O_Alikum WR WB

Tariq u nay me ko pitnay ka pura samaan tayar kar liya hay :bb:

ab me kasy batow kay Bahir hi muhbatian hy ziyada lolzz Biwi say to kabhi kbhi .. lolzz:wk

FeaamnAllah:lpop: :lpop:

:kr: :kr: :kr: kintaa metha such bolaa hai app nain :kr: :kr: :kr:
app ko koi nahin petay ga....... boys tu bilkul nahin.....:khi: .

humm albataa girls yeh sharart ker satki hain :nunu: :nunu:

Bheegi-Palkain
25th April 2006, 21:36
:kr: :kr: :kr: kintaa metha such bolaa hai app nain :kr: :kr: :kr:
app ko koi nahin petay ga....... boys tu bilkul nahin.....:khi: .

humm albataa girls yeh sharart ker satki hain :nunu: :nunu:


Asslam_O_Alikum WR WB

Gals pitay no Problem KU ka bara experince hay lolzz :D

Biwi na pitay .. kuo kay biwi ka koi experince nahi :khi::khi:

FeaamnAllah :lpop::lpop:

shy
26th April 2006, 05:23
hummm nahin yeh insaaf nahin..... first dulhan jab ati hai
tab husband ka saraa time us ke liye ho saktaa hai
but jab 2nd dulhan ati hai tu ab us ko maloom hona chahiye....... ke us ko adhaa waqat miley ga.......

yeh topic bhut wasi hai as per kuch books hain ..
kafi achey Ulma e akram ke....... books ke names abhi yaad nahin...... main nain khud kafi books main as topic ko padhaa hai...... and i think its right.......
jis ne kabhi sari umer namaz bhi na parhi ho wo bhi doosri shadi ko neki samjh kar karta he:khi: afreen he in mardon par:nunu: :a stick: be wafa qom:tauba wese bolen ge aik se bhi tang hen jee par doosri ke nam par halat kuch yun hoti he:banana:

Yaaram
26th April 2006, 05:33
hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm................ yaram bhi
muhbbat ...... as jazba hai jis ke un muamilat main shriyat main gunjish hai
yani agher app kisi ek biwi ko ziyda pasand kerty hon dosri ke nisbat tu yeh jaiz hai........ kiyon ke dil per kisi ka ikhtiyar nahin...........
bus app nain dono ko baraber waqat aur sahoolatin deni hain....
koi farq nahin kernaa........

so muhbat ke bary main na insaafi nahin...........:)aap ki baat bhi sahi hay lekan aap ne to yeh baat ki na ke Shadi ke baad kisi aur se muhabbat ho jaye to .......yeh to nahi ki na ke donoN beevyoN main se kisi aik se zida ho jaye :) gehrayi ko samjhein :)

tauseeftariq
26th April 2006, 17:30
Asslam_O_Alikum WR WB

Gals pitay no Problem KU ka bara experince hay lolzz :D

Biwi na pitay .. kuo kay biwi ka koi experince nahi :khi::khi:

FeaamnAllah :lpop::lpop:
:hahaha:KU :kr: ,,,,,,,

Per meraa aisa expirence nahin ku ka...... thoda behtar hai :khi:

Biwi yon petti hai :bilan: :bilan: ......... expirence logon ke mutabik
:lol

tauseeftariq
26th April 2006, 17:43
jis ne kabhi sari umer namaz bhi na parhi ho wo bhi doosri shadi ko neki samjh kar karta he:khi: afreen he in mardon par:nunu: :a stick: be wafa qom:tauba wese bolen ge aik se bhi tang hen jee par doosri ke nam par halat kuch yun hoti he:banana:

1.yeh baat tu ajeeb howi ke jo namaz na padhtaa ho
woh koi aur bhi naik kaam na kary :khi: :khi: .. just joking
abhi sahi baat sunain .. shy jee
dosri shadi mard apni pasand sey unmarried aldki sey
shadi ker sakti hai .. even ek mard 4 ke char sahdian
unmarried ladkiyon sey ker saktaa hai.......
yeh jo khaa jataa hai bewaah sey kerni hoti hai its not right.........
wy sy main namaz padhataa hon tu kiya main...:banana:
:lol :lol

2. Asaal main Mard dekhna chaty hain ke sari khawteen
asi hi hoti hain ya koi achi bhi hoti hain :khi:
as liye woh apni "talash" jari rekhna chahty hain :lol :lol
"Umeed per duniya qaim hai"...
:kr:

tauseeftariq
26th April 2006, 17:51
aap ki baat bhi sahi hay lekan aap ne to yeh baat ki na ke Shadi ke baad kisi aur se muhabbat ho jaye to .......yeh to nahi ki na ke donoN beevyoN main se kisi aik se zida ho jaye :) gehrayi ko samjhein :)

main app ke baat samjh giya hoon.........

Dekhin quran ke jis ayat main 4 shadiyon ke ijazat hai us ka mufoom ais
tarha hai ....... yeh mafoohm hai exect tarjuma nahin..

"apni pasand ke aurtoon sey "

it means ke sirf app ko pasand hona kafi hai...... aur agher koi pehli
biwi key hoty howy dosri khaton ko pasand ker ley
tu yeh tekh ho ga......

per ek important baat hai pasand shaidi ke liye ker sakty hain
dating........ chup ker milna etc yeh drust nahin shaid ke pehgm bhaijh
sakty hain........

i hope ab app main nein apni baat samjhaa di ho gi...

khair yeh behas tu khain aur chali gai....

main tu wy sy hi janaa chah rhaa thaa key ziyda loog
kiya samjhty hain..... ker leni chahiye ya nahin :khi:

shy
28th April 2006, 00:39
1.yeh baat tu ajeeb howi ke jo namaz na padhtaa ho
woh koi aur bhi naik kaam na kary :khi: :khi: .. just joking
abhi sahi baat sunain .. shy jee
dosri shadi mard apni pasand sey unmarried aldki sey
shadi ker sakti hai .. even ek mard 4 ke char sahdian
unmarried ladkiyon sey ker saktaa hai.......
yeh jo khaa jataa hai bewaah sey kerni hoti hai its not right.........
wy sy main namaz padhataa hon tu kiya main...:banana:
:lol :lol

2. Asaal main Mard dekhna chaty hain ke sari khawteen
asi hi hoti hain ya koi achi bhi hoti hain :khi:
as liye woh apni "talash" jari rekhna chahty hain :lol :lol
"Umeed per duniya qaim hai"...
:kr:
:a stick:

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 00:50
:a stick:

yeh kis liye ... shy jee
jawab nahin mila tu...........:lol :lol

ummid
28th April 2006, 00:53
1.yeh baat tu ajeeb howi ke jo namaz na padhtaa ho
woh koi aur bhi naik kaam na kary :khi: :khi: .. just joking
abhi sahi baat sunain .. shy jee
dosri shadi mard apni pasand sey unmarried aldki sey
shadi ker sakti hai .. even ek mard 4 ke char sahdian
unmarried ladkiyon sey ker saktaa hai.......
yeh jo khaa jataa hai bewaah sey kerni hoti hai its not right.........
wy sy main namaz padhataa hon tu kiya main...:banana:
:lol :lol

2. Asaal main Mard dekhna chaty hain ke sari khawteen
asi hi hoti hain ya koi achi bhi hoti hain :khi:
as liye woh apni "talash" jari rekhna chahty hain :lol :lol
"Umeed per duniya qaim hai"...
:kr:

woh tu hai.......:blush:

shy
28th April 2006, 06:56
yeh kis liye ... shy jee
jawab nahin mila tu...........:lol :lol
jawab to he bulke serious jawab to ye he k majority mard bina zarurat 2nd shadi karte hen,us waqt na to un ko apne bachon ka khiyal rehta he na kuch or.beshak islam ne ijazat di he lekin sath me insaf karne ka hukam bhi dia he.or jo shaks apni wives me insaf nahi kare ga wo qayamat me is haal me aey ga k us ka adha dhar maflooj ho ga.or aaj insaf kon karta he sab jante hen:tauba or jahan tak ye kaha jata he k sunat he esa krna to ager aap ghor karen to pata chale ga k hamra piyare nabi ne serf aik hi wife ke sath zindagi bitai.jab k wo us waqt un ko bohat sare arab khandan apni beti dene ko tyar the lekin unhon ne hazrat Khadija ki wafat ke baad bewa khawateen ko sahara dene ko nikah keay.to ye koi mazak ki baat nahi he k jab dil kia kiis se mohabat ho gai n shadi kar li.is tarah to orat ko bhi islam haq deta he k wo ager shoher ke sath na rehna chahe to khula le sakti he to kia oraten bhi dusri mohabat kar ke khula lein or shadi kar lein?kids r v improtant.aik shadi ke hote huey dusri mohabat karne se pehle un ke bare me bhi sochna chaey:nunu: :a stick:

RulzZ
28th April 2006, 17:32
hummm......... dekhin.....
agher mard apni dono biwion main insaaf ker saktaa hai
tu its 100% ok no problem with it........
haan agher kisi ko daar hai key woh inssaf nahin ker saktaa
tu phir 1 kafi hai.......

ek mazy ke baat yah hai ke loog akser as "insaaf"
ko nahin samjh patay...... it means ke dono ko ek jisi
chezin din......... agher ek sokhi rooti kaah rhai hai
tu 2nd ko ko bhi sokhi rooti...... dey
tu yeh insaaf hai.......

yeh example hai same salook ki....... muhbbat woh kisi
ek sey ziyda kery tu no problem


:donno: 4 Shadia'aN "insani haqooq" ki khilaf warzi hai.. :khi:aur humara deen "insani haqooq" ka bohot aihteram karta hai, isleay humaray banaiy howay insaani haqooq kay mutabiq islam main 4 shadiaan jaiz nahee hain :lpop:, aur waysay bhi yeh baat "wafa" kay khilaf hai, insaan ko wafa she'aar hona chaheay, aur aik he aurat kay sath zindgee guzarni chaheay, aur aurat ko bhi wafadari ka sabot daytay howay, shohar ki "chita" k saath jal jana chaheay, kioN kay isi ka naam muhabbat hai.. lagta hai aap loog indian filmz nahee daikhtay :budhu:, islam say ziadah muhabbat aur wafadari ka "dars" to un filmooN main hota hai, :victory:


bhut intresting topic hai yeh.... key islam nain
chaar sahdion ke ijaat kiyon di.....

haaN mozo to acha hai, magar is par behas say hoga kia, kia aap ka 4 shadion ka prog. hai :khi:

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 17:53
woh tu hai.......:blush:
app per nahin jee :khi:

App per tu PG qaim hai :khi:

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 18:10
jawab to he bulke serious jawab to ye he k majority mard bina zarurat 2nd shadi karte hen,us waqt na to un ko apne bachon ka khiyal rehta he na kuch or.beshak islam ne ijazat di he lekin sath me insaf karne ka hukam bhi dia he.or jo shaks apni wives me insaf nahi kare ga wo qayamat me is haal me aey ga k us ka adha dhar maflooj ho ga.or aaj insaf kon karta he sab jante hen:tauba or jahan tak ye kaha jata he k sunat he esa krna to ager aap ghor karen to pata chale ga k hamra piyare nabi ne serf aik hi wife ke sath zindagi bitai.jab k wo us waqt un ko bohat sare arab khandan apni beti dene ko tyar the lekin unhon ne hazrat Khadija ki wafat ke baad bewa khawateen ko sahara dene ko nikah keay.to ye koi mazak ki baat nahi he k jab dil kia kiis se mohabat ho gai n shadi kar li.is tarah to orat ko bhi islam haq deta he k wo ager shoher ke sath na rehna chahe to khula le sakti he to kia oraten bhi dusri mohabat kar ke khula lein or shadi kar lein?kids r v improtant.aik shadi ke hote huey dusri mohabat karne se pehle un ke bare me bhi sochna chaey:nunu: :a stick:

dekhin dosri shadi bilaa zaroorat bhi ke ja sakti hai........ app ke akser
batoon ka answer app ko asi page per
yarm bhai ko jo main nain reply kiya hai...... i think comments no 42 ya 43 hai
us main mil jayin ge.....
ke dosri shaid bilaa zaroorat ker sakty hain.....

dosri aur sub sy iham baat ke agher insaf na ker sakty tu hon tu aram
sey behtin koi zaroort nahin 2nd shaid ke :khi: ..
per jo ker sakty hon woh ker lein (mera apna irdaa 2 ka hai.. per abhi pehli bhi nahin whoi):khi:

aur sunaat pori kernain ke liye "wajib" tark nahin ker sakty.....
insaaf kernaa wajib hai............ i kow it........
so jo sunnat samjh ker kerin ........ tu insaaf pehli cheez hai ....

i hope ,,,, ab app samjh jain ge......

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 18:30
such kahoon tu mujh samjh nahin a rahi app muslim hain ya hindu? agher muslim hain tu
app nain jo batin lekhi hain shaid app ko dobara
kalma pahdna ho ga...... here are the answer



:donno: 4 Shadia'aN "insani haqooq" ki khilaf warzi hai.. :khi:aur humara deen "insani haqooq" ka bohot aihteram karta hai, isleay humaray banaiy howay insaani haqooq kay mutabiq islam main 4 shadiaan jaiz nahee hain :lpop:,


1.4 shadian insani haqoog ke kilaf warzi nahin
khilaaf warzi tu woh hai..... to usa etc main ho
rahi hai..... biwi ek hot hai aur girl friends
"unlimited"........
aur indai main AIDS jiss speed sey phail rhaa
hai....... us ke resaon bhi yahi "so called insani haqqoq hain".
2. app ke bany howy usool app ko mubarik
hum woh follow kerin jo key ALLAH aur us ke rasoll(S.aw) nain batya hai
3.islam main 4 shdian jaiz hain .. agher koi insaaf
ker saky tu...... us ko najiz kehnaa quran ke
ayat ka inkar hai ....... as liye as ka inkar KUFER
hai



aur waysay bhi yeh baat "wafa" kay khilaf hai, insaan ko wafa she'aar hona chaheay, aur aik he aurat kay sath zindgee guzarni chaheay,

aur aurat ko bhi wafadari ka sabot daytay howay, shohar ki "chita" k saath jal jana chaheay, kioN kay isi ka naam muhabbat hai.. lagta hai aap loog indian filmz nahee daikhtay :budhu:, islam say ziadah muhabbat aur wafadari ka "dars" to un filmooN main hota hai, :victory:



1.yeh kon si wafa hai key bechari aurt hi jal ker mary
"shoar kiyon nahin jal ker martaa us ke chitaa ke saatu"
kiya wafaa sirf aurt ke liye hai....... yeh sirf jahalt
ke rasam hai ass ko please wafaa mat kahin.....
2.indian movies sirf tafreeh ke liye dekhty hain
hindon ka cultuer apnain ke liye nahin
3.again...... yeh jo app nain khaa ke islam sey
ziyda wafa ka daras movies main hai...... i am
no sure ke muslim yeh jumla keh ker muslman
hi rhaa ... ya da-rey islam sey kharij ho giya.
so think 100 time before u say any thing about
islam.....



haaN mozo to acha hai, magar is par behas say hoga kia, kia aap ka 4 shadion ka prog. hai :khi:

abhi tek 2 ka hai per abhi 1 bhi nahin howi.......

agher main nin khin koi "sakhat" lafz istimal kiy hon
tu ............ sorry nahin kahoon gaa.. kiyon ke
kuch batin thin hi aisi

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 18:37
ScorpioN_RulzZ......... islam nain jo ijazat di hai... as ke kai hikmaty hain
jis ko samjhanin ke liye bhu knowledge chahiye........

wy sy indain movies jasy ke "murder" ,"jism" ,"jawani dewani"........ etc
jisi movies main kafi kuch ikhlaaqiyat ke "daars" mojood hai
jo ke shid india wlaoon ke liye bhi "ikhlaaqiyat" aur "wafa" ke dairy main na
ataa hoo.......

Yaaram
28th April 2006, 19:50
Tauseef bhai Scorpion ne jo kaha ke
islam say ziadah muhabbat aur wafadari ka "dars" to un filmooN main hota hai,
is se muraad unhon ne tanz kya hay .....Islam main kya nahi hay ......yeh aik mukamal deen hay ......baat amal ki kami ki hay .......muhabbat aur bhai chare ka dars deta hay Islam......baat to amal karne ki hay :) Hum LogoN main Amal nai

ummid
28th April 2006, 20:06
app per nahin jee :khi:

App per tu PG qaim hai :khi:

soooooooooooo nice of you.....:phool:

RulzZ
28th April 2006, 20:31
such kahoon tu mujh samjh nahin a rahi app muslim hain ya hindu? agher muslim hain tu
app nain jo batin lekhi hain shaid app ko dobara
kalma pahdna ho ga......

kia zumana yaad dila dia :( kabhi hum bhi aap jaiysay he jazbati muslman howa kartay thay.. aur logon ko islam ka asal rukh dikhatay thay aur manwanay ki koshish kartay thay, magar .... :cry:, logooN nay woh hashar kia kay hum nay bhi soch lia kay ab hum "roshan khayal" aur "aitadal pasand" "musalman" ban kar dikhaiN gaiy, laikin logooN nay humara woh roop bhi qabool nahee kia halankay hum humaisha sach boltay thay, jab islam ki baat kar'tay thay to loog kehtay thay nahee islam aisa nahee hai, balkay woh to roshan khayal hai :lpop:, aur jab hum islam ki roshan khayali bayan kartay to loog kehtay yeh nahee ho sakta :tauba, aur aksar hoti woh he baat thee jo hum roshan khayal honay say pehlay un say kehtay thay :lol


1.4 shadian insani haqoog ke kilaf warzi nahin

hum bhi yeh he kehtay thay laikin loog dhakay chopay alfaz main yeh he kehtay thay kay yeh khilaf warzi he hai aur "aisa nahee hona chaheay" :donno:


2. app ke bany howy usool app ko mubarik
hum woh follow kerin jo key ALLAH aur us ke rasoll(S.aw) nain batya hai

mery nahee "humaray usool" jo hum nay apni aasani kayleay banaiy hain,, laikin hum yeh baat bhool gaiy kay islam he woh deen hai jo "mukam'mal zabta-e-hayat" rakhta hai aur yeh he woh deen hai jo "deen-e-fitrat" hai, jo cheez bhi fitrat kay mutabiq hogi islam us ka kabhi mukhalif nahee hoga, aur jo cheez bhi insaan ko fitrat say nikalnay ka ba'is hogi woh islam main haram hai, aur 4 shadion wala ma'mla "insani fitrat kay taqazay kay mutabiq hai..!!" laikin dosroon ko yeh aurat par "zulm" lagta hai.. maiN nay pehli post main hazrat Ali ka qool darj kia thaa k "aurat ka mard par ghairat karna "kufr" jab kay mard ka aurat par ghairat karna "ain-e-emaan" hai.." aur us kay sath yeh bhi kaha thaa kay aaj ma'mla ulaT hai, aurat ghairat karti hai aur mard bayghairat hogaya hai, aaj kay mard ki ghairat yahaan tak mehdood hai kay apni maaN behnoon ko parda karao aur dosray ki maaN behnooN ko chaiRoo...!!


3.islam main 4 shdian jaiz hain .. agher koi insaaf
ker saky tu...... us ko najiz kehnaa quran ke
ayat ka inkar hai ....... as liye as ka inkar KUFER
hai

aap ki knowledge bohot umdah hai, aur aap nay is thread main jo kuch kaha hai, us kay "aik aik lafz" say mujhay "pora itefaq" hai.. kai baar socha kay aap ki ta'eed karon aur aap ka sath doon :stars:, magar pichlay tajurbaat yaad aagaiy :cry:, dar'asl aap jo batain keh rhay hain aur jo behes kar'rhay hain, woh main bohot pehlay kar'choka hoon, magar koi faida nahee howa....!! loog aisi batain nahee suntay. aur jo kehta hai us ka hashar hojata hai, shayad isi leay main itna kaRwa hogaya hoon :rose.. aur is qism ka tanz karnay laga hoon, maiN nay jo post ki woh "tanz" thaa jisay tum nahee samajh sakay :blush:



1.yeh kon si wafa hai key bechari aurt hi jal ker mary
"shoar kiyon nahin jal ker martaa us ke chitaa ke saatu"
kiya wafaa sirf aurt ke liye hai....... yeh sirf jahalt
ke rasam hai ass ko please wafaa mat kahin.....

bohot si aisi batain hain jin ka islam say koi ta'luq nahee, laikin unhain zubardasti islam ka hissa bana'nay ki koshish ki jati hai, jaysay kay yeh "wafa" aunty :lpop:, loog apnay deen say wafa karain na karain, Allah aur us kay Rasool (saw) say wafa karain na karain, aik laRki say "wafa" zaroor karain gaiy...:khi: aur "wafa" ka taqaza yeh hai kay us kay elawa kisi aur say shadi nahee karni, aur agar us say na hosaki to sari umar cigrate peeni hai aur maan baap ko jalana hai...!! un kay armanoon par pani daalna hai,,, aur agar laRki hai to bhalay say islam main baiwa honay kay baad dosri shadi ka hukam mojod hoo, laikin wafa aisa nahee karnay dayti ...!! maiN nay ooper kaha kay islam deen-e-fitrat hai, laikin hum fitrat say jhagRa karnay par tullay howay hain.. kioN ??


2.indian movies sirf tafreeh ke liye dekhty hain
hindon ka cultuer apnain ke liye nahin
3.again...... yeh jo app nain khaa ke islam sey
ziyda wafa ka daras movies main hai...... i am
no sure ke muslim yeh jumla keh ker muslman
hi rhaa ... ya da-rey islam sey kharij ho giya.
so think 100 time before u say any thing about
islam.....

maiN nay indian filmz ka zikar zaroor kia hai, laikin main filmain tafreeh kayleay bhi nahee daikhta... aur aap ka yeh kehna meri nazar maiN thoRa sa ghalat hai kay filmain culture apnanay kayleay nahee daikh rhay, hosakta hai aap aisay hooN... laikin aksariyat aisi nahee..!! woh culture apna rhee hai, aur ussi ko maan rhee hai, jaysay main nay wafa ka zikr kia, meri maloomat kay mutabiq islam main "aisi wafa" kaheen mojod nahee jisay hum aaj wafa kehtay hain, yeh sirf filmooN main he hoti hai... aur 100 dafa sochnay wali jo baat hai to is kay leay itna he k main "karoroN baar" soch choka hoon, aur aaj tak soch rhaa hoon, aur islaam jaisa deen mujhay kaheen nahee mila.. laikin humaray he logoon nay is ka jo hashar kia hai us say mujhay bohot ghussa aata hai, maiN jaan bojh kar aisi batain chaiRta hoon takay loog kisi aur kay monh say he kam az kam "sach" sun lain, kion kay maiN to waysay he badnaam hoon :lpop:, aur aap ko bhi isi leay chaiRa thaa :wk




abhi tek 2 ka hai per abhi 1 bhi nahin howi.......

logooN nay jis tarhaan say aik say zaid shadiooN ka haw'wa banadia hai, us main yeh aik jehad he hai :), aur aaj kay zumanay main to koshish karni chaheay kay 1 say zaid shadiaaN zaroor ki jain.. :lol, takay logooN ki beenai wapis aasakay :wk.. maiN bhi aap kay sath hoon :bb:


agher main nin khin koi "sakhat" lafz istimal kiy hon
tu ............ sorry nahin kahoon gaa.. kiyon ke
kuch batin thin hi aisi

mujhay sorry karwani bhi nahee, balkay aap kay jazbati honay par mujhay bohot khushi hoi :phool:, waqai maiN nay bohot say alfaz aisay istemal keay thay jo kisi "momin" k leay qabil-e-qabool nahee hosaktay, laikin aisa maiN nay jaan bojh kar kia, dar'asl maiN aap ko parakhna chahta thaa kay sirf raakh say dhowa uTh rhaa hai ya andar chingari bhi hai.. :lol, laikin khushi hoi kay abhi kuch chingariaan hain jo yoon he dehakti rheeN to "dobara" aag zaroor pakRain gee...

Allah Aap ko humaisha khush rakhay, isi jazbay kay sath :phool:

RulzZ
28th April 2006, 20:38
ScorpioN_RulzZ......... islam nain jo ijazat di hai... as ke kai hikmaty hain
jis ko samjhanin ke liye bhu knowledge chahiye........

wy sy indain movies jasy ke "murder" ,"jism" ,"jawani dewani"........ etc
jisi movies main kafi kuch ikhlaaqiyat ke "daars" mojood hai
jo ke shid india wlaoon ke liye bhi "ikhlaaqiyat" aur "wafa" ke dairy main na
ataa hoo.......

jitni knowledge mujhay thee us main say kuch oopar post kardi hai :lpop:,,

aur yeh sab movies maiN nay nahee daikheeN, isleay main un main shamil ikhlaqiyat kay mutabiq kuch nahee keh sakta.. :donno:

Mr. Sialkoty
28th April 2006, 21:13
ager humare saath kabhi aisa hoga(Allah na kare) tu i will easily allowed my life partner to re-marry with that girl....
i think ke galat rishtey rakhne se accha hai ke Insaan Allah ki hadonko zaihan mein rakhe jis ne apne bandu ke liye her mamle mein bauhat si aasaniyan rakhi hai....
jis cheez ki ijazat Allah aur us ke Rasool(PBUH) ne de di hai us ke liye hum rok lagane ka koi haq nahi rakhte......
jub mard ko chhar shadi ki ijazat Islam ne di hai tu foozol baaton mein sir khapane se kuch nahi hoga....woh jise pasand kare us se shaadi ker le bus itna dhyaan rakhe ke jitne bhi nikah kare apni her biwi ke hooqoq ko sahi sahi pura kare.....

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Mr. Sialkoty
28th April 2006, 21:19
slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

Muhabat to kisi se bhi ho sakti he...kisi umer mein bhi ho sakti he...its totally blind.

Jahan tak shadi ka sawaal he...shadi shuda insaan bhi muhabat ker sakta he...it is better for him to get sticky with his life partner...lekin ager wo kuch ziada majboor he...to wo shadi ker sakta he...there is no harm in it

ummid
28th April 2006, 21:35
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:phool:
waise Aap ne gup shup ki jaan chod ker yahan aa ne ki zahmet kaise gawara karli.........:lol

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 21:53
kia zumana yaad dila dia :( kabhi hum bhi aap jaiysay he jazbati muslman howa kartay thay.. aur logon ko islam ka asal rukh dikhatay thay aur manwanay ki koshish kartay thay, magar .... :cry:, logooN nay woh hashar kia kay hum nay bhi soch lia kay ab hum "roshan khayal" aur "aitadal pasand" "musalman" ban kar dikhaiN gaiy, laikin logooN nay humara woh roop bhi qabool nahee kia halankay hum humaisha sach boltay thay, jab islam ki baat kar'tay thay to loog kehtay thay nahee islam aisa nahee hai, balkay woh to roshan khayal hai :lpop:, aur jab hum islam ki roshan khayali bayan kartay to loog kehtay yeh nahee ho sakta :tauba, aur aksar hoti woh he baat thee jo hum roshan khayal honay say pehlay un say kehtay thay :lol



hum bhi yeh he kehtay thay laikin loog dhakay chopay alfaz main yeh he kehtay thay kay yeh khilaf warzi he hai aur "aisa nahee hona chaheay" :donno:



mery nahee "humaray usool" jo hum nay apni aasani kayleay banaiy hain,, laikin hum yeh baat bhool gaiy kay islam he woh deen hai jo "mukam'mal zabta-e-hayat" rakhta hai aur yeh he woh deen hai jo "deen-e-fitrat" hai, jo cheez bhi fitrat kay mutabiq hogi islam us ka kabhi mukhalif nahee hoga, aur jo cheez bhi insaan ko fitrat say nikalnay ka ba'is hogi woh islam main haram hai, aur 4 shadion wala ma'mla "insani fitrat kay taqazay kay mutabiq hai..!!" laikin dosroon ko yeh aurat par "zulm" lagta hai.. maiN nay pehli post main hazrat Ali ka qool darj kia thaa k "aurat ka mard par ghairat karna "kufr" jab kay mard ka aurat par ghairat karna "ain-e-emaan" hai.." aur us kay sath yeh bhi kaha thaa kay aaj ma'mla ulaT hai, aurat ghairat karti hai aur mard bayghairat hogaya hai, aaj kay mard ki ghairat yahaan tak mehdood hai kay apni maaN behnoon ko parda karao aur dosray ki maaN behnooN ko chaiRoo...!!



aap ki knowledge bohot umdah hai, aur aap nay is thread main jo kuch kaha hai, us kay "aik aik lafz" say mujhay "pora itefaq" hai.. kai baar socha kay aap ki ta'eed karon aur aap ka sath doon :stars:, magar pichlay tajurbaat yaad aagaiy :cry:, dar'asl aap jo batain keh rhay hain aur jo behes kar'rhay hain, woh main bohot pehlay kar'choka hoon, magar koi faida nahee howa....!! loog aisi batain nahee suntay. aur jo kehta hai us ka hashar hojata hai, shayad isi leay main itna kaRwa hogaya hoon :rose.. aur is qism ka tanz karnay laga hoon, maiN nay jo post ki woh "tanz" thaa jisay tum nahee samajh sakay :blush:




bohot si aisi batain hain jin ka islam say koi ta'luq nahee, laikin unhain zubardasti islam ka hissa bana'nay ki koshish ki jati hai, jaysay kay yeh "wafa" aunty :lpop:, loog apnay deen say wafa karain na karain, Allah aur us kay Rasool (saw) say wafa karain na karain, aik laRki say "wafa" zaroor karain gaiy...:khi: aur "wafa" ka taqaza yeh hai kay us kay elawa kisi aur say shadi nahee karni, aur agar us say na hosaki to sari umar cigrate peeni hai aur maan baap ko jalana hai...!! un kay armanoon par pani daalna hai,,, aur agar laRki hai to bhalay say islam main baiwa honay kay baad dosri shadi ka hukam mojod hoo, laikin wafa aisa nahee karnay dayti ...!! maiN nay ooper kaha kay islam deen-e-fitrat hai, laikin hum fitrat say jhagRa karnay par tullay howay hain.. kioN ??



maiN nay indian filmz ka zikar zaroor kia hai, laikin main filmain tafreeh kayleay bhi nahee daikhta... aur aap ka yeh kehna meri nazar maiN thoRa sa ghalat hai kay filmain culture apnanay kayleay nahee daikh rhay, hosakta hai aap aisay hooN... laikin aksariyat aisi nahee..!! woh culture apna rhee hai, aur ussi ko maan rhee hai, jaysay main nay wafa ka zikr kia, meri maloomat kay mutabiq islam main "aisi wafa" kaheen mojod nahee jisay hum aaj wafa kehtay hain, yeh sirf filmooN main he hoti hai... aur 100 dafa sochnay wali jo baat hai to is kay leay itna he k main "karoroN baar" soch choka hoon, aur aaj tak soch rhaa hoon, aur islaam jaisa deen mujhay kaheen nahee mila.. laikin humaray he logoon nay is ka jo hashar kia hai us say mujhay bohot ghussa aata hai, maiN jaan bojh kar aisi batain chaiRta hoon takay loog kisi aur kay monh say he kam az kam "sach" sun lain, kion kay maiN to waysay he badnaam hoon :lpop:, aur aap ko bhi isi leay chaiRa thaa :wk





logooN nay jis tarhaan say aik say zaid shadiooN ka haw'wa banadia hai, us main yeh aik jehad he hai :), aur aaj kay zumanay main to koshish karni chaheay kay 1 say zaid shadiaaN zaroor ki jain.. :lol, takay logooN ki beenai wapis aasakay :wk.. maiN bhi aap kay sath hoon :bb:



mujhay sorry karwani bhi nahee, balkay aap kay jazbati honay par mujhay bohot khushi hoi :phool:, waqai maiN nay bohot say alfaz aisay istemal keay thay jo kisi "momin" k leay qabil-e-qabool nahee hosaktay, laikin aisa maiN nay jaan bojh kar kia, dar'asl maiN aap ko parakhna chahta thaa kay sirf raakh say dhowa uTh rhaa hai ya andar chingari bhi hai.. :lol, laikin khushi hoi kay abhi kuch chingariaan hain jo yoon he dehakti rheeN to "dobara" aag zaroor pakRain gee...

Allah Aap ko humaisha khush rakhay, isi jazbay kay sath :phool:



ScorpioN_RulzZ...... jee
kafi deer mein nin app ke comments ko padhaa hai.......
phir socha hai ke app ke points ka 1 by 1 answer na doon..... sirf
us baat ke taraf tawjaa doon jis nain app ko yeh kehnain per majboor kiya

mein app ke baat samjh giya hoon ke app kiya kehnaa chaah rahy hoo

dekhin..... sari baat ke summry yeh hai key ...... agher app kisi chez ke
waja sey dil bardashtaa ho gey hain tu
"islaam per tanz mat kejiye....... muslmano per kejiye"..
humari galtiyon aur kohtiyoon ke wajaa sey aj log..... islam per ungli
utaah rahy hain......

ab app ko mein yeh batna chahtaa hoon ke mein nin app ko as kadar
sakhti sey kiyon tokaa thaa

dekhin ..... ek chezz hai jo humary liye bhut iham honi chaiye..woh hai
imaan........
mein nein ek book padhi thi "Imaan ke hifazat"...... aur as topic
per kuch biyan bhi sunain they summry yeh hai key
"agher koi shakis kulmey kuffer kehy (ayat ka inkar, namza ka ya ibadaat ka
mazaq uday) tu phir woh dairy islam sey khiraj ho jataa hai
aur agher us jumley per tuba kiye bagir mer jay tu woh muslan nahin
mertaa us ka hasher kuffar ke saath ho ga"

as liye asker min kafi sakhti sey kisi ko munaa ker detaa hoon...
ab koshis rahy gi ke naram lafzoon sey mana keroon..

per humm sub ko chahiye ke islam per bolty waqat isss cheez ka khiyal
rakhin ke humary commnets ke sahri hasiyat kiya hai

i hope app meri baat samjh gey hon gey....
islaah zaroor farmya........ munasib andaaz sey...

chalin achi baat hai key app naraaz nahin hwoy......:)
aur mein bus noraml sey bandaa hon dua ke jey ke islam jasy chahty hai
wy sy hum sub momin ban jain (aa meen)

khush rahyee),,,,,:phool:

Mr. Sialkoty
28th April 2006, 21:54
:phool:
waise Aap ne gup shup ki jaan chod ker yahan aa ne ki zahmet kaise gawara karli.........:lol

me sooch raha tha ke us kuwein mein loog bohat kum aatay he...me betha betha wait kerta rehta tha...socha ke kuwein se bahir ja ke shikaar kertay hein :victory:

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 22:01
Tauseef bhai Scorpion ne jo kaha ke
islam say ziadah muhabbat aur wafadari ka "dars" to un filmooN main hota hai,
is se muraad unhon ne tanz kya hay .....Islam main kya nahi hay ......yeh aik mukamal deen hay ......baat amal ki kami ki hay .......muhabbat aur bhai chare ka dars deta hay Islam......baat to amal karne ki hay :) Hum LogoN main Amal nai

yaaram bhi as ka answer mein nein socrpian ko diya hai.....
tanz aisa na ho key hum dairy islam sey nikal jain
kahir........ mein un kee baat aur fellings samjh giya hoon
so no problem........:phool: ab sub oks hai:khi:
wy sy app nein ammal wali baat bhut achi ke hai
waqi humary amaal islam ke munafi hoty ja rahy hain
ALLAH reham farmy...(aa meen)

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 22:05
jitni knowledge mujhay thee us main say kuch oopar post kardi hai :lpop:,,

aur yeh sab movies maiN nay nahee daikheeN, isleay main un main shamil ikhlaqiyat kay mutabiq kuch nahee keh sakta.. :donno:

dekhi tu mein nin bhi nahin...... bus trailer sey hi kafi kcuh :khi:
adazaa ho rhaa thaa,,,,,,,,,:kr:
aur kuch reviws bhi padhy they :khi:

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 22:08
Muhabat to kisi se bhi ho sakti he...kisi umer mein bhi ho sakti he...its totally blind.

Jahan tak shadi ka sawaal he...shadi shuda insaan bhi muhabat ker sakta he...it is better for him to get sticky with his life partner...lekin ager wo kuch ziada majboor he...to wo shadi ker sakta he...there is no harm in it
:thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup: nice answer:phool:

ummid
28th April 2006, 22:10
:thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup: nice answer:phool:

tauseef bhai....yeh wala answer Amir ne hum se copy kiya hai...

Mr. Sialkoty
28th April 2006, 22:18
tauseef bhai....yeh wala answer Amir ne hum se copy kiya hai...

Isay co-incident ka naam dena chahiye aap ko :na:

Ager hamaray khyalaat aur aap ke khyaalaat mein hum-aahangi paai jati he to is me mera koi kasoor nahi :lpop:

ummid
28th April 2006, 22:19
1.4 shadian insani haqoog ke kilaf warzi nahin
khilaaf warzi tu woh hai..... to usa etc main ho
rahi hai..... biwi ek hot hai aur girl friends
"unlimited"........
aur indai main AIDS jiss speed sey phail rhaa
hai....... us ke resaon bhi yahi "so called insani haqqoq hain".



Aap ka jawab accha laga hume....
aur yeh such aaj India more than 20 lakh female...(I am talking about only female) HIV +ve hai....
strange...lakeen awarness ke liye kaafi bade paimane per kaam chal raha hai...
hope for the best...

Mr. Sialkoty
28th April 2006, 22:20
:thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup: :thmbup: nice answer:phool:

shunKriya :victory:

ummid
28th April 2006, 22:20
Isay co-incident ka naam dena chahiye aap ko :na:

Ager hamaray khyalaat aur aap ke khyaalaat mein hum-aahangi paai jati he to is me mera koi kasoor nahi :lpop:

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....:lpop:

Mr. Sialkoty
28th April 2006, 22:21
lagta he aap ko meri baat ki samaj aa gai he :lol

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 23:11
tauseef bhai....yeh wala answer Amir ne hum se copy kiya hai...
achaa.........:mm:

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 23:17
Aap ka jawab accha laga hume....
aur yeh such aaj India more than 20 lakh female...(I am talking about only female) HIV +ve hai....
strange...lakeen awarness ke liye kaafi bade paimane per kaam chal raha hai...
hope for the best...
thanko :yo: sis

as topic per mein atnaa khul ke tu baat nahin ker saktaa...
per mery khiyal indian media jis taraf jaa rhaa hai...... us soorat
main as ko controll kerna kafi mushkil ho ga....
indian movie n song jo aj sey 10 years pehly thy aur jo ab hain
un mein zameen asaaman ka farq hai..........
ab indian media kafi "forward" hotaa ja rhaa hai
jo kum ummer zehanoon ko bhut mutasir ker rehaa hai......

i think agher log apni family values, and religious valuse ko qaim rekhin
tu yeh HIV ka problem kum ho saktaa hai..........

RulzZ
28th April 2006, 23:21
ScorpioN_RulzZ...... jee
kafi deer mein nin app ke comments ko padhaa hai.......
phir socha hai ke app ke points ka 1 by 1 answer na doon..... sirf
us baat ke taraf tawjaa doon jis nain app ko yeh kehnain per majboor kiya

mein app ke baat samjh giya hoon ke app kiya kehnaa chaah rahy hoo

:embarasse kuch batain aap nahee samajh sakaiy, un ki tashreeh karnay baiTh gaya to aap ko phir lammmmbi si post paRhni paray gee :kr:, maiN aap ko dobara zehmat nahee dayna chahta aik baar to bhugat chokay hain aap :wk..


"islaam per tanz mat kejiye....... muslmano per kejiye"..

muslman tanz karnay kay qabil bhi nahee...
agar is par bhi ghussa aajaiy, to samajh lain, tanz kisi par bhi ho kam kam he qabool kia jata hai, aur kisi kisi ko he samajh aata hai :tauba, jaysay masood ko samajh aata hai, laikin woh mera tanz samajh samajh kar aadha ganja hogaya hai :khi:..


"agher koi shakis kulmey kuffer kehy (ayat ka inkar, namza ka ya ibadaat ka
mazaq uday) tu phir woh dairy islam sey khiraj ho jataa hai
aur agher us jumley per tuba kiye bagir mer jay tu woh muslan nahin
mertaa us ka hasher kuffar ke saath ho ga"

aur na'mehram laRka laRki kay "piyar" say kia hota hai...??:mm:


as liye asker min kafi sakhti sey kisi ko munaa ker detaa hoon...
ab koshis rahy gi ke naram lafzoon sey mana keroon..

aap sakhti karo ya narmi, kisi nay baat sun'ni hogi to donon sortoon main sunay ga aur jis nay nahee sunni hogi aur nahee man'ni hogi aap os kay samnay apna sar bhi phaR lo gaiy tab bhi woh nahee manay ga,,:khi:,


islaah zaroor farmya........ munasib andaaz sey...

seena dehak rahaa ho to kia chup rhay koi...!!
kioN'kar na cheekh cheekh, gala cheel lay koi..

dar'asl ....... kuch nahee, thoRay arsay baad aap sab samajh jain gaiy..

hum apni dar'badari kay mushahiday aksar...
naseehatooN ki tarhaan kam'sinooN main choR aaiy..!!


chalin achi baat hai key app naraaz nahin hwoy......:)
aur mein bus noraml sey bandaa hon dua ke jey ke islam jasy chahty hai
wy sy hum sub momin ban jain (aa meen)

khush rahyee),,,,,:phool:

Ameeen.. :)

tauseeftariq
28th April 2006, 23:54
:embarasse kuch batain aap nahee samajh sakaiy, un ki tashreeh karnay baiTh gaya to aap ko phir lammmmbi si post paRhni paray gee :kr:, maiN aap ko dobara zehmat nahee dayna chahta aik baar to bhugat chokay hain aap :wk..


YEH AUR BAAT HAI KEY MIMBER PEY AA KEY KUCH NA KHAIN
KAMOSH LOG BALAA KE KHATEEB HOTY HAIN


batin tu app ke mein sari ke sari samjh giya thaa..
per mein zaraa behas ko mukhtaser aur to the point
kernaa chah rahaa thaa...
wy sy baat ihaam ho tu us ko samjhnain ke liye mehnat
kernain main koi harj nahin




muslman tanz karnay kay qabil bhi nahee...
agar is par bhi ghussa aajaiy, to samajh lain, tanz kisi par bhi ho kam kam he qabool kia jata hai, aur kisi kisi ko he samajh aata hai :tauba, jaysay masood ko samajh aata hai, laikin woh mera tanz samajh samajh kar aadha ganja hogaya hai :khi:..


tanz bary tanz nahin honaa chahiye..... tanz bary islaah
hona chaiye..... narami sey kafi furq padtaa hai

wy sy fard ke khamiyon per tanz ke bajy infraadi taur
per us ke islaah per tawaja di jay tu ziyda achy naataij
milin gey
himaat mat harin.......:phool:


aur na'mehram laRka laRki kay "piyar" say kia hota hai...??:mm:

Haram hai ..... na mehram mard aur aurt ka milnaa...... simple si baat hai
haan..... nikah ke niyat ho tu nikah sey qabal ek bar milnaa jaiz hai
........... yeh mery us point ka app nain sahi jawab nahin diya..
kalmey kuffer na kahin....... baqi tanz agher kerna zaroori hai tu
munasib indaaz sey samjhaa din...... kiyon ke

"kisi ko mehfil min us ke buri samjhna us ko zaleel kerna aur tanhi mein
samjhan us ke saath neki hai"



aap sakhti karo ya narmi, kisi nay baat sun'ni hogi to donon sortoon main sunay ga aur jis nay nahee sunni hogi aur nahee man'ni hogi aap os kay samnay apna sar bhi phaR lo gaiy tab bhi woh nahee manay ga,,:khi:,

tanz bary tanz nahin honaa chahiye..... tanz bary islaah
hona chaiye..... narami sey kafi furq padtaa hai

ALLAH jis ko hidyat na denaa chahye woh allag baat lekin mehnat
nahin chodni chahiye......


masood bhi ko wig gift kerin gey...... ta key woh mazed tanz samj sekin




seena dehak rahaa ho to kia chup rhay koi...!!
kioN'kar na cheekh cheekh, gala cheel lay koi..

dar'asl ....... kuch nahee, thoRay arsay baad aap sab samajh jain gaiy..

hum apni dar'badari kay mushahiday aksar...
naseehatooN ki tarhaan kam'sinooN main choR aaiy..!!



Ameeen.. :)

be coollllllllllllllll :cool: .....
himat rekhin aur hoslaa..........

wy sy 6 saal sey ziyda ho giya sub mujhy yahi keh rehy hain
"tum khud hi thandy ho jao gey....... ye gusaa khatam ho ga"
per abhi tek aisaa nahin howa....:khi: :khi:

ummid
29th April 2006, 01:13
:embarasse kuch batain aap nahee samajh sakaiy, un ki tashreeh karnay baiTh gaya to aap ko phir lammmmbi si post paRhni paray gee :kr:, maiN aap ko dobara zehmat nahee dayna chahta aik baar to bhugat chokay hain aap :wk..



muslman tanz karnay kay qabil bhi nahee...
agar is par bhi ghussa aajaiy, to samajh lain, tanz kisi par bhi ho kam kam he qabool kia jata hai, aur kisi kisi ko he samajh aata hai :tauba, jaysay masood ko samajh aata hai, laikin woh mera tanz samajh samajh kar aadha ganja hogaya hai :khi:..



aur na'mehram laRka laRki kay "piyar" say kia hota hai...??:mm:



aap sakhti karo ya narmi, kisi nay baat sun'ni hogi to donon sortoon main sunay ga aur jis nay nahee sunni hogi aur nahee man'ni hogi aap os kay samnay apna sar bhi phaR lo gaiy tab bhi woh nahee manay ga,,:khi:,



seena dehak rahaa ho to kia chup rhay koi...!!
kioN'kar na cheekh cheekh, gala cheel lay koi..

dar'asl ....... kuch nahee, thoRay arsay baad aap sab samajh jain gaiy..

hum apni dar'badari kay mushahiday aksar...
naseehatooN ki tarhaan kam'sinooN main choR aaiy..!!



Ameeen.. :)

Musalman kis qabil hai aur kis qabil nahi…aap is ka faisla karne wale koi nahi….
Humara sub se bada problem yeh ahi ke hum apne hi logon per sare aam ungli uthane se nahi chukte…
Musalman tanz ke bhi qabil nahi, who gumrah ho gaye, deen se door hai..bla bla bla…..aise sentences akser ijtema wagaira mein sune mein aate hain aur mujme mein baitha her shakhs is zoor zoor se garden hilaata hai jaise who jin musalmaano ki bat ki jaa rahi hai un mein shamil nahi….
Kyun ke wahan jin baton ka ziker ho raha hota hai who –ve baatein hoti hain…..
Pather ko thoker maari jaaye tu use kya farq pade ga….
Aap yaqeen kijye ager musalmano ko yeh aihsaas dilane ki baajaye ke who kya hain…yeh aihsaas dilaya jaye..tu its realy work….azmaya howa hai….
unhein yeh bataya jaaye ke hum hi mein se hazrat aali(RA) guzre hain, hum hi mein se digger sahaba-e-karam guzre hain, hum ne hi jangein fatah ki hai….tu yeh baatein Iman taaza karti hai….
Na ke her waqt yeh kahte rahna ke musalman gumrah ho gaye….
Hope aap ainda +ve way of thinking apnayenge…

RulzZ
29th April 2006, 01:51
Musalman kis qabil hai aur kis qabil nahi…aap is ka faisla karne wale koi nahi….
Humara sub se bada problem yeh ahi ke hum apne hi logon per sare aam ungli uthane se nahi chukte…
Musalman tanz ke bhi qabil nahi, who gumrah ho gaye, deen se door hai..bla bla bla…..aise sentences akser ijtema wagaira mein sune mein aate hain aur mujme mein baitha her shakhs is zoor zoor se garden hilaata hai jaise who jin musalmaano ki bat ki jaa rahi hai un mein shamil nahi….
Kyun ke wahan jin baton ka ziker ho raha hota hai who –ve baatein hoti hain…..
Pather ko thoker maari jaaye tu use kya farq pade ga….
Aap yaqeen kijye ager musalmano ko yeh aihsaas dilane ki baajaye ke who kya hain…yeh aihsaas dilaya jaye..tu its realy work….azmaya howa hai….
unhein yeh bataya jaaye ke hum hi mein se hazrat aali(RA) guzre hain, hum hi mein se digger sahaba-e-karam guzre hain, hum ne hi jangein fatah ki hai….tu yeh baatein Iman taaza karti hai….
Na ke her waqt yeh kahte rahna ke musalman gumrah ho gaye….
Hope aap ainda +ve way of thinking apnayenge…

Rab-e-Kareem aap ka yeh jazba salamat rakhay..:rose, ta'hayat yeh jazbat qaim rahain, aur yoon he in chopi hoi chingariooN main hararat qaim rhay... agar yeh silsila qaim rhaa to InshaAllah hum islam ko apni pasand main dhalnay kay bajaiy haqiqatan islam kay ain usoolooN main khud ko dhaal kar bay niaaz hojain gaiy.. :rose,
Khush raheay, isi jazbay kay sath..:)

attitude girl
29th April 2006, 03:20
slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:


jys ky dil myn doosry muhabbat ka khyal aa sukta hy
ous ky lye muhubat ayk game hy
aysy logoun ka elaj ye hy ky oun ky bivi by doosry lurkoun kou jan boujh ky apny janwar shohur ky samny dykhy aour dosry lurkoun ky taryf kury takyh aysy murdon kou puta chaly
ky khud py beety tou kya hou
sooly py hy lutka dyna chahyy aysy murdoun kou
bulken zyhr dey ky mar dou
auor jou lurkyan shady shoda admy py nuzur rukhy
ous kou bhy zyhr dy ky mar dou foren sy pyhly.
aysy loug pyda kyon hou jaty hyn?
society ka nasour ban kur?
God sub ky sath ensaf kurta hy
tou hashur ky dyn sy kyun nuhyn durty aysy loug ?
myn tou kuhoun gy aysy loug jub tuk zynda ruhyn
mur mur ky jyen
nah sukon sy jyen na chyn sy muryn amen :dua

shy
29th April 2006, 05:46
dekhin dosri shadi bilaa zaroorat bhi ke ja sakti hai........ app ke akser
batoon ka answer app ko asi page per
yarm bhai ko jo main nain reply kiya hai...... i think comments no 42 ya 43 hai
us main mil jayin ge.....
ke dosri shaid bilaa zaroorat ker sakty hain.....

dosri aur sub sy iham baat ke agher insaf na ker sakty tu hon tu aram
sey behtin koi zaroort nahin 2nd shaid ke :khi: ..
per jo ker sakty hon woh ker lein (mera apna irdaa 2 ka hai.. per abhi pehli bhi nahin whoi):khi:

aur sunaat pori kernain ke liye "wajib" tark nahin ker sakty.....
insaaf kernaa wajib hai............ i kow it........
so jo sunnat samjh ker kerin ........ tu insaaf pehli cheez hai ....

i hope ,,,, ab app samjh jain ge......
haan g samjh gai hun:mm:

ummid
29th April 2006, 15:36
Rab-e-Kareem aap ka yeh jazba salamat rakhay..:rose, ta'hayat yeh jazbat qaim rahain, aur yoon he in chopi hoi chingariooN main hararat qaim rhay... agar yeh silsila qaim rhaa to InshaAllah hum islam ko apni pasand main dhalnay kay bajaiy haqiqatan islam kay ain usoolooN main khud ko dhaal kar bay niaaz hojain gaiy.. :rose,
Khush raheay, isi jazbay kay sath..:)


tu kya aap ko humari baat sahi lagi...:victory:
hme dar lag raha tha keh kahein aap tauseef bhai ki tarah hume bhi aik be intehai baaaaaaaaaaaaaaadaaaaaaaaaaaaaa sa mazmoon na padha dein..(kidding)..:tauba
Aap bhi khush rahiye...her naik jazbe ke saah...:phool:

tauseeftariq
29th April 2006, 15:46
jys ky dil myn doosry muhabbat ka khyal aa sukta hy
ous ky lye muhubat ayk game hy
aysy logoun ka elaj ye hy ky oun ky bivi by doosry lurkoun kou jan boujh ky apny janwar shohur ky samny dykhy aour dosry lurkoun ky taryf kury takyh aysy murdon kou puta chaly
ky khud py beety tou kya hou
sooly py hy lutka dyna chahyy aysy murdoun kou
bulken zyhr dey ky mar dou
auor jou lurkyan shady shoda admy py nuzur rukhy
ous kou bhy zyhr dy ky mar dou foren sy pyhly.
aysy loug pyda kyon hou jaty hyn?
society ka nasour ban kur?
God sub ky sath ensaf kurta hy
tou hashur ky dyn sy kyun nuhyn durty aysy loug ?
myn tou kuhoun gy aysy loug jub tuk zynda ruhyn
mur mur ky jyen
nah sukon sy jyen na chyn sy muryn amen :dua


oh jee araam sey araam sey......... :cool: .....
itnaa naraaz kiyon ho rahin hain app ......... koi reason tu lekhin
app nain tu bhut sari bad duain dey din:tauba
na .. na as tarah nahin kehtey :na: :na: ......:khi:
achaa tu app ko 2nd shadi per itraaz hai.hummmmm :cc:
app nain page 1 per ummed jee key comments nahin padhy kiya..?

aisa kerin app jo pehly reply diye hain sub nain un ko padhin
phir apni ray zaraa wazahat sey din....
aur please itnaa gusaa sahit ke liye achaa nahin:lol

tauseeftariq
29th April 2006, 15:51
haan g samjh gai hun:mm:
tu phir khsuh kiyon nazer nahin a rahin.....:yahoo: ?

Mr. Sialkoty
29th April 2006, 15:59
jys ky dil myn doosry muhabbat ka khyal aa sukta hy
ous ky lye muhubat ayk game hy
aysy logoun ka elaj ye hy ky oun ky bivi by doosry lurkoun kou jan boujh ky apny janwar shohur ky samny dykhy aour dosry lurkoun ky taryf kury takyh aysy murdon kou puta chaly
ky khud py beety tou kya hou
sooly py hy lutka dyna chahyy aysy murdoun kou
bulken zyhr dey ky mar dou
auor jou lurkyan shady shoda admy py nuzur rukhy
ous kou bhy zyhr dy ky mar dou foren sy pyhly.
aysy loug pyda kyon hou jaty hyn?
society ka nasour ban kur?
God sub ky sath ensaf kurta hy
tou hashur ky dyn sy kyun nuhyn durty aysy loug ?
myn tou kuhoun gy aysy loug jub tuk zynda ruhyn
mur mur ky jyen
nah sukon sy jyen na chyn sy muryn amen :dua


If islam allows this all, then where does you stand.
Bibi...mazhab ka ilm hasil karo...isay samajnay ki kooshish karo.....there is no use of beating about the bushes...be logical and come up with a solid proof.

Mishi
4th May 2006, 17:34
aap saab kai jawaab baade interesting hain. iss topic per 2 tarah ki bataou se Mohabat kisi aur Larki se hone ka amkaan ziada hai.
1. wo aadmi apni biwi se kisi bih haal mai Khush nahi hai.
2. Wo aadmi mohabat ka matlab nahi smajhta ...aur her shaitaani Khiyaal ko Mohabat samjh raha hota hai.
Aab ager to wo aadmi pehle point wala typ hai, to uss ki mohabat... kuch jaiz hai... aur wo doosri shadi ker sakta hai...(ager úss ki biwi bih waqiey mai uss kai saath rehne mai kush nahi)
lekin ager wo typ no.2 hai to wo Ghalat kere ga...aur aik DIN ZAROOR Pashtaey ga...(inshallah)

ager khuda naa khawasta mere saath kabih aisy soorat paish aiy, to mai saab se pehle yeh jaanne ki koshish keroongi kai mere Husband mujhse kiou khush nahi..mai apni kamiyaa jaldi door kerongi, un ko mazeed khushiyaa dene ki koshish keroongi... aur ager pihr bih mujhse mutasir naa huey..to gir giraa ker duain maangou gi...aur pihr bih kuch naa hua... to pihr muskraate huey ...Khuda hafiz kerdoongi, aur kahoongi kai ..."aap jaha raheiy, khush rahiey...saari khushiya naseeb hou "...(kiouke mai kabih ye bardasht nahi kersakoongi kai mere hotey huey mere husband kisi aur biwi ko le aiein. )
Aur...aur aur.. kiya pihr baqi rahe ga...siwaey kuch ansoou kai...ussi kai sahare pihr mai jiou gi aur marou gi...

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 08:19
aap saab kai jawaab baade interesting hain. iss topic per 2 tarah ki bataou se Mohabat kisi aur Larki se hone ka amkaan ziada hai.
1. wo aadmi apni biwi se kisi bih haal mai Khush nahi hai.
2. Wo aadmi mohabat ka matlab nahi smajhta ...aur her shaitaani Khiyaal ko Mohabat samjh raha hota hai.
Aab ager to wo aadmi pehle point wala typ hai, to uss ki mohabat... kuch jaiz hai... aur wo doosri shadi ker sakta hai...(ager úss ki biwi bih waqiey mai uss kai saath rehne mai kush nahi)
lekin ager wo typ no.2 hai to wo Ghalat kere ga...aur aik DIN ZAROOR Pashtaey ga...(inshallah)

ager khuda naa khawasta mere saath kabih aisy soorat paish aiy, to mai saab se pehle yeh jaanne ki koshish keroongi kai mere Husband mujhse kiou khush nahi..mai apni kamiyaa jaldi door kerongi, un ko mazeed khushiyaa dene ki koshish keroongi... aur ager pihr bih mujhse mutasir naa huey..to gir giraa ker duain maangou gi...aur pihr bih kuch naa hua... to pihr muskraate huey ...Khuda hafiz kerdoongi, aur kahoongi kai ..."aap jaha raheiy, khush rahiey...saari khushiya naseeb hou "...(kiouke mai kabih ye bardasht nahi kersakoongi kai mere hotey huey mere husband kisi aur biwi ko le aiein. )
Aur...aur aur.. kiya pihr baqi rahe ga...siwaey kuch ansoou kai...ussi kai sahare pihr mai jiou gi aur marou gi...

OMG u so sensitive :cry:

Aap ka reply perh ker inthai khushi hui...aap ba-wafa larki hein...inshallah aap ko hubby bhi wafa-daar milay ga :)

tauseeftariq
5th May 2006, 08:38
aap saab kai jawaab baade interesting hain. iss topic per 2 tarah ki bataou se Mohabat kisi aur Larki se hone ka amkaan ziada hai.
1. wo aadmi apni biwi se kisi bih haal mai Khush nahi hai.
2. Wo aadmi mohabat ka matlab nahi smajhta ...aur her shaitaani Khiyaal ko Mohabat samjh raha hota hai.
Aab ager to wo aadmi pehle point wala typ hai, to uss ki mohabat... kuch jaiz hai... aur wo doosri shadi ker sakta hai...(ager úss ki biwi bih waqiey mai uss kai saath rehne mai kush nahi)
lekin ager wo typ no.2 hai to wo Ghalat kere ga...aur aik DIN ZAROOR Pashtaey ga...(inshallah)

ager khuda naa khawasta mere saath kabih aisy soorat paish aiy, to mai saab se pehle yeh jaanne ki koshish keroongi kai mere Husband mujhse kiou khush nahi..mai apni kamiyaa jaldi door kerongi, un ko mazeed khushiyaa dene ki koshish keroongi... aur ager pihr bih mujhse mutasir naa huey..to gir giraa ker duain maangou gi...aur pihr bih kuch naa hua... to pihr muskraate huey ...Khuda hafiz kerdoongi, aur kahoongi kai ..."aap jaha raheiy, khush rahiey...saari khushiya naseeb hou "...(kiouke mai kabih ye bardasht nahi kersakoongi kai mere hotey huey mere husband kisi aur biwi ko le aiein. )
Aur...aur aur.. kiya pihr baqi rahe ga...siwaey kuch ansoou kai...ussi kai sahare pihr mai jiou gi aur marou gi...

hummmmmmmmmmm.......:cc: :cc: :cc:
1. agher koi apni pasand sey 2sri shadi kery jab key
us ke pehli biwi ke saath achi zindgai guzer rehi hai
tu Jaiz hai us ke liye....

2. han yeh baat sochnain ke hai ke mukhtalif
womans as tarah ke haalat mein mukhtalif terah
key raviye ka muzhara kerti hain..... jay sy app nein
lekhaa hai key....app try kerin ge ke woh ruk jain
phir kuch na howa tu chode dein ge......

khair ALLAH na kary app ke saath aisaa ho.. per
kiya app ko yeh nahin legtaa key agher wife ko
apney husband sey muhbat hai.... tu us ke khater woh
yeh bardsh ker sakti hai...??

wy sy yeh baat mein accept kertaa hon... ke ladkiyon
ke liye yeh cheez kafi takleef dey hoti hai...
per merey khiyal mein agher tumam muamilat
sahi andaaz sey hon tu as takleef key ahsaas ko kuch
kam kiya jaa saktaa hai.....

any ways nice comments mishel.........

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 08:52
hope for the best but prepare for the worst

Aania
5th May 2006, 09:51
hummmmmmmmmmm.......:cc: :cc: :cc:
1. agher koi apni pasand sey 2sri shadi kery jab key
us ke pehli biwi ke saath achi zindgai guzer rehi hai
tu Jaiz hai us ke liye....



2. han yeh baat sochnain ke hai ke mukhtalif
womans as tarah ke haalat mein mukhtalif terah
key raviye ka muzhara kerti hain..... jay sy app nein
lekhaa hai key....app try kerin ge ke woh ruk jain
phir kuch na howa tu chode dein ge......

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khair ALLAH na kary app ke saath aisaa ho.. per
kiya app ko yeh nahin legtaa key agher wife ko
apney husband sey muhbat hai.... tu us ke khater woh
yeh bardsh ker sakti hai...??
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wy sy yeh baat mein accept kertaa hon... ke ladkiyon
ke liye yeh cheez kafi takleef dey hoti hai...
per merey khiyal mein agher tumam muamilat
sahi andaaz sey hon tu as takleef key ahsaas ko kuch
kam kiya jaa saktaa hai.....

aik baat bataye kia Prophets ne bina maslihat ke shauq ke tehat 2sri 3sri shadyaan ki theen ???
haqeeqat main zindagi ko bhi to bardasht hi kertey hein .. ke zindagi hai to jiye jaao ... to theek hai doosri shadi ke bhi rules hain laws hain according to Islam
1) maslihat lao ?? deen ke hisaab se
2) haqooq poorey kerney ke liye legal notice n letters sign up kero
3) mehr adaa kero as according to our Deen its due ... to pay right now when u get nikah or as soon as possible ye nahen ke zor zabardasti ... usi ko force kero later on dvc ke liye n then ... us ke rights kha jao
4) come to the western world ... u gotta see ..
woman rights cannt be dead after dvcd whether she is alone or wid kids... to Islam main to rehmaten barasti hain ... phir muslim man's heart mein insaaf kion nahen ??
neways..
I dont like this topic...

koz for mens.. aurat sach /haq ke liye bhi larrey to ghalat aurat hi hai rahey gi...

bhens ke aagey been bajaney se koi faiida nahen
** bhens= So-called men of ne-society!!!

*Roomi*
5th May 2006, 09:59
Asalam o Alikum


B.V 2nd Shadi kernay nahe Deyti
Koi Lerki Sharing Bar-dasht nahe ker sakti
Islam nay 4 ki Ijaazat di hain Hum yeh Yaad ker letay hain Q Dee hai yeh Q nahe Yaad Hum logoon koo ?????
B.V kay Haqooq Door-e-Hazir may kon Porey kerta hai ?
Nabi Pak Hazrat Mohammad (s.a.w ) kee Seerat Mubarika ka Mutalia kerian us may ( Izwaj ) kay Haqoq Ka mutalia kerian fer wo Haqooq App porey kerian to Ap keh saktey hain kay Ap Haqooq Porey kertay hain.
Mera Sawal Ap Nay 2 Tarbooz Lay hain 2 B.V,s Hain kis Terhan say Taqsim hogi ????????

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 12:18
Welcome to western world hon... to ye batao
ye aadmi log tv pe aankhen phaar phaar ke goriyon ko aur indian actresses ko kion dekhtey hein ?? un ki biwi ne fashion kia to wo gunnah ?
aur doosri bani thani aurten dekh ke apni biwion ka la'n ta'n karen to ye to sawab hai naa?? ye to hadith hai naa?? ye to Qur'an main hai naa?? ke chal merey mo'min bandey doosrey ki aurat pe nazar daal ??

bachu fact mano na aadmi doosri aurat ko dekh ke apni biwi ko behan ko maan ko bura bhala aur haqeer jaaney na aurat .. is terah modernize ho !!!

ab is ke baad merdon ki side li naa... yaa apni biwi pe zulm kia naa to teri to ... :fuming:


dekho aur suno aur ghoor karo

Kudrat ne insaan ko hawas parast banaya he...bilkul doosray janwaron ki tarah...Mazhab insaan ko rookta he...baaz aukaat insaan mazhat ke dairay se bahir nahi nikal pata aur kai kabahatoon se buch jata he...lekin akswer aukaat aisa hota he ke insaan naturally react kerta he...yani wohi kerta he jo nature usay kerne pe majboor kerti he...jub koi merd TV set on kerta he aur wo apne saamne semi-naked costumes mein larkiyoon ko naachta hua dekhay ga to jins-e-mahalaf ko is halat mein dekh ke us ke jazbaat zaroor bharkein ge...aur nature kuch na kuch usay zaroor wohi cheez dekhtay rehna pe majboor karay gi...ager usay apne nafs pe kaabu he to wo channel change ker de ga...aur ager usay apne nafs pe kaabu nahi he to wo naturally usi cheez ko dekhay ga...yeh to sari nafs ki jang he aur sanf-e-mahalf her waqt merdon ke nafs ka hi imtehaan leti hui dikhai de rahi he ...aakhir koi kitna bachay :tauba

Tum fiker na karo...me apni bivi ke saath kabi zulm nai karon ga...me to aik shareef insaan hon na...aur mujay haqook ada kerne ka bakhoobi pata he :blush:

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 12:25
aik baat bataye kia Prophets ne bina maslihat ke shauq ke tehat 2sri 3sri shadyaan ki theen ???
haqeeqat main zindagi ko bhi to bardasht hi kertey hein .. ke zindagi hai to jiye jaao ... to theek hai doosri shadi ke bhi rules hain laws hain according to Islam
1) maslihat lao ?? deen ke hisaab se
2) haqooq poorey kerney ke liye legal notice n letters sign up kero
3) mehr adaa kero as according to our Deen its due ... to pay right now when u get nikah or as soon as possible ye nahen ke zor zabardasti ... usi ko force kero later on dvc ke liye n then ... us ke rights kha jao
4) come to the western world ... u gotta see ..
woman rights cannt be dead after dvcd whether she is alone or wid kids... to Islam main to rehmaten barasti hain ... phir muslim man's heart mein insaaf kion nahen ??
neways..
I dont like this topic...

koz for mens.. aurat sach /haq ke liye bhi larrey to ghalat aurat hi hai rahey gi...

bhens ke aagey been bajaney se koi faiida nahen
** bhens= So-called men of ne-society!!!




Objection Milord :lpop:

Islam mein doosri shaadi ki kai aur sooratein bhi ho sakti hein...ager aik insaan shadi shuda honay ke baad bhi kisi doosri larki ko pasand kerta he to us se najaiz marasam istawaar kerne se behtar he ke wo usay apne nikkah mein le le aur badi na pheelay...lekin shadi ke baad Islam ki rooh se us shakhas per un tamam islami sharait ka itlaak hota he jo islam ne wazah ki hein...jin mein doono biviyoon ke hakook mein aitdaal sub se pehli shart he :lpop:

Waise bhi ager koi bivi yah samajti he ke us ka shoher us ke hakook puray nahi ker sakta to wo legal action le sakti he...through court :lpop:

tauseeftariq
5th May 2006, 12:58
aik baat bataye kia Prophets ne bina maslihat ke shauq ke tehat 2sri 3sri shadyaan ki theen ???



1) maslihat lao ?? deen ke hisaab se


Piyrey Nabi (s.a.w) nein jo shadian ke woh bilaa shuba
maslihat ke tehat thein.....
per yeh as baat ke dalil nahin key 4 sahdian maslhat
ke tehat hi kernaa zaroori hai..
agher aisa hotaa tu baad ke adwar mein sahba e akram (r.t.a) aur tabien (r.t.a) bhi as ko lazam kerty..
per aisa nahin..... 4 shadian apni pasand sey kerny ke
ijazat hai.... mein nein pehley bhi as baat ka jawab
as thread per dey chuka hon.... kai baar.. ab tu woh
ayat aur us ke tafseer post kernaa baqi reh giaya hai
quran mein merd ko us ke pasand ke mutabiq 4 shadiyon ke ijazat hai........ per insaaf kerna lazmi hai








2) haqooq poorey kerney ke liye legal notice n letters sign up kero


yeh kis nin khaa?? yeh usool tu nikah ke waqat
tey ho jaty hain..... allag sey 2nd sahdi sey pehly
yeh documentaion sharan lazmi nahin
huqooq denaa lazmi hai kei baar keh chukaa hon yeh




3) mehr adaa kero as according to our Deen its due ... to pay right now when u get nikah or as soon as possible ye nahen ke zor zabardasti ... usi ko force kero later on dvc ke liye n then ... us ke rights kha jao

Mehr...... on of my fav topics.....
Mehr woh cheez his ke bary mein logon ko Allim bhut kum hai... Mehr aurt ka haq hai quran ke mutabik
mehr sey hi aurtain merdoon per hillal hoti hain.....
mehr hansi khushi adaa kernaa chahiye......
Mehr rekhty waqat bhi yeh cheez bhi dhiyan mein rekhni
chahiye.. ke meher itnaa ho ke ladkaa araam sey adaa
ker saky itnaa na ho ke woh behan kery ...
khair mehr dena lazmi hai agher shohar mer jay
tu us ke Miraas mein sey aurt ko aus ka mehr
adaa kiya jay gaa......... i know this issue in detial
per dosri shadi ka meher sey kiya taluq??????
meher tu her shadi shudaah aurt ka haq hai.....
koi na dy tu yeh us ke jahaalat hai.... us ke waja
sey sub ko bura nahin kehnaa chahiye.......
and zabeerdsti meher maaf nahin kerwana chahiye.. aurt apni merzi sey apni khushi sey maaf kary tu alaag baat hai





4) come to the western world ... u gotta see ..
woman rights cannt be dead after dvcd whether she is alone or wid kids... to Islam main to rehmaten barasti hain ... phir muslim man's heart mein insaaf kion nahen ??
neways..


please anya sis yon tu na khain.... i know ke western world mein aurt key saat kiya salook hotaa hai.....
us ko apney shohar ka kuch pataa nahin ke raat khaan guzri....... and same for husband..... woh apni
wife ke mutaliq nahin jantaa
akhlaqi aqdaar baqi naihn...... sirf naam ke had tek
ek sahdi hoti hai haqeeqat mein tu bhut hi worst condition hoti hai........ as sey behter tu 4 shadiyan hain..
islam aurt ko huqooq detaa hai.... yeh log tab kuch
sadi pehly tahzeeb yataa howy hain..... islam nein tu
aurt ko us waqat sey hooqaq dey rkehy hain jab europ bhi "dark ages" mein thaa.......
agher koi muslim mar galti kertaa hai tu yeh us ke galti hai...... sub ko buraa na kahin.......kai muslim khawteen ko un ke shohar pory haqoo dety hain.....





I dont like this topic...

koz for mens.. aurat sach /haq ke liye bhi larrey to ghalat aurat hi hai rahey gi...

bhens ke aagey been bajaney se koi faiida nahen
** bhens= So-called men of ne-society!!!



again...... achy bury loog sub jaga hoty hain..
jin ka app baat ker rehi hain un mein aksriyat un padh logon ke hai..... jo deeen ke taleemat sey bhi kooson door
hoty hain...... aur kuch jan bhi lein tu us ko samjhty nahin
ya amal nahin kerty....
ALL mens are not like this......

mein bhi apni wif ko us key sub rights don ga ...
:khi:

tauseeftariq
5th May 2006, 13:10
Asalam o Alikum

B.V 2nd Shadi kernay nahe Deyti
Koi Lerki Sharing Bar-dasht nahe ker sakti
Islam nay 4 ki Ijaazat di hain Hum yeh Yaad ker letay hain Q Dee hai yeh Q nahe Yaad Hum logoon koo ?????
B.V kay Haqooq Door-e-Hazir may kon Porey kerta hai ?
Nabi Pak Hazrat Mohammad (s.a.w ) kee Seerat Mubarika ka Mutalia kerian us may ( Izwaj ) kay Haqoq Ka mutalia kerian fer wo Haqooq App porey kerian to Ap keh saktey hain kay Ap Haqooq Porey kertay hain.
Mera Sawal Ap Nay 2 Tarbooz Lay hain 2 B.V,s Hain kis Terhan say Taqsim hogi ????????

1.us ke ijaazt lazmi hai bhi nahin :khi:

2.thats her problem........ wy sy kuch bardasht ker leti hain...

3 kiyon de hai......many reasons for it..agher app ka ishara
anya ke maslehat wali baat ke taraf hai tu us ko mein nein asnwer ker diya hai......

4. me and Munda sailkoti....:khi: just joking,,,

jo pory ker sakty hai us ke baat ho rhai hai us ko tu jaiz hai na..


5.mein nein mutala kiya hai..... per baar khaa chuka hon
hooq adaa kernaa zaroori hai


6. very ez question app nein khaa 2 tarboz lay hain......
tarboz (humm yummy)..

answer yeh hai ke pehly 1 tarboz pehli biwi ko don ga aur us kee saath
khoon gaa.... taa key woh kush rahy
2nd tarboz 2nd wife ko dey doon ga... us ke saath kahoon gaa
taa key woh bhi khush rahy.......



dekhaa ho giya na insaaf aur mein nein dono ke saath apna fav
tarbooz bhi kha liyaa:kr: :hahaha: :kr:

*Roomi*
5th May 2006, 13:19
6. very ez question app nein khaa 2 tarboz lay hain......

tarboz (humm yummy)..

answer yeh hai ke pehly 1 tarboz pehli biwi ko don ga aur us kee saath
khoon gaa.... taa key woh kush rahy
2nd tarboz 2nd wife ko dey doon ga... us ke saath kahoon gaa
taa key woh bhi khush rahy.......



dekhaa ho giya na insaaf aur mein nein dono ke saath apna fav
tarbooz bhi kha liyaa

Mein nay Sawal kia Haqoo Mukamal kernay ka Lakin Ap kay Jawab say Muje Malom howa App Haqooq Porey nahe Ker saktey hain..App ki Soch wahan tak Pounchi he Nahe Jahaan per Haqooq porey Hotey Hain...........

Answer : 1 ) Ager aik mitha howa or aik pika fer ?????

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 13:21
4. me and Munda sailkoti....:khi: just joking,,,

jo pory ker sakty hai us ke baat ho rhai hai us ko tu jaiz hai na..

:omg: :omg: :omg:

ummid
5th May 2006, 13:28
Asalam o Alikum


B.V 2nd Shadi kernay nahe Deyti
Koi Lerki Sharing Bar-dasht nahe ker sakti
Islam nay 4 ki Ijaazat di hain Hum yeh Yaad ker letay hain Q Dee hai yeh Q nahe Yaad Hum logoon koo ?????
B.V kay Haqooq Door-e-Hazir may kon Porey kerta hai ?
Nabi Pak Hazrat Mohammad (s.a.w ) kee Seerat Mubarika ka Mutalia kerian us may ( Izwaj ) kay Haqoq Ka mutalia kerian fer wo Haqooq App porey kerian to Ap keh saktey hain kay Ap Haqooq Porey kertay hain.
Mera Sawal Ap Nay 2 Tarbooz Lay hain 2 B.V,s Hain kis Terhan say Taqsim hogi ????????

waalaikumaasalam..
Aap ke sawal ka jawab hum de dete hain...
ager aisa hai tu us husband ko chahiye ke woh dono tarbooz aadhe aadhe baarber se kaat lein aur aik tarbooz ka aik hissa aur dosre tarbooz ka aik hissa pahli biwi ko de de aur dusri ko bhi isi tarah se tarbooz de...
is tarah ager aik meeta aur aik pheeka howa bhi tu dono ke hisse mein baraber aaye ga..
AM I RIGHT?????

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 13:32
waalaikumaasalam..
Aap ke sawal ka jawab hum de dete hain...
ager aisa hai tu us husband ko chahiye ke woh dono tarbooz aadhe aadhe baarber se kaat lein aur aik tarbooz ka aik hissa aur dosre tarbooz ka aik hissa pahli biwi ko de de aur dusri ko bhi isi tarah se tarbooz de...
is tarah ager aik meeta aur aik pheeka howa bhi tu dono ke hisse mein baraber aaye ga..
AM I RIGHT?????

Waah kia baat he...kia faisla kia he....kia door ki nazar he...kia danai he :yahoo:

Ub mein bhi 2 tarboozon ko kharachay se buchnay ke liye aik terbooz hi le ke jaya karon ga :yahoo:

ummid
5th May 2006, 13:34
Waah kia baat he...kia faisla kia he....kia door ki nazar he...kia danai he :yahoo:

Ub mein bhi 2 tarboozon ko kharachay se buchnay ke liye aik terbooz hi le ke jaya karon ga :yahoo:

yaani aap 2 shaadiyan karne ka iraada rakhte hain........:lpop:

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 13:43
yaani aap 2 shaadiyan karne ka iraada rakhte hain........:lpop:

:lol :lol :lol waqt ka koi pata nahi hota...kabi kabi insaan majboor bhi ho jata he :lol :lol :lol

*Roomi*
5th May 2006, 13:44
waalaikumaasalam..
Aap ke sawal ka jawab hum de dete hain...
ager aisa hai tu us husband ko chahiye ke woh dono tarbooz aadhe aadhe baarber se kaat lein aur aik tarbooz ka aik hissa aur dosre tarbooz ka aik hissa pahli biwi ko de de aur dusri ko bhi isi tarah se tarbooz de...
is tarah ager aik meeta aur aik pheeka howa bhi tu dono ke hisse mein baraber aaye ga..
AM I RIGHT?????
Yeh to Aik lerki ka Sawal Darust Howa hai or Jo 2nd B.V ka Dawa kertay hain un ka nahe soo phele Haqoo-ul-Aabad per Gheri Nazar Durain to us kay bad ki bat or hai.......

Mr. Sialkoty
5th May 2006, 13:46
Yeh to Aik lerki ka Sawal Darust Howa hai or Jo 2nd B.V ka Dawa kertay hain un ka nahe soo phele Haqoo-ul-Aabad per Gheri Nazar Durain to us kay bad ki bat or hai.......

Mera khyaal he yahan per azdawaaji hakook ki baat ho rahi he...hakook-ul-abaad ki nahi :lpop:

*Roomi*
5th May 2006, 13:50
Mera khyaal he yahan per azdawaaji hakook ki baat ho rahi he...hakook-ul-abaad ki nahi :lpop:

App Azdawaji-Hakook Ko he Pakar lain Janab-e-Muhtaram :):)

tauseeftariq
5th May 2006, 14:52
Mein nay Sawal kia Haqoo Mukamal kernay ka Lakin Ap kay Jawab say Muje Malom howa App Haqooq Porey nahe Ker saktey hain..App ki Soch wahan tak Pounchi he Nahe Jahaan per Haqooq porey Hotey Hain...........

Answer : 1 ) Ager aik mitha howa or aik pika fer ?????

1.app khul ker haqooq ke baat poch lein tu hum app ko detail reply de sakty
hain... ab dil ke baat tu banda jaan nahin sakta
mein nein 100 baar sey ziyda as trhead per yeh baat lekh chuka hoon
ke huqooq donon biwion ko same deny hon gy......

2. mitha aur phekey ke baat app nain ab ke hai....... pehly nahin ke the:zuban:
aur us ka humari choti sis nein jawab dey diya hai.... so ab mein kiya zehmat
karoon........

wy sy..... real life mein as sey ziyda seriosu problem ho sakty hain.......
jo app poch sakty thy..:khi:

tauseeftariq
5th May 2006, 15:00
waalaikumaasalam..
Aap ke sawal ka jawab hum de dete hain...
ager aisa hai tu us husband ko chahiye ke woh dono tarbooz aadhe aadhe baarber se kaat lein aur aik tarbooz ka aik hissa aur dosre tarbooz ka aik hissa pahli biwi ko de de aur dusri ko bhi isi tarah se tarbooz de...
is tarah ager aik meeta aur aik pheeka howa bhi tu dono ke hisse mein baraber aaye ga..
AM I RIGHT?????

wah wah jeo behnaa.."tusi gr8 ho"...:salam: .. mein online nahin thaa...... tu app nein
meri gair mojoodgi mein........ achaa answer diya hai
good work sis............:phool: :phool: :phool: :phool:

My ID
5th May 2006, 16:51
jo esa karte hen dil chahta he un ko :nunu: :a stick: http://www.pegham.com/

app to aysa kah rahii ho k jaysa app ki shadii hoi haa:cc: :lol

My ID
5th May 2006, 16:52
wasay jahan tak mera khayal haa k shaadi k badd muhabbat hoti he nahi haa kissi or sa kion k app ko apni wife he etni achi lagti haa k app kissi or ki taraf dekhtay he nahi ager wife app ko bohat pyar de tab

ummid
5th May 2006, 17:11
Yeh to Aik lerki ka Sawal Darust Howa hai or Jo 2nd B.V ka Dawa kertay hain un ka nahe soo phele Haqoo-ul-Aabad per Gheri Nazar Durain to us kay bad ki bat or hai.......

chaliye humara jawab durust howa...:thmbup:
waise ab tauseef bhai aur Aamir jawab na dene ki wajah se do do shadiyan nahi ker sakeinge..:hahaha:
how sad..:(

Mishi
5th May 2006, 18:12
OMG u so sensitive :cry:

Aap ka reply perh ker inthai khushi hui...aap ba-wafa larki hein...inshallah aap ko hubby bhi wafa-daar milay ga :)

:insha: :stars:

Mishi
5th May 2006, 18:18
:wk
hummmmmmmmmmm.......:cc: :cc: :cc:
1. agher koi apni pasand sey 2sri shadi kery jab key
us ke pehli biwi ke saath achi zindgai guzer rehi hai
tu Jaiz hai us ke liye....

2. han yeh baat sochnain ke hai ke mukhtalif
womans as tarah ke haalat mein mukhtalif terah
key raviye ka muzhara kerti hain..... jay sy app nein
lekhaa hai key....app try kerin ge ke woh ruk jain
phir kuch na howa tu chode dein ge......

khair ALLAH na kary app ke saath aisaa ho.. per
kiya app ko yeh nahin legtaa key agher wife ko
apney husband sey muhbat hai.... tu us ke khater woh
yeh bardsh ker sakti hai...??

wy sy yeh baat mein accept kertaa hon... ke ladkiyon
ke liye yeh cheez kafi takleef dey hoti hai...
per merey khiyal mein agher tumam muamilat
sahi andaaz sey hon tu as takleef key ahsaas ko kuch
kam kiya jaa saktaa hai.....

any ways nice comments mishel.........

:) thanks...
Her aurat waqiey mai aik tarah ki soch nahi rakhti, lekin pihr bih ziada ter aurtou ka DIL aik jaisa hi hota hai... mai to yeh smajhti hoon kai be-shaq mujhe apne husband se be-inteha mohabat ho:rose ...mai unko doosri shadi kerne bih de doon...lekin yeh kaise apni ankhou se dehkoon, kai wo kisi aur kai saath hai?... aurat jitni dil ki mazboot hoti hai, utni hi ´kamzor...aur apne husband waale maamle mai to bohat senstive hoti hai...balqe wo bih senstive hoti hain, jinko apne husband se mohabat nahi hoti ya parwa nahi hoti:slap: hmmmm aisya hi hota hai aisi dunia mai:drama:

ummid
6th May 2006, 03:38
:lol :lol :lol waqt ka koi pata nahi hota...kabi kabi insaan majboor bhi ho jata he :lol :lol :lol

han tu Insan majboor hota hai na:bb: ....aur ba-qool Aik Lamha aap tu..............:shh:

ummid
6th May 2006, 03:39
wah wah jeo behnaa.."tusi gr8 ho"...:salam: .. mein online nahin thaa...... tu app nein
meri gair mojoodgi mein........ achaa answer diya hai
good work sis............:phool: :phool: :phool: :phool:

yeh baat aap ko aaj pata chali....:lpop:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 05:57
App Azdawaji-Hakook Ko he Pakar lain Janab-e-Muhtaram :):)

Ager aap kehtay hein to hum paker lete hein :blush:

Aania
6th May 2006, 06:31
Objection Milord :lpop:

Islam mein doosri shaadi ki kai aur sooratein bhi ho sakti hein...ager aik insaan shadi shuda honay ke baad bhi kisi doosri larki ko pasand kerta he to us se najaiz marasam istawaar kerne se behtar he ke wo usay apne nikkah mein le le aur badi na pheelay...lekin shadi ke baad Islam ki rooh se us shakhas per un tamam islami sharait ka itlaak hota he jo islam ne wazah ki hein...jin mein doono biviyoon ke hakook mein aitdaal sub se pehli shart he :lpop:

Waise bhi ager koi bivi yah samajti he ke us ka shoher us ke hakook puray nahi ker sakta to wo legal action le sakti he...through court :lpop:

what does internet-clubs in South-Asian Countries are doing ... btw wud u like to gimme a single example of ne-good place where people
skool/college girl boys are not having bad relations these days??
i m not talkin abt u or people of ur age but the coming generation ..
n btw the way Pakistan is promoting Indian movies in PK where these things r takin to our coming generations ??
haha ..

bad relations .. rakhney se better hai doosri shaadi for man ... that wot u said right ???
what in the case if a man is not givin time to his wife .. n wife is lookin n waiting to get his attention but in the mean while some other guy try to give her love in sympathy or naturally... so she has to marry with a guy right ??

wot man ... ur talks goin beyond deen -mazhab .. thats why i have to write this all kinda explanation ...


i hav a Q

Wud the person who has started this thread...

translate the aayaat of Nikkah here...
then i wud like to go on ... here...

i ll bring u guys the translation ... if he cannt .. but laters... after finishing my skool-work .

key: its abt rights of man n woman on eachother...


still u cudnt convinc me dude... :khi:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 06:31
chaliye humara jawab durust howa...:thmbup:
waise ab tauseef bhai aur Aamir jawab na dene ki wajah se do do shadiyan nahi ker sakeinge..:hahaha:
how sad..:(

:lol :lol :lol

Ub aisi baat bhi nahi...Ummid ager tum merdon ki do shadiyoon ke haq mein ho to mein zaroor do shadiyaan karon ga :kr:

ummid
6th May 2006, 06:39
:lol :lol :lol

Ub aisi baat bhi nahi...Ummid ager tum merdon ki do shadiyoon ke haq mein ho to mein zaroor do shadiyaan karon ga :kr:

sirf do:tomato: .....hum tu chaar ke haq mein hain...:kr:

Aania
6th May 2006, 06:48
:lol :lol :lol

Ub aisi baat bhi nahi...Ummid ager tum merdon ki do shadiyoon ke haq mein ho to mein zaroor do shadiyaan karon ga :kr:

chal fir theek hai u .. naa.. 500 shadyaan kernaa n 30,000 bachey ...
fir aik new country kholnaa ...
zahir hai naa inni shadiyon ke aiezaz main u ko saari dunya se .. gifts n awards milen ge .. fir ham saarey pegham waley bhi u ko mubarak deney aayen ge .. :kr::budhu::lpop:

ummid
6th May 2006, 06:50
chal fir theek hai u .. naa.. 500 shadyaan kernaa n 30,000 bachey ...
fir aik new country kholnaa ...
zahir hai naa inni shadiyon ke aiezaz main u ko saari dunya se .. gifts n awards milen ge .. fir ham saarey pegham waley bhi u ko mubarak deney aayen ge .. :kr::budhu::lpop:

:thmbup: great Aano...:kr:
per in ki country ka naam kya hoga....:cc:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 06:52
what does internet-clubs in South-Asian Countries are doing ... btw wud u like to gimme a single example of ne-good place where people
skool/college girl boys are not having bad relations these days??
i m not talkin abt u or people of ur age but the coming generation ..
n btw the way Pakistan is promoting Indian movies in PK where these things r takin to our coming generations ??
haha ..

bad relations .. rakhney se better hai doosri shaadi for man ... that wot u said right ???
what in the case if a man is not givin time to his wife .. n wife is lookin n waiting to get his attention but in the mean while some other guy try to give her love in sympathy or naturally... so she has to marry with a guy right ??

wot man ... ur talks goin beyond deen -mazhab .. thats why i have to write this all kinda explanation ...


i hav a Q

Wud the person who has started this thread...

translate the aayaat of Nikkah here...
then i wud like to go on ... here...

i ll bring u guys the translation ... if he cannt .. but laters... after finishing my skool-work .

key: its abt rights of man n woman on eachother...


still u cudnt convinc me dude... :khi:





Aanu...dekho...suno...aur samjo :lpop:

Islam ne masail ko hal kerne ke liye kuch tareeka-kaar wazah kiye hein...aur islam ne hi merd ko kuch ziada flexibility di he...zaroor is mein bhi koi maslehat ho gi...islam ne merd ko ziada shadiyon ki ijazat di he...aurat ko sirf us soorat mein ke pehlay tanseekh-e-nikkah karay aur phir doosri shadi karay...then how can u look the both cases with one eye...jo difference he usay samajnay ki kooshish karo...us hakeekat ko mananay ki kooshish karo...Islam se pehlay jis aurat ka shoher merta tha usay satti ker dete thay...yani us ki zindagi shoher ki moot ke saath hi khatam ker di jati thi...lekin islam ne auraton ke hakook ka khyaal kia...ub aurat chahay to 10 shadiyaan bhi ker sakti he...lekin aik tareeka-kaar ke tehat...islam ne jaiz aamaal mein sub se ziada na-pasandeeda amal Talaak ko kaha he...lekin phir bhi yeh jaiz to hay...ager aik merd apni bivi ke azdawaaji hakook puray nahi ker sakta to us aurat ko haq hasil he ke wo us merd se talaak le ke kisi doosray merd ke nikkah mein chali jaye jo us ke hakook puray ker sakta ho...to options aurat ke liye bhi hein...i realize what your talk is all about, but i am helpless to extract any formula by myself which is beyond our religion

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 06:56
sirf do:tomato: .....hum tu chaar ke haq mein hain...:kr:

Lekin char shadiyaan mere haq mein kabi nahi hoon gi :lol

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 06:57
chal fir theek hai u .. naa.. 500 shadyaan kernaa n 30,000 bachey ...
fir aik new country kholnaa ...
zahir hai naa inni shadiyon ke aiezaz main u ko saari dunya se .. gifts n awards milen ge .. fir ham saarey pegham waley bhi u ko mubarak deney aayen ge .. :kr::budhu::lpop:

:omg: :omg: :omg:
Mein insaan hoon Cod fish nahi :lpop:

ummid
6th May 2006, 06:57
Aanu...dekho...suno...aur samjo :lpop:

Islam ne masail ko hal kerne ke liye kuch tareeka-kaar wazah kiye hein...aur islam ne hi merd ko kuch ziada flexibility di he...zaroor is mein bhi koi maslehat ho gi...islam ne merd ko ziada shadiyon ki ijazat di he...aurat ko sirf us soorat mein ke pehlay tanseekh-e-nikkah karay aur phir doosri shadi karay...then how can u look the both cases with one eye...jo difference he usay samajnay ki kooshish karo...us hakeekat ko mananay ki kooshish karo...Islam se pehlay jis aurat ka shoher merta tha usay satti ker dete thay...yani us ki zindagi shoher ki moot ke saath hi khatam ker di jati thi...lekin islam ne auraton ke hakook ka khyaal kia...ub aurat chahay to 10 shadiyaan bhi ker sakti he...lekin aik tareeka-kaar ke tehat...islam ne jaiz aamaal mein sub se ziada na-pasandeeda amal Talaak ko kaha he...lekin phir bhi yeh jaiz to hay...ager aik merd apni bivi ke azdawaaji hakook puray nahi ker sakta to us aurat ko haq hasil he ke wo us merd se talaak le ke kisi doosray merd ke nikkah mein chali jaye jo us ke hakook puray ker sakta ho...to options aurat ke liye bhi hein...i realize what your talk is all about, but i am helpless to extract any formula by myself which is beyond our religion

aurat taalaq nahi le sakti...
aurat ko khoola ka haq diya gaya hai...
be carefull when you talk about Islamic laws....

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 06:58
:thmbup: great Aano...:kr:
per in ki country ka naam kya hoga....:cc:

Wo country ho ga to koi naam ho ga na...avein :zuban:

ummid
6th May 2006, 06:58
Lekin char shadiyaan mere haq mein kabi nahi hoon gi :lol

tu chaar se zyada ker lijye ga....:lpop:

Aania
6th May 2006, 07:00
Wo country ho ga to koi naam ho ga na...avein :zuban:

Poorey kaa poora bacha-party-moms-dad-Jungle ... :khi: :kr:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 07:00
aurat taalaq nahi le sakti...
aurat ko khoola ka haq diya gaya hai...
be carefull when you talk about Islamic laws....

:tauba lafz ka hair phair ho gaya...thanx for pointing out

but what about my other points...do u agree what i said

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 07:03
tu chaar se zyada ker lijye ga....:lpop:

Hi Allah :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush:

Mein ne suna he ke ager chaar larkiyaan ithaad ker lein to aik mazboot se mazboot merd ko bhi phainti laga sakti hein...kia yeh such he :embarasse

ummid
6th May 2006, 07:04
:tauba lafz ka hair phair ho gaya...thanx for pointing out

but what about my other points...do u agree what i said

hmmm...
Aap se agree tu hain....
lakeen kya faida log sirf yeh baat kahne ke liye kahte hain otherwise...ladkiyon se jo tawaqat ki jaati hai us ke baare mein aap acchi tarah waqif honge hi...

ummid
6th May 2006, 07:05
Hi Allah :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush:

Mein ne suna he ke ager chaar larkiyaan ithaad ker lein to aik mazboot se mazboot merd ko bhi phainti laga sakti hein...kia yeh such he :embarasse

pata nahi...hum aik hi ladki hai.....

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 07:05
Poorey kaa poora bacha-party-moms-dad-Jungle ... :khi: :kr:

Yeh country ka naam rakh rahi ho ke jungle ka :lpop:

ummid
6th May 2006, 07:08
Yeh country ka naam rakh rahi ho ke jungle ka :lpop:

kya farq padega aap ko..jahan aap ke biwi bacche wahan aap....

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 07:11
hmmm...
Aap se agree tu hain....
lakeen kya faida log sirf yeh baat kahne ke liye kahte hain otherwise...ladkiyon se jo tawaqat ki jaati hai us ke baare mein aap acchi tarah waqif honge hi...

Well...mein achi tarah wakif hoon...aur ager aik larki chahay to wo rishton ko balanced rakh sakti he aur tawakooaat per bhi pura utar sakti he...sub give and take hota he...Do good and have good...yeh formula merdon aur auratoon doono pe yaksaan apply hota he...To me, maintaining a certain symmetry in relations is not that difficult, you just have to be wise enough to justify your position/relation.

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 07:12
kya farq padega aap ko..jahan aap ke biwi bacche wahan aap....

Sahi kaha :blush:

ummid
6th May 2006, 07:16
Well...mein achi tarah wakif hoon...aur ager aik larki chahay to wo rishton ko balanced rakh sakti he aur tawakooaat per bhi pura utar sakti he...sub give and take hota he...Do good and have good...yeh formula merdon aur auratoon doono pe yaksaan apply hota he...To me, maintaining a certain symmetry in relations is not that difficult, you just have to be wise enough to justify your position/relation.

some times its not so easy...:na: girls suffer a lot to fulfill realtatives expectationzzz....and from here the story began...

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 07:23
some times its not so easy...:na: girls suffer a lot to fulfill realtatives expectationzzz....and from here the story began...

ager nahi rakh sakti to bugtay :lpop:

ummid
6th May 2006, 07:24
ager nahi rakh sakti to bugtay :lpop:

this show cruel menatality.....

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 08:42
this show cruel menatality.....

:embarasse but this is right too

Aania
6th May 2006, 09:24
Yeh country ka naam rakh rahi ho ke jungle ka :lpop:

janweroon waley kaam kerney walon ki jagah jungle hi hoti hai birrooo... kaahey ko insanon ko ultey sabaq sikhata hai ... haan ?? :a stick::nunu::tauba:khi::lpop:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 09:34
janweroon waley kaam kerney walon ki jagah jungle hi hoti hai birrooo... kaahey ko insanon ko ultey sabaq sikhata hai ... haan ?? :a stick::nunu::tauba:khi::lpop:


:omg: Khud hi mere innay waray buchay paida ker ke khud hi mujay janwaron mein shamil ker rahi ho...mein ne kia bigara he tumhara :mecry:

aur me ne koi ghalat sabak nahi sikhaye...mujay jo sabak zubani yaad thay mein ne to wohi sunaye hein :bb:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 10:35
chaliye humara jawab durust howa...:thmbup:
waise ab tauseef bhai aur Aamir jawab na dene ki wajah se do do shadiyan nahi ker sakeinge..:hahaha:
how sad..:(

MS yeh Umeed sis ko dekhoo ...yeh humary sar per sehraa sajaa whowaa
deknaa hi nahin chahti..........

jawab hum nein sahi diya thaa...... yeh tu mask jee nein baad mein
batya hai ke ek tarbooz pheeka aur ek methaa thaa :khi: :khi: :khi:
aur apni galti woh gool ker key me aur ms ko phansaa gay:nunu: :nunu:
hum tu karin ge 2 do shadiyan........ app ayen ge attend kernain :yahoo: :banana:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 12:22
MS yeh Umeed sis ko dekhoo ...yeh humary sar per sehraa sajaa whowaa
deknaa hi nahin chahti..........

jawab hum nein sahi diya thaa...... yeh tu mask jee nein baad mein
batya hai ke ek tarbooz pheeka aur ek methaa thaa :khi: :khi: :khi:
aur apni galti woh gool ker key me aur ms ko phansaa gay:nunu: :nunu:
hum tu karin ge 2 do shadiyan........ app ayen ge attend kernain :yahoo: :banana:

Jub char ki gunjaish he to sirf 2 kyoon :slap:

ummid
6th May 2006, 12:31
:embarasse but this is right too

rights dijye phir right aur wrong ki baatein kijyega...

ummid
6th May 2006, 12:47
MS yeh Umeed sis ko dekhoo ...yeh humary sar per sehraa sajaa whowaa
deknaa hi nahin chahti..........

jawab hum nein sahi diya thaa...... yeh tu mask jee nein baad mein
batya hai ke ek tarbooz pheeka aur ek methaa thaa :khi: :khi: :khi:
aur apni galti woh gool ker key me aur ms ko phansaa gay:nunu: :nunu:
hum tu karin ge 2 do shadiyan........ app ayen ge attend kernain :yahoo: :banana:

sirf aik shaadi attend kareinge.:( ..do do baar humare parents itni door pakistan aane ki ijaazat nahi deinge...:na:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 12:53
wasay jahan tak mera khayal haa k shaadi k badd muhabbat hoti he nahi haa kissi or sa kion k app ko apni wife he etni achi lagti haa k app kissi or ki taraf dekhtay he nahi ager wife app ko bohat pyar de tab

1.yeh kis na khaa key shadi ke baad muhbbat nahin hoti:mm:
hoti hai yaar...... hoti hai........:khi: :khi: :khi:

2. shadi ke mard apni biwi ke ailwaa kisi ko nahin dekhty..:cc: wrong hai yeh:lol

asal mein woh apni biwi ke ailwaa sub ko dekhtey hain :hahaha: :hahaha: :kr: :kr:

just joking

but real mein bhi yeh dono batin hoti hain shadi ke baad piyar bhi..
aur nazroon ke tekraar bhi:khi:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 12:56
yeh baat aap ko aaj pata chali....:lpop:
kabhi kabhi mazak mein hum jhoot bhi bol lety hain.......:lol

ummid
6th May 2006, 13:01
kabhi kabhi mazak mein hum jhoot bhi bol lety hain.......:lol

yaani aap ne ab tak is saare thread mein "mazaq" hi kiya hai...:lpop:

Mr. Sialkoty
6th May 2006, 13:09
rights dijye phir right aur wrong ki baatein kijyega...

I am fully in favour of giving rights...indeed i am a friendly natured guy :blush:

ummid
6th May 2006, 13:12
I am fully in favour of giving rights...indeed i am a friendly natured guy :blush:

yeh tu waqt batayega....aap kitne rights dete hain aur us se kitne zyada wasool karte hain....:bb:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 13:14
bad relations .. rakhney se better hai doosri shaadi for man ... that wot u said right ???
what in the case if a man is not givin time to his wife .. n wife is lookin n waiting to get his attention but in the mean while some other guy try to give her love in sympathy or naturally... so she has to marry with a guy right ??

1.bad realtion sey dosri sahdi behter hai thats right..
as mein u baat zaroori nahin ke first wali biwi shohar
ko muhbbat ya tawajaa na dati hoo...... agher woh shohar sey muhbbat kerti hai.... tu bhi mard dsori
shadi ker saktaa hai........... i hope u will get my POINT
wy sy usa , uk etc mein shohar...... dosri sahdi nahin
kerty per.......... chodo janin do... itney "tehzeeb yafatta" log jo "aurt ke haq" kel iye dosri shaid nahin kerty un ka mazaq nahin udataa aj :khi: :khi: :khi:
2.aurt ko 2nd shadi ka haq kiyon nahin..... many reasons for that........ which i cant discuss here.....
per aurt agher shohar ke saath kush na ho tu khulaa maang ley....... aisaa nahin ke shohar ke geer mojodgi mein...... koi gulat kadam uthaa ley..... same for husband......... woh 2nd shadi ker ley ya agher apni wife ke saath nahin reh sakat tu talaaq dey .. but koi wrong realtion na hoon us key



i hav a Q

Wud the person who has started this thread...

translate the aayaat of Nikkah here...
then i wud like to go on ... here...

i ll bring u guys the translation ... if he cannt .. but laters... after finishing my skool-work .

key: its abt rights of man n woman on eachother...




kal sunday hai.. kal koshi karoon ga key mein
woh ayat translat ker key post karoon ga and some other deails....... then we will see who is wrigt.......

[quote=Aania]
still u cudnt convinc me dude... :khi:

/quote]


abb app "mein na manoo". ka asool apnin ge..... tu hum kiya ker sakty hain:nunu:
:khi:

Important: app nein mery un comments ka jawab nehin diya jo page 3 per hain commet no 90........ kiyon jawab nahi hai kiya...........:khi: :khi:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 13:17
yaani aap ne ab tak is saare thread mein "mazaq" hi kiya hai...:lpop:
nahin.....:na:
sewae-y app ke tareef ke sub such hai.....
:D :kr:

ummid
6th May 2006, 13:18
nahin.....:na:
sewae-y app ke tareef ke sub such hai.....
:D :kr:

koi baat nahi....hum tauseef bhai se apni tauseef karwana bhi nahi chahte...:bb: :mecry:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 13:22
sirf aik shaadi attend kareinge.:( ..do do baar humare parents itni door pakistan aane ki ijaazat nahi deinge...:na:
humari shadi ke taqreeb....... TAJ MEHAL per .. ho gi.....
tab tu app ayen gi naa.......
:yahoo:

ummid
6th May 2006, 13:30
humari shadi ke taqreeb....... TAJ MEHAL per .. ho gi.....
tab tu app ayen gi naa.......
:yahoo:

Taj mahal "per"...tu baithne ki koi jagah nahi...:khi:
han albatta taj mahal "mein" zaror ho sakti hai.....:shh:
waise aap TM hotel ki baat ker rahe hain ya mumtaaz wale TM ki????????:cc:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 13:48
koi baat nahi....hum tauseef bhai se apni tauseef karwana bhi nahi chahte...:bb: :mecry:

ary ary rona nahin...... mujh sey kisi ka ronaa nahin dekhaa jataa

"tusi waqi gr8 ho".. ummid sis.......:thmbup: :thmbup:

tauseeftariq
6th May 2006, 13:52
Taj mahal "per"...tu baithne ki koi jagah nahi...:khi:
han albatta taj mahal "mein" zaror ho sakti hai.....:shh:
waise aap TM hotel ki baat ker rahe hain ya mumtaaz wale TM ki????????:cc:
.... uffffffff tum bhi sadi ho sis :hathora .......
per...... yahan "mein" key meaning mein hi istemaal howa hai.....

:khi: ........ mein mumtaaz+shahjahan waly taj mehal ke hi baat ker rehaa hoon
:khi:
bayta nahin app nein ke app tashreef lein ge ya nahin......:cc: :cc:

ummid
7th May 2006, 03:23
.... uffffffff tum bhi sadi ho sis :hathora .......
per...... yahan "mein" key meaning mein hi istemaal howa hai.....

:khi: ........ mein mumtaaz+shahjahan waly taj mehal ke hi baat ker rehaa hoon
:khi:
bayta nahin app nein ke app tashreef lein ge ya nahin......:cc: :cc:

aaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww....
mumtaz+shahjahan wale taj mahal mein aap aap do shadi kareinge.....ufffff!!:tauba kyun un ki muhabbat ko sharmindah ker rahe hain aap.......
khair hum zaror aayenge....lakeen yeh TASHREEF kaun hai jise saath mein lana hai....:lpop:

*Roomi*
7th May 2006, 11:09
:)

shy
7th May 2006, 21:19
:)
the mask aap ne bohat ache tareeke se baat samjhaei:thmbup: ab Allah kare na samjhon ko samjh aa jaey:khi:

Mr. Sialkoty
8th May 2006, 07:15
Well said khuram...aap ki baat se kisi had tak mujay itfaak he...lekin doosri shadi kerne ki aur bhi wajoohaat ho sakti hein

tauseeftariq
8th May 2006, 08:15
:)

here are answers................ to ur comments

1. mashlat ka hona zaroori nahin....... kai baar bataa chukaa hoon............. so ab tu samjh lein as ko.. aur "lailaa majnoo"
wali muhbbat na hona bhi zaroori nahin sirf pasand bhi kafi hai

2 kiyon ijaazat di hai 4 ke.. us ke mukmul detail nahin di app nain..

3.shadi ke baad jo muhbat kertaa hai us ka kerdaar achaa nahin hotaa????????????? yeh 100 % wrong hai...
dil pey kis ko ikhtiyar hai......
aur kuch logon ke gher waly zaberdesti shaidi apni pasand
sey kerwaa letyaa hain......... ab woh baad min agher apni merzi sey shadi kery tu kiya us ka kirdaar sahi nahin..
thats not fair............... agher yeh case na bhi hoo tu yeh baat
nahin drust....... arab ke kai ulma e akram nain 4 shadiyan ki
jin ke books sey hum aur app deen ko samjhty hain
tu app un ke bary mein kiya khain gey?????????

4. jis ke salry 50,000 hoooooooo????
yeh mein pehly bhi bataa chuka hon key insaaf zaroori hai .. dono ke "aish pasand" zingai denaa zaroori nahin.....
agher 10,000 kamanin wala bhi 2 shadian kery key dono biwion ke ko ek jaisi chezin dey.. tu phir agher woh dono
ko daal roti bhi khliaay tu yeh jaiz hai..
try tu understand the basic rule.....

5.ek achi biwi ke baad... no need for anything?......
yeh app ke soch hai... shariyat ka usool nahin...

6. 4 shadiyan hawas ???
yeh kehnaa galat hai......... jaisaa key mein nain as sey pehly kuch ulma e akram ke misaal di hai
..... ass ka ek answer hai...... jo mein as thread per post nahin
ker saktaa.......


7.i hope ke mein nein app key questions ke jawab de diye
hon gey.........

ummid
8th May 2006, 09:25
ary ary rona nahin...... mujh sey kisi ka ronaa nahin dekhaa jataa

"tusi waqi gr8 ho".. ummid sis.......:thmbup: :thmbup:

hume jhoote tauseef bhai pasand nahi.........:na:

tauseeftariq
8th May 2006, 09:26
4 shadiyon ke ijaazat per akser non muslim bhi itraaz kerty hain..... as per dr.zakir ke ek tehreer mili thi
jis ko mein pori dyant dari sey complete post ker rehaa
hon.. as mein app ko ayat e nikah bhi mil jay gi jis ka
anya nein khaa tha....... aur as hukum ke kuch hikmatin bhi
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Most Common Questions asked by Non-Muslims

POLYGAMY
Question:
Why is a man allowed to have more than one wife in Islam? i.e. why is polygamy allowed in Islam?

Answer:
Definition of Polygamy
1. Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy can be of two types. One is polygyny where a man marries more than one woman, and the other is polyandry, where a woman marries more than one man. In Islam, limited polygyny is permitted; whereas polyandry is completely prohibited.

Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife?
2. The Qur’an is the only religious scripture in the world that says,"marry only one".

The Qur’an is the only religious book, on the face of this earth, that contains the phrase ‘marry only one’. There is no other religious book that instructs men to have only one wife. In none of the other religious scriptures, whether it be the Vedas, the Ramayan, the Mahabharat, the Geeta, the Talmud or the Bible does one find a restriction on the number of wives. According to these scriptures one can marry as many as one wishes. It was only later, that the Hindu priests and the Christian Church restricted the number of wives to one.
Many Hindu religious personalities, according to their scriptures, had multiple wives. King Dashrat, the father of Rama, had more than one wife. Krishna had several wives.
In earlier times, Christian men were permitted as many wives as they wished, since the Bible puts no restriction on the number of wives. It was only a few centuries ago that the Church restricted the number of wives to one.

Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had three wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi Gershom ben Yehudah (95% C.E to 1030 C.E) issued an edict against it. The Jewish Sephardic communities living in Muslim countries continued the practice till as late as 1950, until an Act of the Chief Rabbinate of Israel extended the ban on marrying more than one wife.
3. Hindus are more polygynous than Muslims

The report of the ‘Committee of The Status of Woman in Islam’, published in 1975 mentions on page numbers 66 and 67 that the percentage of polygamous marriages between the years 1951 and 1961 was 5.06% among the Hindus and only 4.31% among the Muslims. According to Indian law only Muslim men are permitted to have more than one wife. It is illegal for any non-Muslim in India to have more than one wife. Despite it being illegal, Hindus have more multiple wives as compared to Muslims. Earlier, there was no restriction even on Hindu men with respect to the number of wives allowed. It was only in 1954, when the Hindu Marriage Act was passed that it became illegal for a Hindu to have more than one wife. At present it is the Indian Law that restricts a Hindu man from having more than one wife and not the Hindu scriptures.

Let us now analyse why Islam allows a man to have more than one wife.
4. Qur’an permits limited polygyny

As I mentioned earlier, Qur’an is the only religious book on the face of the earth that says ‘marry only one’. The context of this phrase is the following verse from Surah Nisa of the Glorious Qur’an:
"Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."
[Al-Qur’an 4:3]
Before the Qur’an was revealed, there was no upper limit for polygyny and many men had scores of wives, some even hundreds. Islam put an upper limit of four wives. Islam gives a man permission to marry two, three or four women, only on the condition that he deals justly with them.
In the same chapter i.e. Surah Nisa verse 129 says:
"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women...."
[Al-Qur’an 4:129]
Therefore polygyny is not a rule but an exception. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to have more than one wife.
Broadly, Islam has five categories of Do’s and Don’ts:

‘Fard’ i.e. compulsory or obligatory
‘Mustahab’ i.e. recommended or encouraged
‘Mubah’ i.e. permissible or allowed
‘Makruh’ i.e. not recommended or discouraged
‘Haraam’ i.e. prohibited or forbidden

Polygyny falls in the middle category of things that are permissible. It cannot be said that a Muslim who has two, three or four wives is a better Muslim as compared to a Muslim who has only one wife.
5. Average life span of females is more than that of males

By nature males and females are born in approximately the same ratio. A female child has more immunity than a male child. A female child can fight the germs and diseases better than the male child. For this reason, during the pediatric age itself there are more deaths among males as compared to the females.

During wars, there are more men killed as compared to women. More men die due to accidents and diseases than women. The average life span of females is more than that of males, and at any given time one finds more widows in the world than widowers.
6. India has more male population than female due to female foeticide and infanticide

India is one of the few countries, along with the other neighbouring countries, in which the female population is less than the male population. The reason lies in the high rate of female infanticide in India, and the fact that more than one million female foetuses are aborted every year in this country, after they are identified as females. If this evil practice is stopped, then India too will have more females as compared to males.

7. World female population is more than male population

In the USA, women outnumber men by 7.8 million. New York alone has one million more females as compared to the number of males, and of the male population of New York one-third are gays i.e sodomites. The U.S.A as a whole has more than twenty-five million gays. This means that these people do not wish to marry women. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. Germany has five million more females as compared to males. Russia has nine million more females than males. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males.

8. Restricting each and every man to have only one wife is not practical

Even if every man got married to one woman, there would still be more than thirty million females in U.S.A who would not be able to get husbands (considering that America has twenty five million gays). There would be more than four million females in Great Britain, 5 million females in Germany and nine million females in Russia alone who would not be able to find a husband.
Suppose my sister happens to be one of the unmarried women living in USA, or suppose your sister happens to be one of the unmarried women in USA. The only two options remaining for her are that she either marries a man who already has a wife or becomes public property. There is no other option. All those who are modest will opt for the first.
In Western society, it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life.
Thus the only two options before a woman who cannot find a husband is to marry a married man or to become public property. Islam prefers giving women the honourable position by permitting the first option and disallowing the second.
There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women.

tauseeftariq
8th May 2006, 09:28
Khawateen ko 4 shadiyon ke ijaazat kiyon nahin?
anya ke sawal ka jawab.....yeh rahaa...... again dr.zakir ke tehreer

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Most Common Questions asked by Non-Muslims
POLYANDRY

Question:
If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband?
Answer:
A lot of people, including some Muslims, question the logic of allowing Muslim men to have more than one spouse while denying the same ‘right’ to women.
Let me first state emphatically, that the foundation of an Islamic society is justice and equity. Allah has created men and women as equal, but with different capabilities and different responsibilities. Men and women are different, physiologically and psychologically. Their roles and responsibilities are different. Men and women are equal in Islam, but not identical.
Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verses 22 to 24 gives the list of women with who you can not marry and it is further mentions in Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verse 24 "Also (prohibited are) women already married"

The following points enumerate the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam:
1. If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father as well as the mother can easily be identified. In case of a woman marrying more than one husband, only the mother of the children born of such marriages will be identified and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to the identification of both parents, mother and father. Psychologists tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances. Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood. If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances in science have made it possible for both the mother and father to be identified with the help of genetic testing. Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not be applicable for the present.

2. Man is more polygamous by nature as compared to a woman.

3. Biologically, it is easier for a man to perform his duties as a husband despite having several wives. A woman, in a similar position, having several husbands, will not find it possible to perform her duties as a wife. A woman undergoes several psychological and behavioral changes due to different phases of the menstrual cycle.

4. A woman who has more than one husband will have several sexual partners at the same time and has a high chance of acquiring venereal or sexually transmitted diseases which can also be transmitted back to her husband even if all of them have no extra-marital sex. This is not the case in a man having more than one wife, and none of them having extra-marital sex.

The above reasons are those that one can easily identify. There are probably many more reasons why Allah, in His Infinite Wisdom, has prohibited polyandry.

Mr. Sialkoty
8th May 2006, 11:46
Tauseef...yeh jo tum ouper beyaan kia he...Yeh Dr. Zakir Naik ki speech ka part he na...cuz, mein ne QTV mein Dr. Zakir Naik ke yeh speech suni thi...

*Roomi*
8th May 2006, 13:52
:)

*Roomi*
8th May 2006, 13:56
Dr.Zakin Naik

wo Aalim-e-deen nahe hain Scoral Zaroor hain
wo such be kahain gay meray Eilam may wo bat na hogi to mein Dr.Naik ki bat per Yaqeen nahe keroon ga Reason jo shaks ( Islamic Law ) may Chage kerta hai us say Suchai ki kia Umeed ker sakta Hoon.
Dr.Naik ki Ive suna kay ( Talaq ) ( 3 Time ) nahe ( 9 Time ) kehnay say Hoti hai so Dr.Naik ko yahan mat lahain....
Dr.Naik ( Kafiron ) wala Libas Tan-zaib kertay hain jab kay ( HADIS ) Mujood hai ( Kufrar ) jesa Hulya Mat bano Apna

ummid
8th May 2006, 14:03
Dr.Zakin Naik


wo Aalim-e-deen nahe hain Scoral Zaroor hain
wo such be kahain gay meray Eilam may wo bat na hogi to mein Dr.Naik ki bat per Yaqeen nahe keroon ga Reason jo shaks ( Islamic Law ) may Chage kerta hai us say Suchai ki kia Umeed ker sakta Hoon.
Dr.Naik ki Ive suna kay ( Talaq ) ( 3 Time ) nahe ( 9 Time ) kehnay say Hoti hai so Dr.Naik ko yahan mat lahain....
Dr.Naik ( Kafiron ) wala Libas Tan-zaib kertay hain jab kay ( HADIS ) Mujood hai ( Kufrar ) jesa Hulya Mat bano Apna

:thmbup: even hum bhi un ki speeches nahi sunte.......hume un ki kuch baatein hazam nahi hoti thi..........isi liye aik se zayad baar sunne ka dil hi nahi kiya unhein....kuch baatein had se zyada hi alag karte hain woh...

*Roomi*
8th May 2006, 14:08
:thmbup: even hum bhi un ki speeches nahi sunte.......hume un ki kuch baatein hazam nahi hoti thi..........isi liye aik se zayad baar sunne ka dil hi nahi kiya unhein....kuch baatein had se zyada hi alag karte hain woh...

koi Gunjaish nahe shaq ki

Mr. Sialkoty
9th May 2006, 07:17
Dr.Zakin Naik


wo Aalim-e-deen nahe hain Scoral Zaroor hain
wo such be kahain gay meray Eilam may wo bat na hogi to mein Dr.Naik ki bat per Yaqeen nahe keroon ga Reason jo shaks ( Islamic Law ) may Chage kerta hai us say Suchai ki kia Umeed ker sakta Hoon.
Dr.Naik ki Ive suna kay ( Talaq ) ( 3 Time ) nahe ( 9 Time ) kehnay say Hoti hai so Dr.Naik ko yahan mat lahain....
Dr.Naik ( Kafiron ) wala Libas Tan-zaib kertay hain jab kay ( HADIS ) Mujood hai ( Kufrar ) jesa Hulya Mat bano Apna

Dekho...mera nahi khyaal ke koi aalam-e-deen bhi deen-e-islaam per itni dastaras rakhta ho ga jitna Dr. Zakir Naik ko he...Aap mujay aik baat bataiye...Is door-e-hazir mein koi aik bunda bhi point out ker dijiye jis per puri koom ka itfaak ho...her insaan apne aap ko akalmand samajta he aur yahi pe wo bewakoofi bhi ker jata he...her cheez ko apni akal ki kasooti per parakhna bhi akalmandi nahi hoti...kabi kabi aap bhi misunderstand ker jatay hein...kuch baaton mein maslehat hoti he aur us ke tamaam pehlu aap ke saamnay ayaan nahi hotay is ka matlab yeh nahi ke us baat mein us logic mein koi flaw he...what you have to develope is a deep insight to look into the matter...In order to critisize you must have an adequate knowledge to justify your logic...otherwise it is useless pointing finger on the person who is a role model in the modern islamic era...

jahan tak libaas kibaat he to mujay aik yeh baat sabit karo ke pant coat kaffar ka libaas he ya isay pehananay mein islaam ne mana kia he...do you know jub islaam ki tarveej ka kaam chal raha tha us waqt loog kia libaas pehantay thay aur ub kia pehantay hein...atleast un aukaat mein shalwaar kamiz ka bhi koi concept nahi tha...waqt ke saath saath libaas mein tabdeeli aai he to is mein koi gair islami pehlu nahi nikalta...yeh tub nikalta he jub aap ka libaas mukamal toor pe aap ke jism ko dhaamp na sakay...ager aap ka ilbaas aap ke jism ko achi tarah se dhampta he to aisa libaas pehananay mein koi burai nahi he

Bhai suni sunai baaton pe yakeen kerne ki bajaye kuch tehkeek bhi kia karo...bohat se gair muslim loog us ki speech se daira-e-emaan mein dakhil huay...wo sirf Quran se references nahi deta...bulke wo her mazhab ki kitaab se aap ko references deta he...he is a logical man and obviously a genius one...

Mr. Sialkoty
9th May 2006, 07:20
Ager aap ko TauseefTariq ki di gai details mein koi shak nazar aata he to point out keejiye...i am totally agree what he wrote

Mr. Sialkoty
9th May 2006, 07:25
:thmbup: even hum bhi un ki speeches nahi sunte.......hume un ki kuch baatein hazam nahi hoti thi..........isi liye aik se zayad baar sunne ka dil hi nahi kiya unhein....kuch baatein had se zyada hi alag karte hain woh...

Aap jo bhi soochein...is se Dr. Zakir Naik ko koi farak nai perta :lpop:

tauseeftariq
9th May 2006, 08:59
:)



1.Maslehat waqai zaroori Nahin........

app ke pehlaa point hai key na merhram ko dekhna gunah hai aur pasand tab ho gi jab dekhin gey.. so gunah ke baat ke hai answer hai

..
"Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."
[Al-Qur’an 4:3]

ab app mujhy yeh batin jab quran nain pasand ke baat ke hai tu ..... phir... app kesy keh sakty hain key without gunaah pasand nahin ho sakti..

mery bhai .. shariyat ke hikmat ko samjnain ke koshis kerin.
according to shriya.... rishty ke liye ..nikah ke niyat sey kisi
khatoon ko dekhna (shaidi sey qabal) jaiz hai..
as per hades shareef bhi mojod hai

aur yeh point app nein kai dafa lekhaa hai app mujhy batin kiya app aj kal ke life mein chahty howy bhi namehram ko dekhnain sey bach sakty hain?
job per, customer services , per app ke family main
app key cousion ktini jagaa khwateen sey wastaa padtaa hai...... mein yeh nahin kehtaa ke its imposible..
mery kehnain ka muqsad yeh hai key as sorat mein app kisi ko pasand ker lein ,,, tu aisa kiya nahin ho skata?

2.agher biwi ke shadi ke ijazat mangey?
aurt ko dosri shadi ke ijazat kiyon nahin as per
agher app zakir ke points pahd lein tu kafi kuch samj jain

mery paas dosry ulm e akram ke tehrerain bhi hain.. per inpage mein lekh ker post kernin ka waqat nahin..

kash app zakir naik per tanqeed ke bajy un key points ko samjhtey :tauba :tauba

3. Piyrey nabi (s.a.w) ke azwaj ke tadaad.....

mery bhai 4 shadiyan at a time jaiz hain..
agher kisi ek biwi ko talaq dey di ya phir.. us ke death ho gi.. tu phir app ek shaid aur ker sakty hain..

ek hi waqat mein 4 sey ziyda nahin ker sakty..
i hope app samj gay hon gey..

Piyary Nabi(s.a.w) ke shaan aisi thi ke un ke her kaam mein himkat thi.. as tarah jo nikha farmy us mein bhi himakat thi..

"Piyary Nabi(s.a.w) ke azwaj sey sahdion ke hikamat"

mein nein padhaa hai bhai as topic per.. agher yeh dalil app dein tu kiya as key baad Sahab e akram nain 4 shadian nahin kein??????????
please read the "tarikh ul khulfaa" aur any historical book
tu app koi kai sahb e akram ke ek sey zaid shaidan milin ge.. ab app un muqadas shaksiyat per kiya kehin gey

4. aur mein nain kafi detail dekhi hai as topic ke :alhamd:

5. dil pey controll koi nahin ker saktaa mery bhai

quran key mutabiq...
1 sey ziyda shadiyon key baad app sub ko same muhbat nahin de sakty...

"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women...."
[Al-Qur’an 4:129]

as ke tafseer mein yahi hai key app ke fitri muhbaat
per app ko conroll nahin....

6.zaberdasti shadi........

mery bhai kon si dunia main rehty ho :tauba
kai ladkon ke fmaily ke daboo ke wajaa sey aisi jaga
shadi hoti hai jahaan woh ziyda intrested nahin hotey
mein asian countreis ke baat ker rehaa hoon..

7.ARAB ULMA E AKRAAm

mery bhai kaash app samjh jaty key mein kin
ulmay karaam ke taraf ishara ker rehaa hoon
.. tu app yeh na kehtey... yeh aj kal ke nahin
woh ulmay akram hain jin ke zarya ham tek hadees phonchi, tafeseer aur fiqah jasey ulomm ke mowajid...

per khair app rehnain din as baat ab dosri dalil sun lein
Sahbia e akram nain bhi tu 4 shaidyan kein jab ke islam
pheali rhaa thaa aur mashliat ke tahat shadi mein koi
zaroori na thi asp app kiya farmin gey....

8.i know ke 4 shadian kerna jaiz hai ..farz nahin

agher app mantey hain tu phir atni sari behas kis baat ki,...
agher sirf maslehat wali baat pey adey hain
tu please as per koi ayat ya hadith paish ke jaye,,,,

tauseeftariq
9th May 2006, 09:20
Dr.Zakin Naik


wo Aalim-e-deen nahe hain Scoral Zaroor hain
wo such be kahain gay meray Eilam may wo bat na hogi to mein Dr.Naik ki bat per Yaqeen nahe keroon ga Reason jo shaks ( Islamic Law ) may Chage kerta hai us say Suchai ki kia Umeed ker sakta Hoon.
Dr.Naik ki Ive suna kay ( Talaq ) ( 3 Time ) nahe ( 9 Time ) kehnay say Hoti hai so Dr.Naik ko yahan mat lahain....
Dr.Naik ( Kafiron ) wala Libas Tan-zaib kertay hain jab kay ( HADIS ) Mujood hai ( Kufrar ) jesa Hulya Mat bano Apna


1. Mein un ke bary mein pori detail jantaa hoon thanks for that info....... i know ke woh alam nahin per mein nein un ke baat ko daleel ker taur per nahin paish kiya
mein nain as liya post kiya hai ke app woh resons padh lein.. jo normaly 4 shaidyon ke jawaz aur
aur ko 2nd shadi ka haq na denain per paish kiya jaty hain
per afsoos....app nein shid pahdy nahin..:tauba

2.jo shriyat ke khilaaf ho woh na manain .. app yahi sahi hai... per as topic mein aisi ko chez kahi kiya unhoon nain?

3. Mery bhai mein janta hoon key zakir naik ke ray kiya hai.. woh thoda Ahle hadees ke maktabe fiakr ke soch rekhty hain..
3 talq ka maslaa, mard aur aurt ke namaz ka farq..
etc............ bhut sey cehzin un ke speaces mein wrong
thein jin ke correction ke liye mein nin ulma akram sey
poch liya thaa

Main khud SUNI hon and i know ke zakir naik ka aur humara kiya farq hai fiqah aur qaid mein

per mei un ko taqbul e idyan (compartive relegions) ke hisaab sey padh letaa hon ..
aur yahn jo cheez post ke hai.. us mein asi ko badi baat thi nahin,,,,,, as i said before...... degeer ulma e karm
ke tahreer bhi hain as topic per .. inpage mein lekhna aur post kerna kafi time lagtaa hai

4. kafron walaa libaas :tauba
uff........ itnaa bachon wala itraaz:tauba ..
bhai aqaid aur fiqah ke ikhtalf hai un sey per yeh kiya
aitraaz howa...

kabhi app nein kisi mufti sey cot aur pent pehnain per fatwa liya hai?..
app ko shid un ka jawab sun ker harat ho gi..
mein nian pochaa thaa ek dafaa....
unhoon nein khaa ke libaas ka bunyadi usoll yeh hai key
"pardaa rahy badan ka aur sakhat na zahir ho jism ke..
.. as sortat mein cot aur pant ko app shriyat ke itbar sey
na jaiz nahin keh sakty.."
even key woh keh rehy thaa ke "Makrooh" bhi nain keh sakty.. agher bhut bhi kahin tu sirf napasndeedah koi keh ley.. yani as per koi FAQHAI islaah (markoh,haram etc)
woh use nahin kerna chah rahy they..i hope ke app jawab samjh gay hon gey..

so please jo itraaz kerin woh soch ker kerin
..app nain jo un key fiqah key mutlik itraaz kiya woha achaa thaa..... per yeh tu :tauba

5.aur please app bhi kisi Alem den ke ya quran aur hadees key hawaley sey sabit kerin key
Q. 4 shadion ke liye maslehat zaroori hai???

tauseeftariq
9th May 2006, 09:24
Ager aap ko TauseefTariq ki di gai details mein koi shak nazar aata he to point out keejiye...i am totally agree what he wrote

Thanks A lot MS.........:phool: :phool: :phool: :phool: :phool: :phool: :phool:

ummid
9th May 2006, 09:39
Aap jo bhi soochein...is se Dr. Zakir Naik ko koi farak nai perta :lpop:

farq tu kisi ko bhi kisi ki soach se nahi padhta..........
hum sirf itna jaante hain keh jis baat ko humare dil-w-dimag na qoobole hum woh kaam nahi karte.......

tauseeftariq
9th May 2006, 09:47
ek cheez clear ker doon...... key pent cot ko mein nin jaiz khaa hai ...
per tai pehnaa Jaiz nahin....... yeh baat yad rahy.. coz.. christian ke mutaabik
+ ke jagaa hai,,,,,,,,,,,,
(aur mujhy pata hai zakir naik tai pehnty hain.. yeh un ke nazdeek jaiz hai
per humary ulmaa ke nazdeek nahin)...

Mr. Sialkoty
9th May 2006, 11:07
Thanks A lot MS.........:phool: :phool: :phool: :phool: :phool: :phool: :phool:

mention not :wk

Mr. Sialkoty
9th May 2006, 11:11
farq tu kisi ko bhi kisi ki soach se nahi padhta..........
hum sirf itna jaante hain keh jis baat ko humare dil-w-dimag na qoobole hum woh kaam nahi karte.......

hmmm...theek he...ap apne dil-o-dimaag ki maaniye :rose

*Roomi*
9th May 2006, 16:12
Dekho...mera nahi khyaal ke koi aalam-e-deen bhi deen-e-islaam per itni dastaras rakhta ho ga jitna Dr. Zakir Naik ko he...Aap mujay aik baat bataiye...Is door-e-hazir mein koi aik bunda bhi point out ker dijiye jis per puri koom ka itfaak ho...her insaan apne aap ko akalmand samajta he aur yahi pe wo bewakoofi bhi ker jata he...her cheez ko apni akal ki kasooti per parakhna bhi akalmandi nahi hoti...kabi kabi aap bhi misunderstand ker jatay hein...kuch baaton mein maslehat hoti he aur us ke tamaam pehlu aap ke saamnay ayaan nahi hotay is ka matlab yeh nahi ke us baat mein us logic mein koi flaw he...what you have to develope is a deep insight to look into the matter...In order to critisize you must have an adequate knowledge to justify your logic...otherwise it is useless pointing finger on the person who is a role model in the modern islamic era...

jahan tak libaas kibaat he to mujay aik yeh baat sabit karo ke pant coat kaffar ka libaas he ya isay pehananay mein islaam ne mana kia he...do you know jub islaam ki tarveej ka kaam chal raha tha us waqt loog kia libaas pehantay thay aur ub kia pehantay hein...atleast un aukaat mein shalwaar kamiz ka bhi koi concept nahi tha...waqt ke saath saath libaas mein tabdeeli aai he to is mein koi gair islami pehlu nahi nikalta...yeh tub nikalta he jub aap ka libaas mukamal toor pe aap ke jism ko dhaamp na sakay...ager aap ka ilbaas aap ke jism ko achi tarah se dhampta he to aisa libaas pehananay mein koi burai nahi he

Bhai suni sunai baaton pe yakeen kerne ki bajaye kuch tehkeek bhi kia karo...bohat se gair muslim loog us ki speech se daira-e-emaan mein dakhil huay...wo sirf Quran se references nahi deta...bulke wo her mazhab ki kitaab se aap ko references deta he...he is a logical man and obviously a genius one...

Mein Islam per esi liye nahe likta q kay Bhes zaida Aamal kam hota hai :)

*Roomi*
9th May 2006, 16:18
1.Maslehat waqai zaroori Nahin........

app ke pehlaa point hai key na merhram ko dekhna gunah hai aur pasand tab ho gi jab dekhin gey.. so gunah ke baat ke hai answer hai

..
"Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."
[Al-Qur’an 4:3]

ab app mujhy yeh batin jab quran nain pasand ke baat ke hai tu ..... phir... app kesy keh sakty hain key without gunaah pasand nahin ho sakti..

mery bhai .. shariyat ke hikmat ko samjnain ke koshis kerin.
according to shriya.... rishty ke liye ..nikah ke niyat sey kisi
khatoon ko dekhna (shaidi sey qabal) jaiz hai..
as per hades shareef bhi mojod hai

aur yeh point app nein kai dafa lekhaa hai app mujhy batin kiya app aj kal ke life mein chahty howy bhi namehram ko dekhnain sey bach sakty hain?
job per, customer services , per app ke family main
app key cousion ktini jagaa khwateen sey wastaa padtaa hai...... mein yeh nahin kehtaa ke its imposible..
mery kehnain ka muqsad yeh hai key as sorat mein app kisi ko pasand ker lein ,,, tu aisa kiya nahin ho skata?

2.agher biwi ke shadi ke ijazat mangey?
aurt ko dosri shadi ke ijazat kiyon nahin as per
agher app zakir ke points pahd lein tu kafi kuch samj jain

mery paas dosry ulm e akram ke tehrerain bhi hain.. per inpage mein lekh ker post kernin ka waqat nahin..

kash app zakir naik per tanqeed ke bajy un key points ko samjhtey :tauba :tauba

3. Piyrey nabi (s.a.w) ke azwaj ke tadaad.....

mery bhai 4 shadiyan at a time jaiz hain..
agher kisi ek biwi ko talaq dey di ya phir.. us ke death ho gi.. tu phir app ek shaid aur ker sakty hain..

ek hi waqat mein 4 sey ziyda nahin ker sakty..
i hope app samj gay hon gey..

Piyary Nabi(s.a.w) ke shaan aisi thi ke un ke her kaam mein himkat thi.. as tarah jo nikha farmy us mein bhi himakat thi..

"Piyary Nabi(s.a.w) ke azwaj sey sahdion ke hikamat"

mein nein padhaa hai bhai as topic per.. agher yeh dalil app dein tu kiya as key baad Sahab e akram nain 4 shadian nahin kein??????????
please read the "tarikh ul khulfaa" aur any historical book
tu app koi kai sahb e akram ke ek sey zaid shaidan milin ge.. ab app un muqadas shaksiyat per kiya kehin gey

4. aur mein nain kafi detail dekhi hai as topic ke :alhamd:

5. dil pey controll koi nahin ker saktaa mery bhai

quran key mutabiq...
1 sey ziyda shadiyon key baad app sub ko same muhbat nahin de sakty...

"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women...."
[Al-Qur’an 4:129]

as ke tafseer mein yahi hai key app ke fitri muhbaat
per app ko conroll nahin....

6.zaberdasti shadi........

mery bhai kon si dunia main rehty ho :tauba
kai ladkon ke fmaily ke daboo ke wajaa sey aisi jaga
shadi hoti hai jahaan woh ziyda intrested nahin hotey
mein asian countreis ke baat ker rehaa hoon..

7.ARAB ULMA E AKRAAm

mery bhai kaash app samjh jaty key mein kin
ulmay karaam ke taraf ishara ker rehaa hoon
.. tu app yeh na kehtey... yeh aj kal ke nahin
woh ulmay akram hain jin ke zarya ham tek hadees phonchi, tafeseer aur fiqah jasey ulomm ke mowajid...

per khair app rehnain din as baat ab dosri dalil sun lein
Sahbia e akram nain bhi tu 4 shaidyan kein jab ke islam
pheali rhaa thaa aur mashliat ke tahat shadi mein koi
zaroori na thi asp app kiya farmin gey....

8.i know ke 4 shadian kerna jaiz hai ..farz nahin

agher app mantey hain tu phir atni sari behas kis baat ki,...
agher sirf maslehat wali baat pey adey hain
tu please as per koi ayat ya hadith paish ke jaye,,,,

App ko Answer Urdu may lik ker Post keron ga kuch sabar :)

Mr. Sialkoty
10th May 2006, 07:02
Mein Islam per esi liye nahe likta q kay Bhes zaida Aamal kam hota hai :)

Its not a logic :)

*Roomi*
10th May 2006, 09:26
Its not a logic :)
App nay Darust kaha yeh Logic nahe yeh Haqeqat hai

ummid
10th May 2006, 09:58
Mein Islam per esi liye nahe likta q kay Bhes zaida Aamal kam hota hai :)

jub log burai se nahi rukte tu aap acchai se kyun ruk gaye..:bb:

Mr. Sialkoty
10th May 2006, 11:32
App nay Darust kaha yeh Logic nahe yeh Haqeqat hai

Lekin mere khyaal se aap ne drust nahi kaha :lpop:

*Roomi*
11th May 2006, 09:46
jub log burai se nahi rukte tu aap acchai se kyun ruk gaye..:bb:

Hmm Sahi kaha Sochtey hain :)

fari
11th May 2006, 20:47
:lpop: mujhay abhi tk ya logic samjh nahi ayi ya MARDON KI BATHAK ma har waqt shadi ka topic per bahasss kiun hoti ha
kiya dunia ma aur koi kam nahi ha app logo ko is ka illawa:khi: :cc:

tauseeftariq
12th May 2006, 09:36
:lpop: mujhay abhi tk ya logic samjh nahi ayi ya MARDON KI BATHAK ma har waqt shadi ka topic per bahasss kiun hoti ha
kiya dunia ma aur koi kam nahi ha app logo ko is ka illawa:khi: :cc:

koi aur kamm .......:cc: :cc: :cc: :cc:

not realy... :kr: :kr:

koi aur kaam kerin tu 4 shadion kon kery gaa..:donno: ..:kr:

ummid
12th May 2006, 09:51
koi aur kamm .......:cc: :cc: :cc: :cc:

not realy... :kr: :kr:

koi aur kaam kerin tu 4 shadion kon kery gaa..:donno: ..:kr:

bus!! mazaq na banaye tausef bhai...aap(PBUH) se jodi baatein hain yeh.....:na:

*Roomi*
13th May 2006, 09:53
4 : 3 Surah Nisa Para # 4 Aayat # 3

My Dear Brother es Hawala Jat ko mein nay " Tafser -ib-e-Kaseer May Mutalia kia or Yahan per too " Yatemoon " ka Zikar kia giya hai

{kay Ager Tum Yateem Girls say Nikah ker kay Insaf na Rakh sako gay to or Aurton may say jo be Passand Hoon 2,2. 3,3 . 4,4 say Lakin ager tumhain Barabri na ker sakney ka Kuf ho to Aik he Kafi hai }

Abb jis Passand ki App bat ker rahay ho us may or Quran ki es Passand may Farq Kafi Hai so kam az kam App Half Aayat ka Tarjuma na laya kerian Tarjuma Peash kerna hai to Mukamal Aayat ka peash kerian or yeh be Dhekain kay yeh Aayat kis Muzo per hai.......
.................................................. .......................

4 : 3 Surah Nisa Para 5th Aayat 129th

{ Tum say yeh to Kabi na Ho sakey ga k Apne Tamam Wifes may her Terhan Aadal kero Goo Tum es ki Kitni he Kawaish wo kosish ker lo, es liye bilkul he aik Taraf mahil ho per dosri ko udar Latakta mat choro or ager tum eslah kero to be-shak Allah Bari Magfirat awr Rehmat wala hai.}
.................................................. .......................

Abb kahan lika hai k Banda Kawahishat per Control nahe ker sakta hai Yahaan lika hai kay Wifes may Her terhan ka Aadal kerna Mushkil hai Lakin un kay sath Na-Insafi be Nahe kerooo.......

Insani Kawaish ka Ziker tak nahe or App Dalil k tor per peash kertay hain.. My Dear Brother App Dr.Naik k sath sath Aasal ko be Mtalia ker lia keroo Half Half Aayat per ker Galt Meaning mat nikalain es per sakt Pakar hai... Allah Bheter Janta Hai.......

Allah Hafiz

*Roomi*
13th May 2006, 10:50
Women 2nd Marrige:

Aik waqt may 2 Shadiyan nahe ker sakti Aik Aurat.

Ager App 2nd Shadi ker lain or App ki wife App say kula lay to kia App deyna Passand kerian gay ?

Kula kay bad Aurat Edat kay bad Shadi kernay ka haq Rakhti hai.

tauseeftariq
16th May 2006, 21:16
4 : 3 Surah Nisa Para # 4 Aayat # 3

My Dear Brother es Hawala Jat ko mein nay " Tafser -ib-e-Kaseer May Mutalia kia or Yahan per too " Yatemoon " ka Zikar kia giya hai

{kay Ager Tum Yateem Girls say Nikah ker kay Insaf na Rakh sako gay to or Aurton may say jo be Passand Hoon 2,2. 3,3 . 4,4 say Lakin ager tumhain Barabri na ker sakney ka Kuf ho to Aik he Kafi hai }

Abb jis Passand ki App bat ker rahay ho us may or Quran ki es Passand may Farq Kafi Hai so kam az kam App Half Aayat ka Tarjuma na laya kerian Tarjuma Peash kerna hai to Mukamal Aayat ka peash kerian or yeh be Dhekain kay yeh Aayat kis Muzo per hai.......
.................................................. .......................

4 : 3 Surah Nisa Para 5th Aayat 129th

{ Tum say yeh to Kabi na Ho sakey ga k Apne Tamam Wifes may her Terhan Aadal kero Goo Tum es ki Kitni he Kawaish wo kosish ker lo, es liye bilkul he aik Taraf mahil ho per dosri ko udar Latakta mat choro or ager tum eslah kero to be-shak Allah Bari Magfirat awr Rehmat wala hai.}
.................................................. .......................

Abb kahan lika hai k Banda Kawahishat per Control nahe ker sakta hai Yahaan lika hai kay Wifes may Her terhan ka Aadal kerna Mushkil hai Lakin un kay sath Na-Insafi be Nahe kerooo.......

Insani Kawaish ka Ziker tak nahe or App Dalil k tor per peash kertay hain.. My Dear Brother App Dr.Naik k sath sath Aasal ko be Mtalia ker lia keroo Half Half Aayat per ker Galt Meaning mat nikalain es per sakt Pakar hai... Allah Bheter Janta Hai.......

Allah Hafiz

mein kafi din baad aj PG per aya hoon so app ko wait kerna padaa.. sorry for that........ but..
here are the answers.........

1.app nein mery kafi question ka jawab nahin diya
please un ka jawab arz ker din..
maslan.. Sahbey Akraam nain 4 shadiyan kiyon kein?
Mashliat hona ke zaroort quran and hadit sey?
etc ..as tarh ke degar sawalat

2.App nain jo ayat ke tafseer padhi hai woh kafi ahci tafseer ke book hai....

per app nien yeh wrong khaa hai ke mein nein adhi ayat paish ke hai.. mujhy as tarah ke kaam kernin waloon sey nafart hai..

ab meri baat samjhin..

yeh ayat ek khaas mozoo (topic) ke zikar mein nazal howi hai yani yateemon ke haqooq ke baat chal rahi hai
as sey qabal aur phir khaa giya ker agher yateem ladkiyon sey insaaf na kar sakoo tu degar khwateen main sey nikah ker leo 2.3ya 4 sey..

tu as ayat ka "hukum" "aam" hai... yeh dono fiqhai
istilahat hain... it mean ke as ayat ke theat 4 shadiyon ke ijazat hai pasand sey..

agher app degar kafi tafseer dekh lein tu app ko yahi baat mili gi.. app kisi alem deen sey bhi confrom ker lein
key as ayat ka tehat kiya "hukum" samnain ataa hai..
ya kiya as ayat ke that 4 shaidan kerna jaiz hai ya nahin
tu app ko as cheez ke aur bhi wazat hoo jay gi

and app nain khud jo tafseer lekhi hai us min bhi yeh baat wazah hey key yateem key ailwa bhi 4 shaidyon ke ijazat di gi hai...

i hope app samjh gay hon gey

3.Insaaf?????

insaaf wali ayt mein nin pehly bhi lekhi thi aur us ke tafseer bhi........... app as ke tafseer ko kai jagaa dekhin tu baat app samj jain gey

yahan muraad yeh hai ke Dili taaur per app ka jhokaa sub ke taraf ek jaisy nahin ho saktaa yeh fitri baat hai
kay app kisi ko ziyda muhbbat kerin gey... as liye yaan yeh tanbhih ke gi hai key us ke taraaf bhut ziyda na jhuk jo key insaaf ka damn chot jay
please app as ke tafseer mazeed books mein dekhin tu clear ho jay gaa

agher insaaf ho na saktaa hotaa tu quran mein dosri ayat mein 4 shadiyon ke ijaazat key saath insaaf ka hukum kiyon hai.... ?
kiya ek aisi baat ka hukum hai jo koi nahin ker saktaa?

as liye yaahn as sey muraad Dili taur per kisi ek sey ziyda muhbat kernaa hai............

i hope key app key sub question ka jawab mein nin
dey diya hai..
aur umeed kertaa hoon app mery sub previous question
ka jawab hi jald dein gey..

tauseeftariq
16th May 2006, 21:21
Women 2nd Marrige:

Aik waqt may 2 Shadiyan nahe ker sakti Aik Aurat.

Ager App 2nd Shadi ker lain or App ki wife App say kula lay to kia App deyna Passand kerian gay ?

Kula kay bad Aurat Edat kay bad Shadi kernay ka haq Rakhti hai.

agher meri biwi mery saath na rehna chahy tu mein us per zaberdasti nahin
karoon ga... mujhy us ke life ko zaberdesti apni pasand ke mutabik kerna ka koi haq nahin..

YES .. mein us ko ijazat dey don gaa..........

Khulaa aur ley sakti hai.. no problem.....
yani yeh problem ab clear oks.........

tauseeftariq
16th May 2006, 21:23
bus!! mazaq na banaye tausef bhai...aap(PBUH) se jodi baatein hain yeh.....:na:

arry sis.. fari nein ko long disscu'n nahin ke just for fun ek baat ke thi
jis ka jawab mazak mein de diya

per if u still think that is not ok
then sorry sis:mecry:
ab khus?:yahoo:

tauseeftariq
16th May 2006, 21:26
The Mask bhai mery most fav8 and ideal Alem deen
"Alamaa Mulaana AL-shah Imaam Ahmed raza Fazil-e-Barailwi (R..T.A.)
hain...
un ka fatwa mery nazdeek bhut ihaam hotaa hai any topic per

zakir naik ko sirf comparitive relgions ke hawaly sey padhaa hai...

ummid
17th May 2006, 03:19
arry sis.. fari nein ko long disscu'n nahin ke just for fun ek baat ke thi
jis ka jawab mazak mein de diya

per if u still think that is not ok
then sorry sis:mecry:
ab khus?:yahoo:

aisi baat nhai hai tauseef bhai..............aap ke sorry se hume bhala kya khushi hogi............sirf ehsas dilana humara maqsad tha...........:embarasse

*Roomi*
17th May 2006, 12:33
1) 4 Shadiain Kerna mana nahe es say mein agree hoon...

2) 4 ki Ijazat Quran nay de es say be Agree Hoon

3) Insaf rakho to aik sath 4 kero marzi Ap ki :)

4) Baqi mukamal Bhes may koi bat buri lagi to Maufi chata hin :)

Allah hafiz

tauseeftariq
19th May 2006, 21:45
1) 4 Shadiain Kerna mana nahe es say mein agree hoon...

2) 4 ki Ijazat Quran nay de es say be Agree Hoon

3) Insaf rakho to aik sath 4 kero marzi Ap ki :)

4) Baqi mukamal Bhes may koi bat buri lagi to Maufi chata hin :)

Allah hafiz


Ary naih ..the mask bhai naraazgi ke koi baat nahin .. agher bhas kisi cheez
ko samjhnian ke liye ho tu achaa hai

app ke apni soch thi... per app nien jo drust samjha woh final comments mein lekha hai.. thanks..

shkar hai app nein bhas ko sahi andaz sey samit liyea..

khush rahiya............ ALLAH sub ko apni amaan mein rakhy

ALLAH HAFIZ

Mr. Sialkoty
20th May 2006, 06:58
1) 4 Shadiain Kerna mana nahe es say mein agree hoon...

2) 4 ki Ijazat Quran nay de es say be Agree Hoon

3) Insaf rakho to aik sath 4 kero marzi Ap ki :)

4) Baqi mukamal Bhes may koi bat buri lagi to Maufi chata hin :)

Allah hafiz

Thats like a good boy :lpop:

*Samra*
20th March 2009, 16:05
Yeh thread kaafi interesting laga mujhe

:cc:


:fn: iss topic se mai kaaaafi ulaajh jaati hoon:rolleyes:

Mai to yeh samjhti hoon ke Mohabbat ager shadi ke baad hojaati he to uski 2 wajah hosakti hain... aik yeh ke pehle dono partners apis me khush nahi hain

doosri yeh ke dillagi ko mohabat samjha jaraha ho.

Waise 1000 1000 Mohabatain kerne waale wohi log hote hain jo mohabat ka matlab nahi jaante...aur larkiou se jhooti mohabat ke daawe kerte hain.

aabi2cool
20th March 2009, 19:05
yeh Thread Kaafi Interesting Laga Mujhe

:cc:


:fn: Iss Topic Se Mai Kaaaafi Ulaajh Jaati Hoon:rolleyes:

mai To Yeh Samjhti Hoon Ke Mohabbat Ager Shadi Ke Baad Hojaati He To Uski 2 Wajah Hosakti Hain... Aik Yeh Ke Pehle Dono Partners Apis Me Khush Nahi Hain

doosri Yeh Ke Dillagi Ko Mohabat Samjha Jaraha Ho.

waise 1000 1000 Mohabatain Kerne Waale Wohi Log Hote Hain Jo Mohabat Ka Matlab Nahi Jaante...aur Larkiou Se Jhooti Mohabat Ke Daawe Kerte Hain.


توآپ کہ نزدیک محبت کیا ہے ؟ کیا کچھ وضاحت فرمائیں گی؟ اور یہ کہ جھوٹی محبت کہ معاملے میں فقط لڑکوں کا زکر کیوں کیا ؟

D@y W@lk3r
20th March 2009, 21:35
Yeh thread kaafi interesting laga mujhe

:cc:


:fn: iss topic se mai kaaaafi ulaajh jaati hoon:rolleyes:

Mai to yeh samjhti hoon ke Mohabbat ager shadi ke baad hojaati he to uski 2 wajah hosakti hain... aik yeh ke pehle dono partners apis me khush nahi hain

doosri yeh ke dillagi ko mohabat samjha jaraha ho.

Waise 1000 1000 Mohabatain kerne waale wohi log hote hain jo mohabat ka matlab nahi jaante...aur larkiou se jhooti mohabat ke daawe kerte hain.
me to aabi bhai jaisa nahi..main to bohat sidha hoon:donno:

aabi2cool
21st March 2009, 12:56
me to aabi bhai jaisa nahi..main to bohat sidha hoon:donno:
bilkul aap mery jaysay naheen balk jaleebi jaysay seedhy hain 372-haha

D@y W@lk3r
21st March 2009, 13:56
bilkul aap mery jaysay naheen balk jaleebi jaysay seedhy hain 372-haha:hahaha:372-haha

*Samra*
26th March 2009, 14:09
توآپ کہ نزدیک محبت کیا ہے ؟ کیا کچھ وضاحت فرمائیں گی؟ اور یہ کہ جھوٹی محبت کہ معاملے میں فقط لڑکوں کا زکر کیوں کیا ؟




Lakre ziada is tarah ki mohabatain kerte hain isliye... :rolleyes: her guzarti larki se muhabat ho jaati he pehli nazar me :tasali: ... jab wo 3 / 4 thapar lagaati he to waha hi muhabat ka end hojaata he...:khi:

Khair... me samjhti hoon ke Muhabat ... wo he...jo intehaaaa ki ho... ke aik ke siwa aur koi nazar naa aye... aur koi kabhi apni soch me bhi kisi doosre ka khiyaal naa laye...

aur aisa hota nahi ISS DUNIA me...islliey...yeh sachi Muhabat hoti bhi nahi.. :rolleyes:

*Samra*
26th March 2009, 14:10
me to aabi bhai jaisa nahi..main to bohat sidha hoon:donno:


lag raha he :khi:

aabi2cool
26th March 2009, 21:10
Lakre ziada is tarah ki mohabatain kerte hain isliye... :rolleyes: her guzarti larki se muhabat ho jaati he pehli nazar me :tasali: ... jab wo 3 / 4 thapar lagaati he to waha hi muhabat ka end hojaata he...:khi:

Khair... me samjhti hoon ke Muhabat ... wo he...jo intehaaaa ki ho... ke aik ke siwa aur koi nazar naa aye... aur koi kabhi apni soch me bhi kisi doosre ka khiyaal naa laye...

aur aisa hota nahi ISS DUNIA me...islliey...yeh sachi Muhabat hoti bhi nahi.. :rolleyes:
372-haha

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 11:14
372-haha
:rolleyes: aap itnaaa kiou muskraaa rahe hain?

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 13:14
:rolleyes: aap itnaaa kiou muskraaa rahe hain?
bus uonhi dil udass hogaya tha is lyeee :wk

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 13:55
bus uonhi dil udass hogaya tha is lyeee :wk

mere reply ka "reply" to de deteeee aap :rolleyes:

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 13:58
mein kafi din baad aj PG per aya hoon so app ko wait kerna padaa.. sorry for that........ but..
here are the answers.........

1.app nein mery kafi question ka jawab nahin diya
please un ka jawab arz ker din..
maslan.. Sahbey Akraam nain 4 shadiyan kiyon kein?
Mashliat hona ke zaroort quran and hadit sey?
etc ..as tarh ke degar sawalat

2.App nain jo ayat ke tafseer padhi hai woh kafi ahci tafseer ke book hai....

per app nien yeh wrong khaa hai ke mein nein adhi ayat paish ke hai.. mujhy as tarah ke kaam kernin waloon sey nafart hai..

ab meri baat samjhin..

yeh ayat ek khaas mozoo (topic) ke zikar mein nazal howi hai yani yateemon ke haqooq ke baat chal rahi hai
as sey qabal aur phir khaa giya ker agher yateem ladkiyon sey insaaf na kar sakoo tu degar khwateen main sey nikah ker leo 2.3ya 4 sey..

tu as ayat ka "hukum" "aam" hai... yeh dono fiqhai
istilahat hain... it mean ke as ayat ke theat 4 shadiyon ke ijazat hai pasand sey..

agher app degar kafi tafseer dekh lein tu app ko yahi baat mili gi.. app kisi alem deen sey bhi confrom ker lein
key as ayat ka tehat kiya "hukum" samnain ataa hai..
ya kiya as ayat ke that 4 shaidan kerna jaiz hai ya nahin
tu app ko as cheez ke aur bhi wazat hoo jay gi

and app nain khud jo tafseer lekhi hai us min bhi yeh baat wazah hey key yateem key ailwa bhi 4 shaidyon ke ijazat di gi hai...

i hope app samjh gay hon gey

3.Insaaf?????

insaaf wali ayt mein nin pehly bhi lekhi thi aur us ke tafseer bhi........... app as ke tafseer ko kai jagaa dekhin tu baat app samj jain gey

yahan muraad yeh hai ke Dili taaur per app ka jhokaa sub ke taraf ek jaisy nahin ho saktaa yeh fitri baat hai
kay app kisi ko ziyda muhbbat kerin gey... as liye yaan yeh tanbhih ke gi hai key us ke taraaf bhut ziyda na jhuk jo key insaaf ka damn chot jay
please app as ke tafseer mazeed books mein dekhin tu clear ho jay gaa

agher insaaf ho na saktaa hotaa tu quran mein dosri ayat mein 4 shadiyon ke ijaazat key saath insaaf ka hukum kiyon hai.... ?

kiya ek aisi baat ka hukum hai jo koi nahin ker saktaa?

as liye yaahn as sey muraad Dili taur per kisi ek sey ziyda muhbat kernaa hai............

i hope key app key sub question ka jawab mein nin
dey diya hai..
aur umeed kertaa hoon app mery sub previous question
ka jawab hi jald dein gey..


Salam aap ne likha "hukam" he ... Quran majeed mai 4 shadiya kerne ka HUKAM nahi he balqe ..."IJAZAT" di gai he... wo bhi kisi aisy halaat me jab insaan ke pass aur koi chara na ho.

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 15:51
mere reply ka "reply" to de deteeee aap :rolleyes:
aap ko meri samjh hi naheen aati toooo faieda kaya??????:ak:

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 15:53
aap ko meri samjh hi naheen aati toooo faieda kaya??????:ak:
:tasali: thore se to asaan lafz use ker liya kerain... humara kiya qasoor he... :embarasse

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 15:53
Salam aap ne likha "hukam" he ... Quran majeed mai 4 shadiya kerne ka HUKAM nahi he balqe ..."IJAZAT" di gai he... wo bhi kisi aisy halaat me jab insaan ke pass aur koi chara na ho.
ijazat de gai hy aap ka ye kehna bilkul drusat hy . ... laikin us k aagay jo aap nay farmaya hy wo aap ki apni lagai hui condetion hy quran o sunnat main aysa naheen hy balk quran o sunnat main faqat adal ki shart hy :salam:

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 15:54
ijazat de gai hy aap ka ye kehna bilkul drusat hy . ... laikin us k aagay jo aap nay farmaya hy wo aap ki apni lagai hui condetion hy quran o sunnat main aysa naheen hy balk quran o sunnat main faqat adal ki shart hy :salam:
jee sahi kaha...mere apne ilfaaz hain lekin tafseer mai aisy hi hai

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 15:55
jee sahi kaha...mere apne ilfaaz hain lekin tafseer mai aisy hi hai
ghalat tafseer hy jis nay bhi ke hy tafseer bilray hy quran o sunnat aur asaar sahaba k khilaf hy . . .. .

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 15:56
ghalat tafseer hy jis nay bhi ke hy tafseer bilray hy quran o sunnat aur asaar sahaba k khilaf hy . . .. .


pihr tafseer kiya hai?

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 15:57
:tasali: thore se to asaan lafz use ker liya kerain... humara kiya qasoor he... :embarasse
qasoor hy aur bohat bara qasoor hy magar afsoos hameen us ka ahsaas naheen . . . urdu hamari qaomi zuban hy aur us ka ye alam hy k asaan se asaan alfaz bhi hum logon ko mushkil lagtay hain .. .is k ilawa pegham ka bhi asal maqsad urdu hi ki tyarveej o isha,at hy magar afsoos k . . ..

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 16:06
pihr tafseer kiya hai?
wohi jo main nay oper likha k ijazat hy per adal shart hy

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 17:25
qasoor hy aur bohat bara qasoor hy magar afsoos hameen us ka ahsaas naheen . . . urdu hamari qaomi zuban hy aur us ka ye alam hy k asaan se asaan alfaz bhi hum logon ko mushkil lagtay hain .. .is k ilawa pegham ka bhi asal maqsad urdu hi ki tyarveej o isha,at hy magar afsoos k . . ..


aap thik kehte hain , lekin afsos he ke mai kabhi pakistan rahi nahi hoon......balqe mai yaha hi paida howi hoon..yaah per hi paali baadi howi hoon...........urdu maine ghar per hi sikhi he , aur maine apne shoq se sikhi hai...

yaha Pegham per aany ka maqsad bhi mera yehi hai ke mai apni Urdu behtar kersakoon.

lekin itni achi urdu sikhne me to thora waqt lagta hai.

aabi2cool
27th March 2009, 18:29
aap thik kehte hain , lekin afsos he ke mai kabhi pakistan rahi nahi hoon......balqe mai yaha hi paida howi hoon..yaah per hi paali baadi howi hoon...........urdu maine ghar per hi sikhi he , aur maine apne shoq se sikhi hai...

yaha Pegham per aany ka maqsad bhi mera yehi hai ke mai apni Urdu behtar kersakoon.

lekin itni achi urdu sikhne me to thora waqt lagta hai.

:tasali:

*Samra*
27th March 2009, 18:34
:tasali:

:ao::ao::ao::ao::ao:

aabi2cool
28th March 2009, 12:35
:ao::ao::ao::ao::ao:
:wk:wk:wk

tauseeftariq
30th March 2009, 19:25
Salam aap ne likha "hukam" he ... Quran majeed mai 4 shadiya kerne ka HUKAM nahi he balqe ..."IJAZAT" di gai he... wo bhi kisi aisy halaat me jab insaan ke pass aur koi chara na ho.

aslam o alkum

hasb e wada jawab denain k liye hazir hon..
insha ALLAH koshis rehy gi ky to the point bat ho..

1.yahan jo lafz "hukum" istemal kiya hai.. woh FIQAH ke istelah hai..
Hukum ky iqsam hain "amar" jin kamon ka kernin zaraori hai..farz, wajib, sunat
dosri kisam "nehi" hai yani jo chezi mana hain
jaisy haram, makroh-e-tehremi, makroh wegarah

kuch kam "mubah" yani Jaiz hain .. jin ke kernin per na sawab hai na gunah...

tu isi liye mein nainf lafz hukum istemal kiya tha

ummid hai bat samjh a gai ho gi

2. wazahat farmya ga app ky kon si sorat aisi hai ky jab 4 shadiyon k ailwa koi aur choice na ho?

tauseeftariq
30th March 2009, 19:49
suraha e nisa ky ayat 2 aur 3 aur tafisr...

ayat no 2 "

اور یتیموں کو اُن کے مال دو اور ستھرے کے بدلے گندا نہ لو اور ان کے مال اپنے مالوں میں ملا کر نہ کھاجاؤ بے شک یہ بڑا گناہ ہے
"
Tafsir

شان نزول: ایک شخص کی نگرانی میں اُس کے یتیم بھتیجے کا کثیر مال تھا جب وہ یتیم بالغ ہو ا اور اس نے اپنا مال طلب کیا تو چچا نے دینے سے انکار کردیا اِس پر یہ آیت نازل ہوئی اِس کو سن کر اُس شخص نے یتیم کا مال اُس کے حوالہ کیا اور کہا کہ ہم اللّٰہ اور اُس کے رسول کی اطاعت کرتے ہیں۔

یعنی اپنے حلال مال


یتیم کا مال جو تمہارے لئے حرام ہے اس کو اچھا سمجھ کر اپنے ردّی مال سے نہ بدلو کیونکہ وہ ردّی تمہارے لئے حلال و طیّب ہے اور یہ حرام و خبیث ۔

ayat 3
اور اگر تمہیں اندیشہ ہو کہ یتیم لڑکیوں میں انصاف نہ کرو گے تو نکاح میں لاؤ جو عورتیں تمہیں خوش آئیں دو ۲دو ۲ اور تین۳ تین۳ اور چار ۴چار۴ پھر اگر ڈرو کہ دوبیبیوں کوبرابر نہ رکھ سکو گے تو ایک ہی کرو یا کنیزیں جن کے تم مالک ہو یہ ا س سے زیادہ قریب ہے کہ تم سے ظلم نہ ہو )

Tafsir

اور ان کے حقوق کی رعایت نہ رکھ سکو گے


آیت کے معنی میں چند قول ہیں حسن کا قول ہے کہ پہلے زمانہ میں مدینہ کے لوگ اپنی زیرِ ولایت یتیم لڑکی سے اُس کے مال کی وجہ سے نکاح کرلیتے باوجود یکہ اُس کی طرف رغبت نہ ہوتی پھر اُس کے ساتھ صحبت و معاشرت میں اچھا سلوک نہ کرتے اور اُس کے مال کے وارث بننے کے لئے اُس کی موت کے منتظر رہتے اِس آیت میں اُنہیں اِس سے روکا گیا ایک قول یہ ہے کہ لوگ یتیموں کی ولایت سے توبے انصافی ہوجانے کے اندیشہ سے گھبراتے تھے اور زنا کی پرواہ نہ کرتے تھے اُنہیں بتایا گیا کہ اگر تم ناانصافی کے اندیشہ سے یتیموں کی ولایت سے گریز کرتے ہو تو زنا سے بھی خوف کرو اور اُس سے بچنے کے لئے جو عورتیں تمہارے لئے حلال ہیں اُن سے نکاح کرو اور حرام کے قریب مت جاؤ ۔ ایک قول یہ ہے کہ لوگ یتیموں کی ولایت و سرپرستی میں تو ناانصافی کا اندیشہ کرتے تھے اور بہت سے نکاح کرنے میں کچھ باک نہیں رکھتے تھے اُنہیں بتایا گیا کہ جب زیادہ عورتیں نکاح میں ہوں تو اُن کے حق میں ناانصافی سے بھی ڈرو ۔ اُتنی ہی عورتوں سے نکاح کرو جن کے حقوق ادا کرسکو عِکْرَمَہ نے حضرت ابن عباس سے روایت کی کہ قریش دس دس بلکہ اس سے زیادہ عورتیں کرتے تھے اور جب اُن کا بار نہ اٹھ سکتا تو جو یتیم لڑکیاں اُن کی سرپرستی میں ہوتیں اُن کے مال خرچ کر ڈالتے اس آیت میں فرمایا گیا کہ اپنی استطاعت دیکھ لو اور چار سے زیادہ نہ کرو تاکہ تمہیں یتیموں کا مال خرچ کرنے کی حاجت پیش نہ آئے مسئلہ: اِس آیت سے معلُوم ہوا کہ آزاد مرد کے لئے ایک وقت میں چار عورتوں تک سے نکاح جائز ہے خواہ وہ حُرَّہ ہوں یا اَمَہ یعنی باندی مسئلہ: تمام امّت کا اجماع ہے کہ ایک وقت میں چار عورتوں سے زیادہ نکاح میںرکھنا کسی کے لئے جائز نہیں سوائے رسولِ کریم صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کے یہ آپ کے خصائص میں سے ہے۔ ابوداؤد کی حدیث میں ہے کہ ایک شخص اسلام لائے اُن کی آٹھ بی بیاں تھیں حضور نے فرمایا اِن میں سے چار رکھنا ، ترمذی کی حدیث میں ہے کہ غیلان بن سلمہ ثَقَفِی اسلام لائے اُن کے دس بی بیاں تھیں وہ ساتھ مسلمان ہوئیں حضورنے حکم دیا اِن میںسے چار رکھو



مسئلہ : اِس سے معلوم ہوا کہ بی بیوں کے درمیان عدل فرض ہے نئی پرانی باکرہ ثَیِّبَہ سب اِس اِستحقاق میں برابر ہیں یہ عدل لباس میں کھانے پینے میں سُکنٰی یعنی رہنے کی جگہ میں اور رات کو رہنے میں لازم ہے ان امور میں سب کے ساتھ یکساں سلوک ہو ۔

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tauseeftariq
30th March 2009, 19:54
surah e nisa key ayat 2 aur 3 paish ker di hai tafisr ky sath

yeh tarjuma e quran imam ahamd Raza (R.TA) ka hai aur tafsir
ka naam "khazain ul irfan hai" ..

app thnady dil sy parhin tu wazh ho jaty hai ky ayat sy kiya maqsood hai

ahadith bhi hain is mein..

behtar hai ky apni aqal ky ghory doranin ky bajy quran ky hukum ky mutabiq
jis ka mufhom hai ky "agher tum nahin janty to un sy pocho jo ahle zikar hain"
per amal kerty howay ulma e akram ke ray ko mana jay

ummid hei bat waizh ho gi ho gi

tauseeftariq
30th March 2009, 20:16
ab surah e nisa ke ayat paish e khidmat hai jis sy ek aur sawal ka jawab milta hai ky agher kisi ek biwi ke liye dil mein muhabat ziyda ho tu yeh gunah nahin..
per sirf us surat mein ky baqi sub chezon mein barbari ke jay..

mein yeh samjha hai hon... per ayat aur tafir paish e khidmat hai...
app is ko miyar bana ker bat samjhiye...

Surah e nisa ayat 129

اور تم سے ہر گز نہ ہوسکے گا کہ عورتوں کو برابر رکھو چاہے کتنی ہی حرص کرو تو یہ تو نہ ہو کہ ایک طرف پورا جھک جاؤ کہ دوسری کو اَدْھَرْ میں لٹکتی چھوڑ دو اور اگر تم نیکی اور پرہیزگاری کرو تو بے شک اللّٰہ بخشنے والا مہربان ہے


Tafsir

یعنی اگر کئی بیبیاں ہوں تویہ تمہاری مقدرت میں نہیں کہ ہر امر میں تم انہیں برابر رکھو اور کسی امر میں کسی کو کسی پر ترجیح نہ ہونے دو نہ میل و محبت میں نہ خواہش ور غبت میں نہ عشرت واختلاط میں نہ نظر وتوجہ میں تم کوشش کرکے یہ تو کر نہیں سکتے لیکن اگر اتنا تمہارے مقدور میں نہیں ہے اور اس وجہ سے ان تمام پابندیوں کا بار تم پر نہیں رکھا گیا اور محبت قلبی اور میل طبعی جو تمہارا اختیار ی نہیں ہے اس میں برابری کرنے کا تمہیں حکم نہیں دیا گیا ۔

بلکہ یہ ضرور ہے کہ جہاں تک تمہیں قدرت و اختیار ہے وہاں تک یکساں برتاؤ کرو محبت اختیار ی شے نہیں تو بات چیت حسن و اخلاق کھانے پہننے پاس رکھنے اور ایسے امور میں برابری کرنا اختیار ی ہے ان امور میں دونوں کے ساتھ یکسا ں سلوک کرنا لازم و ضروری ہے ۔

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*Samra*
1st April 2009, 11:23
thanks for reply mai abhi thori der mai jawaab deti hoon

*Samra*
1st April 2009, 12:06
aslam o alkum

hasb e wada jawab denain k liye hazir hon..
insha ALLAH koshis rehy gi ky to the point bat ho..

1.yahan jo lafz "hukum" istemal kiya hai.. woh FIQAH ke istelah hai..
Hukum ky iqsam hain "amar" jin kamon ka kernin zaraori hai..farz, wajib, sunat
dosri kisam "nehi" hai yani jo chezi mana hain
jaisy haram, makroh-e-tehremi, makroh wegarah

kuch kam "mubah" yani Jaiz hain .. jin ke kernin per na sawab hai na gunah...

tu isi liye mein nainf lafz hukum istemal kiya tha

ummid hai bat samjh a gai ho gi

2. wazahat farmya ga app ky kon si sorat aisi hai ky jab 4 shadiyon k ailwa koi aur choice na ho?


ok is baat ko samjh gai.

*Samra*
1st April 2009, 12:14
surah e nisa key ayat 2 aur 3 paish ker di hai tafisr ky sath

yeh tarjuma e quran imam ahamd Raza (R.TA) ka hai aur tafsir
ka naam "khazain ul irfan hai" ..

app thnady dil sy parhin tu wazh ho jaty hai ky ayat sy kiya maqsood hai

ahadith bhi hain is mein..

behtar hai ky apni aqal ky ghory doranin ky bajy quran ky hukum ky mutabiq
jis ka mufhom hai ky "agher tum nahin janty to un sy pocho jo ahle zikar hain"
per amal kerty howay ulma e akram ke ray ko mana jay

ummid hei bat waizh ho gi ho gi



jee, quran majeed mai jo bhi allah tallah ne hukam diye hain wo her Zamaane aur halaat ke mutaabiq hain. Mai is baat ko samjhti hoon.

Mere zehan me yehi baat ati he, ke Insaan ka her qadam uski Niyat per "depend" kerta he. Koi shakhs koi kaam kis Niyaat se keraha he...


ager niyat... yateem larkiya ya Bewaa aurto ki madad kerna maqsad he is waja se shadi keraha he...to yeh achi baat he.
Koi is waja se shadi keraha he... ke wo apne shoq poore ker sake (nafsani) to yeh bilkul bhi jayez nahi he. balqe allah tallah ko sakht na passand hai.

tauseeftariq
2nd April 2009, 11:45
jee, quran majeed mai jo bhi allah tallah ne hukam diye hain wo her Zamaane aur halaat ke mutaabiq hain. Mai is baat ko samjhti hoon.

Mere zehan me yehi baat ati he, ke Insaan ka her qadam uski Niyat per "depend" kerta he. Koi shakhs koi kaam kis Niyaat se keraha he...


ager niyat... yateem larkiya ya Bewaa aurto ki madad kerna maqsad he is waja se shadi keraha he...to yeh achi baat he.
Koi is waja se shadi keraha he... ke wo apne shoq poore ker sake (nafsani) to yeh bilkul bhi jayez nahi he. balqe allah tallah ko sakht na passand hai.

1.Quran mein bewa ya yateem ke "shart" nahin...
tu app bhi na rekhin... per agher koi aisa kery (bewa ya yatim sy sahdi) aur phir un ko wohi respect dy jo apni pehli biwi ko deta hai tu bhut hi achi bat hai

2. agher nikah mein niyat yeh hai ky gunah sy bachy ga.. tu phir bhi jaiz hai... app nain jo "shook" ky bary mein lekha hai.. us ke kai sortain hain..
agher us ko dar ho ky nikah nahin kery ga tu gunah mein mubtlia ho jay ga.. tu nikah behtar aur jaiz hai...
per biwiyon k dermyan adal kerna lazmi hai.. her sorat mein

app ko ky sy laga ky na jaiz hai?

3. 4 shadiyan "jaiz" hain.. aisa kerna zarori nahin.. tu is bary mein negative nain sochin.. ALLAH ky ahkamat mein jo hikmat hai.. us ko hum mukumal samjh pain aisa zarori nahin... per jinta insan samjh sakta hai.. us ky mutabiq ulma nain tafsil sy iss "ijazat" ke hikmaton ky bary mein likha hai...

Mr.Khan
26th June 2009, 19:34
:rolleyes:

Sawabiwal
27th June 2009, 02:29
slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai:nunu:
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...:bilan:
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

uhmmm ...cool question....:)

mei t bas yahi kahonga ...well agar larki pasand ajaye ...... aur ossay shadi karnay ka irada naik ho ......tho khiyon nhi direct oss' say nikah kar lay.... bas ekk shart per ...agar tum apnay app ko iss qabil samajthay ho kay tum dono wifes ki zaroriyat pori kar sakhtay ho .....

aur aisi koi baat nahi kai insaan ko koi dosri shaadi sai rok sakhta hai ....mard hazrat hamesha apnay faislay khud laina jantay hain .... ossay kissi sai poch tach ki zarorat nahi parti.....:thmbup:

Shula_G
10th September 2009, 15:14
kio na karain shadian:dance5: 60 saal tak ek hi budhi nu dekde revo:fight:

Mr.Khan
16th April 2011, 00:28
Muhabbat or Attraction me farq hota hai, Attraction insaan ko umar ke kisi bhi hissay me kisi sey bhi ho sakti hai Magar Muhabbat zindagi me sirf aik baar hoti hai................It's my belief

Baaqi logon ka nahi pata.....

mhashmat1967
14th July 2011, 12:54
ye guna ho ga