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aquari
5th September 2008, 05:05
Aslamalikum
Is section main jaisa k shadi sey related cheezain share horahi hai
tu hr culture main shadi ki apni rasomat hoti hai,Pakistan main bai'k waqt mukhtalif cultures hain or saath hi hr family ki bhi apni rasmain hain
App sub batayea k app ki Family main shadi pr kon kon si rasmain hoti hain
Yaqeenan kuch aisi hongi jo k larki sey related hongi or kuch aisi Jo larkey sey..!Kuch rasmain hr family main common hai jaisey k Doodh pilai,sehra bandhai,jooti chupana,goodh bharai,mu'h dikhai(:khi:..itni bar mun'h dekhney k bad bhi jo di jati hai dulhan ko) ,etc etc
Abb app sub apni apni family ki khaas khas rasmain share karain...:rose:

aquari
5th September 2008, 05:09
Pehley main apni family ki share krti h'n
phr susral ki karoongi..:eye:
Meri family main larki sey related ek rasm hoti hai jis main jis din larki ko mayoo'n bithatey hain us din us k chahcha,mamoo ya cousin waghaira doodh jaleebi latey hain khas kr shadi waley gher main mojoud larkiyooo k lya.
Baqiii waqtan fawaqtan share karoongi ...:wink:

Aanchal
5th September 2008, 23:17
Pehley main apni family ki share krti h'n
phr susral ki karoongi..:eye:
Meri family main larki sey related ek rasm hoti hai jis main jis din larki ko mayoo'n bithatey hain us din us k chahcha,mamoo ya cousin waghaira doodh jaleebi latey hain khas kr shadi waley gher main mojoud larkiyooo k lya.
Baqiii waqtan fawaqtan share karoongi ...:wink:

good thread :thmbup::D: is say kafi cheezian pata chalian gee :eye:
jaleebeiannnnnnnnnnn cool :D:


main nay A to Z to koi shadi attend nahi ki khandan ki kabhi bas mehman ban kay hi jatay hain 2,3 jo attend ki hain :D .unhi ka bata doun gee ...:D:

khandan main aik shadi hovi ..jab date fix hoo jati hai to dua-i- khair kay leye sab baray larki ki ghar jatay hain ..yani ab bilkul final hai date :D ..or meeway, meethai bhi sath lay jatay hain or dulhan kay dresses or sab kuch chooriyan jootay waghera sab ...

continue....

Mr. Sialkoty
6th September 2008, 01:53
waah ji waah, interesting thread he...but hamaray haan ziada rasmein nahi hotein, simple simple se he kaam hotay hein

Eshaa Chaudhry
9th September 2008, 21:13
waah ji waah, interesting thread he...but hamaray haan ziada rasmein nahi hotein, simple simple se he kaam hotay hein
Konsay kaam 372-shock

aik_lerki
10th September 2008, 04:19
Aslamalikum
Is section main jaisa k shadi sey related cheezain share horahi hai
tu hr culture main shadi ki apni rasomat hoti hai,Pakistan main bai'k waqt mukhtalif cultures hain or saath hi hr family ki bhi apni rasmain hain
App sub batayea k app ki Family main shadi pr kon kon si rasmain hoti hain
Yaqeenan kuch aisi hongi jo k larki sey related hongi or kuch aisi Jo larkey sey..!Kuch rasmain hr family main common hai jaisey k Doodh pilai,sehra bandhai,jooti chupana,goodh bharai,mu'h dikhai(:khi:..itni bar mun'h dekhney k bad bhi jo di jati hai dulhan ko) ,etc etc
Abb app sub apni apni family ki khaas khas rasmain share karain...:rose:

WalikomAssalam
:em: bohat mazy ka thread hai .. humary han to aise koe special rasm nahe hotii .. mager doodh pilai , aur jota chupai to hoti hai ... :D:
meri friend k haan bary mazy ki rasmain hoti hain .. wo share kero ge ma zaroor

aik_lerki
10th September 2008, 04:22
Pehley main apni family ki share krti h'n
phr susral ki karoongi..:eye:
Meri family main larki sey related ek rasm hoti hai jis main jis din larki ko mayoo'n bithatey hain us din us k chahcha,mamoo ya cousin waghaira doodh jaleebi latey hain khas kr shadi waley gher main mojoud larkiyooo k lya.
Baqiii waqtan fawaqtan share karoongi ...:wink:

wow .. :D:
Exactly same yayhi rasm meri friend k haa b hoe the oski sis ki mayo py .. to ma apni friend se kehri thi k is rasm ma thori changes ker k jaleebiyo k bajay icecream kheelaty sab ko to kitna zada maza aata :hehe:

SherAli
10th September 2008, 04:23
shadi men to bahut si baten hoti hen jo sahi bhi hen or ghalat bhi, kuch islami hen to kuch gher islami, kuch showbazi to kuch tafri ke liye hoti hen.
mere father bahot religious the to vo koi rasam nehin hone dete the. par or gharon men hoti hen . bad men share karun ga insha Allah :)

aquari
10th September 2008, 06:09
good thread :thmbup::D: is say kafi cheezian pata chalian gee :eye:
jaleebeiannnnnnnnnnn cool :D:


main nay A to Z to koi shadi attend nahi ki khandan ki kabhi bas mehman ban kay hi jatay hain 2,3 jo attend ki hain :D .unhi ka bata doun gee ...:D:

khandan main aik shadi hovi ..jab date fix hoo jati hai to dua-i- khair kay leye sab baray larki ki ghar jatay hain ..yani ab bilkul final hai date :D ..or meeway, meethai bhi sath lay jatay hain or dulhan kay dresses or sab kuch chooriyan jootay waghera sab ...

continue....
thx Anchal
kaisi hoo tum k aaj kal koi bhi shadi dhang sey atend nahi ki
mujhey tu un tamam shadiyooo ka afsoos hai jo main ney bachpan main attend krli bina kisi enjoyment k sochti yeh sub recent hoi hoti tu kitnaaaaaaaaa maza ata:dance:,basicaly main khud halagulla kum krti hn pr enjoy khoob krti hn:eye:.
ahan rasm tu bauht achi hain mazeed zaroor share krna

aquari
10th September 2008, 06:10
waah ji waah, interesting thread he...but hamaray haan ziada rasmein nahi hotein, simple simple se he kaam hotay hein

simple shadi bhi yaqeenan achi hoti hogi pr rasmoo sey un main jaan ajati hai

aquari
10th September 2008, 06:12
WalikomAssalam
:em: bohat mazy ka thread hai .. humary han to aise koe special rasm nahe hotii .. mager doodh pilai , aur jota chupai to hoti hai ... :D:
meri friend k haan bary mazy ki rasmain hoti hain .. wo share kero ge ma zaroor
ha zaroor share krna
ice cream wala idea acha haii
tum merey mayoo pr atii tutumhain ice cream khila deti:tasali:
waisey ek baat batao merey mayoo pr jalebiya bhi nahi thi :ak:
itefaq sey jinhoo ney lani thi un ko mil na sakii or woh pehley sey order dena bhol gaye yeh sooch kr k itni common mithai hai aram sey mil jaye gii :drama:..................tu phr hum ney gher main maccroni bana kr yeh rasm poori krli thi:khi:

aquari
10th September 2008, 06:16
shadi men to bahut si baten hoti hen jo sahi bhi hen or ghalat bhi, kuch islami hen to kuch gher islami, kuch showbazi to kuch tafri ke liye hoti hen.
mere father bahot religious the to vo koi rasam nehin hone dete the. par or gharon men hoti hen . bad men share karun ga insha Allah :)
App ney bilkul thek kaha humarey mazhab main in cheezoo k lya koi jaga nahi yaqeenan kuch rasmain boojh hain k jaisey ager date fix honi hai tu larkley waley 7 trha k phal or 7 trha k mewey(dry fruits) lain gey 7 hi kg mithai honi chahyeaa yaqeenan is main $ ka zaya hai kai loog hongey jo is ko afford nahi kr saktey pr ba'az auqat huma isey band gaye hain in cheezoo main k chah kr bhi nikal nahi patey or ager koshish karain tu bauht kuch bardasht krna prta hai..its good k app k father is pr aml krtey hain Allah unhain mazeed himmat dey

SherAli
10th September 2008, 06:20
App ney bilkul thek kaha humarey mazhab main in cheezoo k lya koi jaga nahi yaqeenan kuch rasmain boojh hain k jaisey ager date fix honi hai tu larkley waley 7 trha k phal or 7 trha k mewey(dry fruits) lain gey 7 hi kg mithai honi chahyeaa yaqeenan is main $ ka zaya hai kai loog hongey jo is ko afford nahi kr saktey pr ba'az auqat huma isey band gaye hain in cheezoo main k chah kr bhi nikal nahi patey or ager koshish karain tu bauht kuch bardasht krna prta hai..its good k app k father is pr aml krtey hain Allah unhain mazeed himmat dey
ap ka jawab padh kar meri andar ki sans bahar ayi men to dar raha tha k kahin ap ko meri bat buri na lage. ap ne sahi kaha k islam sab ke liye he to aesi rasmen agar gharib nahin kar payenge to unka dil tut jayega aur phir yeh fuzul kharchi ke zumur men ati hen.

mere valdain ab is dunya men nahin rahe. Allah unko karvaty karvat jannat ata kare. amin

aquari
10th September 2008, 06:21
Mazeed kuch rasmain share krti hn mayo tak tu agai thi
mehdi main rasm hoti hai k Larki ki sisters dulhey ko mehdi lagati hain or un ko naig milta hai,kuch families main isi din larki ki larkey waley goodh bharai bhi krtey hain jis main saath suhaganain 7 trha k mewoo sey dulhan ki goud bhrti hain sometimes yeh rasm shadi wlaey din after rukhsati dulhey k gher jaker bhi hoti hai.
Ek rasm hoti hai meri family main jub barat ati hain tu dulhan k bhai cousins etc dulkhey ki gari rooktey hian or us sey naig letey hain phr hi ussey stage pr janey dya jata haii bauht maza ata hai is rasm main becharey bhaiyoo ko bhi kuch mil jata hai wrna sari rasmain as u know larkiyoo ki hi hoti hain :khi:
doodh pilai or joota chupai bhi hoti hain,merey susral main tu sheesha dikhaney ki bhi rasm hoti hai k shesha rakh kr dono dulha dulhan pr dupata dal dya jata hai ..(shukar merey saath yeh rasm nahi hoi:dance2: kisi ko yaaad hi nahi rahi :happy:)

saraah
10th September 2008, 07:19
yaar me shadiyan bohat km attend krti hun............even not in my family....wese koi khas ul khas rasmen tou nahin hotin hamaray haan...........hoti b hongi tou muje nae maloom.......ap share kijye taa k muje b pta chlay.

Mr. Sialkoty
10th September 2008, 15:13
Konsay kaam 372-shock

Hamaray yahan shadi mein Nikah perhanay ki rasam bohat aam he :hd:

Mr. Sialkoty
10th September 2008, 15:15
simple shadi bhi yaqeenan achi hoti hogi pr rasmoo sey un main jaan ajati hai

Its all about how we perceive it. Mein personally gair zaroori rasmon ke khilaaf hoon, hallagullah kerna alag baat he wo aap kisi tareekay se bhi ker saktay ho, per typical rasmein jese ser ke ouper dupata tana jana, sounds funny and senseless. Isn't it?

Mr. Sialkoty
10th September 2008, 15:18
Mazeed kuch rasmain share krti hn mayo tak tu agai thi
mehdi main rasm hoti hai k Larki ki sisters dulhey ko mehdi lagati hain or un ko naig milta hai,kuch families main isi din larki ki larkey waley goodh bharai bhi krtey hain jis main saath suhaganain 7 trha k mewoo sey dulhan ki goud bhrti hain sometimes yeh rasm shadi wlaey din after rukhsati dulhey k gher jaker bhi hoti hai.
Ek rasm hoti hai meri family main jub barat ati hain tu dulhan k bhai cousins etc dulkhey ki gari rooktey hian or us sey naig letey hain phr hi ussey stage pr janey dya jata haii bauht maza ata hai is rasm main becharey bhaiyoo ko bhi kuch mil jata hai wrna sari rasmain as u know larkiyoo ki hi hoti hain :khi:
doodh pilai or joota chupai bhi hoti hain,merey susral main tu sheesha dikhaney ki bhi rasm hoti hai k shesha rakh kr dono dulha dulhan pr dupata dal dya jata hai ..(shukar merey saath yeh rasm nahi hoi:dance2: kisi ko yaaad hi nahi rahi :happy:)

Chalo tum baal baal buch gai :hehe:

Lagta he saari rasmein aap ke haan se start hoti hein aur phir puray Pakistan mein pheel jati hein :khi:

wajid hanif
10th September 2008, 15:40
Chalo tum baal baal buch gai :hehe:

Lagta he saari rasmein aap ke haan se start hoti hein aur phir puray Pakistan mein pheel jati hein :khi:
AMIR BAHI'' wase u yahan kia kar rahay ho ur to yaar age b ab kaafi hai .. ase baton ki tarf mat jaya karo..372-haha

Pakiza
10th September 2008, 19:43
Assalam alikum kool thread
shadi ho aur rasmain na hoon tu dulhan aur dulha ke elawa sab thora bore hojatey hian:D

i'll share soon

aik_lerki
11th September 2008, 04:07
ha zaroor share krna
ice cream wala idea acha haii
tum merey mayoo pr atii tutumhain ice cream khila deti:tasali:
Yani mai ny miss ker de icecream :embarasse


waisey ek baat batao merey mayoo pr jalebiya bhi nahi thi :ak:
:tasali:to dykho na kitna unique se rasm hoe tum ki .jalybi sy rasm to sab ki hoti hai .. mager maccroni se kise ki nahe hoi hoge:D:

itefaq sey jinhoo ney lani thi un ko mil na sakii or woh pehley sey order dena bhol gaye yeh sooch kr k itni common mithai hai aram sey mil jaye gii :drama:..................tu phr hum ney gher main maccroni bana kr yeh rasm poori krli thi:khi:

Hain wakii .. wow maccroni say :hehe:
zabardast :em:

aik_lerki
11th September 2008, 04:20
Mazeed kuch rasmain share krti hn mayo tak tu agai thi
mehdi main rasm hoti hai k Larki ki sisters dulhey ko mehdi lagati hain or un ko naig milta hai,
pata ha yay hamary ha b hoti hai:D:


kuch families main isi din larki ki larkey waley goodh bharai bhi krtey hain jis main saath suhaganain 7 trha k mewoo sey dulhan ki goud bhrti hain sometimes yeh rasm shadi wlaey din after rukhsati dulhey k gher jaker bhi hoti hai.
wow.. mai ny sirf aisa movies ma dekha hai real ma kbi nahe dekhi yay rasm .. :embarasse

Ek rasm hoti hai meri family main jub barat ati hain tu dulhan k bhai cousins etc dulkhey ki gari rooktey hian or us sey naig letey hain phr hi ussey stage pr janey dya jata haii bauht maza ata hai is rasm main
yay b humary han b hoti hai ..:eye:

becharey bhaiyoo ko bhi kuch mil jata hai wrna sari rasmain as u know larkiyoo ki hi hoti hain :khi:
:hehe: Exactly ..

doodh pilai or joota chupai bhi hoti hain,merey susral main tu sheesha dikhaney ki bhi rasm hoti hai k shesha rakh kr dono dulha dulhan pr dupata dal dya jata hai ..(shukar merey saath yeh rasm nahi hoi:dance2: kisi ko yaaad hi nahi rahi :happy:)
shesha dekhany wali rams kise hoti hia .. ?? sheeshy ma kion dekhay dulha dulhan ek dosry ko?direct kio nahe?

SherAli
11th September 2008, 04:37
shesha dekhany wali rams kise hoti hia .. ?? sheeshy ma kion dekhay dulha dulhan ek dosry ko?direct kio nahe?
mere khaial se pahle ke zamane men sharmo haya ki vaja se amne samne nahin ate the or shadi se pehle dekhe bhi nahin hote the ek dusre ko to is lie shayad chori chupe bina ek dusre ko amne samne dekhe sheshe men dekh lete the.
am i right?

savera shah
11th September 2008, 10:34
Wow!!!sub k haan bohat interesting rasmain hen khaas tor per juleebi wali, yeh hamary haan nai hoti, wesy hamary haan jo rasmain hoti hain wo bhe mujhe to bohat achi lagti hain , ye bhe theek hai k esi rasmain nai honi chaiey but ye na hon to shaadi pheeki pheeki si lagti hai wesy ye mera zati khayal hai aap logon ka mutafiq hona zaroori nai hai, :D
Ham logon k han mehndi waly din eik rasam hoti hai larky walon ki taraf se jisy “GHAROLI” kehty hein is main youn hota hai k larky ki sisters or cousins waghera kisi aunti matlab khalaa, phuphoo k han ja kar eik GHRAA pani se bharti hain aur usy baari baari sar pe utha kar Dulahy ki Ama jan se neag leti hain
Eik or “CHAKI” ki rasam hoti hai ye bhe dulha k han he hoti hai is main eik phatar ki chaki rakhi jati hai or 7 suhagnain aa kar us chaki per aata pesti hain phir duhla ki ama us se aaty ka halwa tayar karten hain jb dulhan rukhsat ho kar aati hai to usy ye halwa khilaya jata hai …….
Kaha jata hai k is se saas aur bahoo k dermayan payar barhta hai
is k illava bhe bohat si rasmain hoti hain jo ham log bohat enjoy karty hain
:D:

miss sng
11th September 2008, 18:59
Asalam_O_Alikum,

nice thread Aquari :thmbup:

well hamary haan kuch ziyada rasmein nhi hotein....hum khud bhe gar-zarori aur fazool rasmoon say ijtinaab karty hain.....:)
bus chand aik rasmeen hain ...jesay
mehndi ki rasm (sirf larki ki.).....larky ko mehndi nhi lagaty.....sirf dhoolak bajti hy....:)
aur dhood pilai.....:D
aur jab dulha dulhan ko ly kr ghar ata hy to...driver(jo k koi cousin he hota hy) apna kiraya liay bagar nikalny nhi dyta:D:

i think itni he hain.....shyd 1,2 aur bhe hoon but yaad nhi..:D:

Mr. Sialkoty
12th September 2008, 20:34
AMIR BAHI'' wase u yahan kia kar rahay ho ur to yaar age b ab kaafi hai .. ase baton ki tarf mat jaya karo..372-haha

Yaar tum mere jazbaat ko majrooh kerne ki kooshish mut karo :nunu:

Mr. Sialkoty
12th September 2008, 20:35
Wow!!!sub k haan bohat interesting rasmain hen khaas tor per juleebi wali, yeh hamary haan nai hoti, wesy hamary haan jo rasmain hoti hain wo bhe mujhe to bohat achi lagti hain , ye bhe theek hai k esi rasmain nai honi chaiey but ye na hon to shaadi pheeki pheeki si lagti hai wesy ye mera zati khayal hai aap logon ka mutafiq hona zaroori nai hai, :D
Ham logon k han mehndi waly din eik rasam hoti hai larky walon ki taraf se jisy “GHAROLI” kehty hein is main youn hota hai k larky ki sisters or cousins waghera kisi aunti matlab khalaa, phuphoo k han ja kar eik GHRAA pani se bharti hain aur usy baari baari sar pe utha kar Dulahy ki Ama jan se neag leti hain
Eik or “CHAKI” ki rasam hoti hai ye bhe dulha k han he hoti hai is main eik phatar ki chaki rakhi jati hai or 7 suhagnain aa kar us chaki per aata pesti hain phir duhla ki ama us se aaty ka halwa tayar karten hain jb dulhan rukhsat ho kar aati hai to usy ye halwa khilaya jata hai …….
Kaha jata hai k is se saas aur bahoo k dermayan payar barhta hai
is k illava bhe bohat si rasmain hoti hain jo ham log bohat enjoy karty hain
:D:

Aap loog kis area se hein? Aisi rasmein mein ne dekhi hein Hafizabad mein. I think you should be somewhere round this area :rolleyes:

Mr. Sialkoty
12th September 2008, 20:35
Asalam_O_Alikum,

nice thread Aquari :thmbup:

well hamary haan kuch ziyada rasmein nhi hotein....hum khud bhe gar-zarori aur fazool rasmoon say ijtinaab karty hain.....:)
bus chand aik rasmeen hain ...jesay
mehndi ki rasm (sirf larki ki.).....larky ko mehndi nhi lagaty.....sirf dhoolak bajti hy....:)
aur dhood pilai.....:D
aur jab dulha dulhan ko ly kr ghar ata hy to...driver(jo k koi cousin he hota hy) apna kiraya liay bagar nikalny nhi dyta:D:

i think itni he hain.....shyd 1,2 aur bhe hoon but yaad nhi..:D:

Hamaray haan bhi bus yahi he, bulke driver ki rasam bhi nahi he :bwink:

Pakiza
15th September 2008, 01:21
munda uncle ki baat bahut haad tak sahi hai
hamarey mashrey main jo rasmian shadi main hoti hain
kabhi kabhi bahut ajeeb bhi lagti hain
yahan arabs main aik rasam dekhi jo mujhey bahut achi lagi aur iss main koi burai bhi nazar nai aai
yahan shadi ka aik hi function hota hai jis main larki waley aur larkey waley mushtarka toor pe shareek hotey hain...ladies haal ke entrence pe aik bahut decorated table rakhi jati hai aur uss ko candles se sajaya jata hai aur uss pe aik diary rakhi jati hai yani guest book
iss book main har aaney wala mehman dulhan dulha ke lein wishes, duain likhta hai...aur ye koi zaruri nai ke app lazmi lekhin
phir jab dulha ladies main aata hai tu iss book main apney jazbat ka izhar karta hai aur book ko band kardiya jata hai dulha ke likhney ke baad koi aur uss book main kuch nai likhta
:)

Mr. Sialkoty
15th September 2008, 01:57
munda uncle ki baat bahut haad tak sahi hai
hamarey mashrey main jo rasmian shadi main hoti hain
kabhi kabhi bahut ajeeb bhi lagti hain
yahan arabs main aik rasam dekhi jo mujhey bahut achi lagi aur iss main koi burai bhi nazar nai aai
yahan shadi ka aik hi function hota hai jis main larki waley aur larkey waley mushtarka toor pe shareek hotey hain...ladies haal ke entrence pe aik bahut decorated table rakhi jati hai aur uss ko candles se sajaya jata hai aur uss pe aik diary rakhi jati hai yani guest book
iss book main har aaney wala mehman dulhan dulha ke lein wishes, duain likhta hai...aur ye koi zaruri nai ke app lazmi lekhin
phir jab dulha ladies main aata hai tu iss book main apney jazbat ka izhar karta hai aur book ko band kardiya jata hai dulha ke likhney ke baad koi aur uss book main kuch nai likhta
:)

Sounds interesting :thmbup:

*Hala*
15th September 2008, 09:48
ha!! sab ki buht interesting rasmei hai... :rose:

aquari
17th September 2008, 04:48
yaar me shadiyan bohat km attend krti hun............even not in my family....wese koi khas ul khas rasmen tou nahin hotin hamaray haan...........hoti b hongi tou muje nae maloom.......ap share kijye taa k muje b pta chlay.

ahan..shadiyan attend krni chahyeaa is lya nahi k rasmain enjoy krni hain bulk is lya k kisi ki khushi main shareek hona achi baat hai aaj app kisi ki khushi main jao kal ko koi app ki khushi ya gham main bhi ayega yehi humara culture hai or phr hum ney rehna inhi logo k darmian hai or families sey hat kr rahna koi achi baat nahi insani rishtoo ki bhi apni value hai dear:)....waisey hr family ki koi na koi khas rasm hoti hai ap ko nahi pata tu its ok main hoo na:salam:

aquari
17th September 2008, 04:49
ha!! sab ki buht interesting rasmei hai... :rose:

app ney apni family ki nahi batai hala

aquari
17th September 2008, 04:54
ap ka jawab padh kar meri andar ki sans bahar ayi men to dar raha tha k kahin ap ko meri bat buri na lage. ap ne sahi kaha k islam sab ke liye he to aesi rasmen agar gharib nahin kar payenge to unka dil tut jayega aur phir yeh fuzul kharchi ke zumur men ati hen.

mere valdain ab is dunya men nahin rahe. Allah unko karvaty karvat jannat ata kare. amin

ahan...nahi sahi baat mujhey tu kya kisi ko bhi buri nahi lagti..:)
yehi tu baat hai k un ka koi nahi soochta jo nahi afford krsaktey baatain tu sub krtey hain pra in moqey pr sub hi thori bauht rasmainkr letey hain duniya dari ki khatir.main khud bhi bauht si cheezoo ko manti hn but honestly merey apney time pr taqreeban hr rasm hoi hai wohi baat k duniya main tu rehna hia yeh baatain yaktarfa nahi hosakti dono taraf k loog aisey ho phr hi baat agey barhti hai.
Allah app k waldeen ko apney jawar-e-rehmat main jaga dey:dua:

aquari
17th September 2008, 04:58
Its all about how we perceive it. Mein personally gair zaroori rasmon ke khilaaf hoon, hallagullah kerna alag baat he wo aap kisi tareekay se bhi ker saktay ho, per typical rasmein jese ser ke ouper dupata tana jana, sounds funny and senseless. Isn't it?

jab app insani or kahndani rishtoo ko apney emotions express krney main senseless or funny keh rahey hain tu phr baat hi khatum hogai.

SherAli
17th September 2008, 05:42
men to bas un rasmon ke sakht khilaf hon jo ghair islami hon or jin men shirk ki bu ati ho. pakistan ka tro mujeh ziyada ilm nai magar india men to ham ne beshumar mushrikana rasmen apna rakkhi hen jo qatai ghalat hen. hamko un se ijtinaab karna chahie.

aur in sab se badh kar shadiyon par fuzul kharchi karna or ise status symbol banana na sirf mazhabi burai or gunah he bal k samaji burai bhi he. is maraz ki sarkubi karna nihayat zaruri he :)

Mr. Sialkoty
17th September 2008, 08:33
jab app insani or kahndani rishtoo ko apney emotions express krney main senseless or funny keh rahey hain tu phr baat hi khatum hogai.

It is really not that and you are misinterpreting my notion. Rishton ke takadus ko mein khoob jaanta hoon aur nibhata bhi hoon. Mein senseless gair zaroori rasmon ko keh raha hoon. To me there is no harm cherishing the pleasant occasions like wedding, but rather we have to be sane at these moments. We can do many good things, but still its all about your personal choice. And I respect your choice :thmbup:

*Hala*
18th September 2008, 09:02
app ney apni family ki nahi batai hala

Humari haa buht simple rasmi hoti hai....
mehandi ki rat larky wali larki ki ghar ati hai.. dulhan or dulha ko mehani lagye jati hai... khana khaya jata hai ... baqi songz/dance entertment ki baad wo log chali jati hai...
agali rooz shadi ki rasam hoti hai.... wo be simple sa :)

Mr. Sialkoty
19th September 2008, 07:58
Humari haa buht simple rasmi hoti hai....
mehandi ki rat larky wali larki ki ghar ati hai.. dulhan or dulha ko mehani lagye jati hai... khana khaya jata hai ... baqi songz/dance entertment ki baad wo log chali jati hai...
agali rooz shadi ki rasam hoti hai.... wo be simple sa :)

Simple si kaha karo na Hala dearni :fp:

saraah
20th September 2008, 08:28
ahan..shadiyan attend krni chahyeaa is lya nahi k rasmain enjoy krni hain bulk is lya k kisi ki khushi main shareek hona achi baat hai aaj app kisi ki khushi main jao kal ko koi app ki khushi ya gham main bhi ayega yehi humara culture hai or phr hum ney rehna inhi logo k darmian hai or families sey hat kr rahna koi achi baat nahi insani rishtoo ki bhi apni value hai dear:)....waisey hr family ki koi na koi khas rasm hoti hai ap ko nahi pata tu its ok main hoo na:salam:

Ji aquari salam arz hai…me bs idhar anay hi wali thi k dekhun aap ki rasmen,yani k shadi ki rasmen kahan tak pohanchin…..:)
Ap ne relationships ki baat ki,……khushi gham me shreek hona chahiye…theek hai…ek hawalay se zra me maathi hun k muj se death wgera pe afsos /taziat wgera bilkul nae ho pata.bt im trying to overcome that…….jo khushi ki baat hai…..tou esa nahi k me bilkul nae jati…..jati hun bt….koi ek aadh din attend kr leti hun….bt kbhi kisi rasm me shreek nae hui,like baraat ka istqbal krne k liye line me lag jao phoolon ki patiyan nichawar krne k liye…..etc etc……..(mera khyal hai iss ko b rasm hi kahen ge na:embarasse)……doosri baat ye k invite krnay walay thorra bohat gila tou krtay ahn.bt wo muje jantay han.means…..apka ek image bn chukka hota hai na…tou wo jantay ye han k me bohat ziada mix up anhhi hoti(infact me bachpan me boaht shy thi…)……..bt iss k sath yeh b ajntay hai…..k how much loving n caring I m……so muje kush khas msla nahi hota…….na ja kr…..infact aap married han na ap in nazakton ko mesus krti han….me janab abhi iss khoobsurat qaid se azad hun :embarasseiss liye thorri boaht apni manwa leti hun….dekhain ge agay ja k kya hota ahi.bt muje ALLAH pe bhrosa hai……..k bohat behtar hoga ……..im very hopeful……….ab me in rasmon me koi hissa tou nae daal saki….so itna krti hun k aap ko yeh honour de dun k apni pasand batadun….:phool:.k muje kesa wedding function pasand ha…frankly speaking….i like just nikhah n walima…(I do like paki culture n traditions……n these rasms r a part of that…bt khud pe inko imply krna awkard lgta hai,...dekhna achaa lgta hai,ekk khoobsurat sa ehsaa hota hai no doubt)ji tou me kya pasand krti hun…….nikah esay ho k larrki bawuzu ho k iss pak rasm me shreek ho..kiyon k uski nyi zindagi ki shuruaat honay ja rahi han…..aur libas “sooha jorra” ho.which shud be shlwar kameez….nikah shud b as simple as possible(chahay jitne mrzi brray pemaanay pe krain)……haan walime bohat shandaar ho bt purwaqar ho..ap smjh gyin an meri baat….mere nazdeek ye shadi hai..
.zaroori nae k meri raaye se mutfiq hua jaye…….lakin…….meri yahi raaye hai….
ab me zra "ooper" nazr dorrati hun ja k ap logo ne kya kya rasms share kin phir aapko batoon gi wht i liked...prayers:)

Mr. Sialkoty
20th September 2008, 09:28
Jo bhi he aap ki baatein perh ke maza aaya

saraah
20th September 2008, 09:43
Jo bhi he aap ki baatein perh ke maza aaya

mzay ki kya baat hai iss me???

Mr. Sialkoty
20th September 2008, 11:09
mzay ki kya baat hai iss me???

:lahoul yeh baat ker ke aap ne sara maza kharab ker dia

_Dard_Aashna_
20th September 2008, 18:05
awesome thread AQ

wesay taqreeban her rasam her family main hoti hee hay
thori thori changings k sath
hamaray haan .......
mayon walay din , mami chachi phupi khala , ye log aa k larki maayon bithati hain
larkay walay deegar saman k sath larki ki saheeliyoooooooonn k liye bhi mehndi choori latay hain

laazmi
nai to phadda ho jana hay :hehe:

mehndi laga k naig lenay ki rasam b hoti hay chahay ham larki walay hon ya larkay walay

and
barat main dulha ki gaari rook k dulhan k bhai naig letay hain phir dulha stage pa puhunchnay pata hay

lekin dulha bhi badla ley leta hay
khanay k time pay
khanay say inkar kar deta hay
phir dulhan k bhaai us ki minaten kartay hain hath dhulwatay hain
us ko naig detay hain
phir wo akro khana khata hay :hehe: kitnay mazay say wasoli kar li

dulhan ki sister ya ghar ki koi bari khaton dodh pilaai ki rasam karti hain
dulhay k dost dodh ka glass uchak letay hain amoman aisa he hota hay , ye b aik rasam he hay

nikah k baad , khobsurat say mirror main aarsi mushaf ki rasam hoti hay
wohi tariqa .. shesha samnay rakh k dulha dulhan pay dupata dal detay hain

us k bad dulha dulhan ki maang bharta hay

sandal or dhanak say [ disco ya afshan b kehtay hain dhanak ko ]

ghar lay ja k kheer khilaai ki rasam hoti hay
ghar k tamam afrad dulhan ko aik aik chamchi kheer khilatay hain apna intoduction b karwatay hain gifts b detay hain or dulhan k jhotay chamchay say dulhay ko kheer khilatay hain


sari rasmen mendi or barat tak h hoti hain walimay main kuch nahi hota

walimay k bad dulhan jab apnay meykay renay jati hay
to susral say jatay hoye , us ki goud bhri jati hay
baray say romal main kuc phal fruit cheni chawal dodh or pesay diye jatay hain
same yahi, meykay say susral wapsi pay hota hay
us k bad dulhan dulha jis jis ghar dawat main jatay hain wahan yahi karwaai hoti hay

_Dard_Aashna_
20th September 2008, 18:12
Mazeed kuch rasmain share krti hn mayo tak tu agai thi
mehdi main rasm hoti hai k Larki ki sisters dulhey ko mehdi lagati hain or un ko naig milta hai,kuch families main isi din larki ki larkey waley goodh bharai bhi krtey hain jis main saath suhaganain 7 trha k mewoo sey dulhan ki goud bhrti hain sometimes yeh rasm shadi wlaey din after rukhsati dulhey k gher jaker bhi hoti hai.
Ek rasm hoti hai meri family main jub barat ati hain tu dulhan k bhai cousins etc dulkhey ki gari rooktey hian or us sey naig letey hain phr hi ussey stage pr janey dya jata haii bauht maza ata hai is rasm main becharey bhaiyoo ko bhi kuch mil jata hai wrna sari rasmain as u know larkiyoo ki hi hoti hain :khi:
doodh pilai or joota chupai bhi hoti hain,merey susral main tu sheesha dikhaney ki bhi rasm hoti hai k shesha rakh kr dono dulha dulhan pr dupata dal dya jata hai ..(shukar merey saath yeh rasm nahi hoi:dance2: kisi ko yaaad hi nahi rahi :happy:)

hawwww
ye to yaad hona chahye tha 372-shock

_Dard_Aashna_
20th September 2008, 18:14
:lahoul yeh baat ker ke aap ne sara maza kharab ker dia

loh
maza na howa khatta dahi ho gia jo kharab bhi ho gia :lahoul

_Dard_Aashna_
20th September 2008, 18:15
Humari haa buht simple rasmi hoti hai....
mehandi ki rat larky wali larki ki ghar ati hai.. dulhan or dulha ko mehani lagye jati hai... khana khaya jata hai ... baqi songz/dance entertment ki baad wo log chali jati hai...
agali rooz shadi ki rasam hoti hai.... wo be simple sa :)

aap sab ki shadi ki rasmon main say thori or rasmen add kar lena or b maza aaye ga

SherAli
20th September 2008, 18:16
maiN rasmoN ke khilaf huN haha

_Dard_Aashna_
20th September 2008, 18:17
mehndi wali raat , sab jagtay bhi hain ra't jaga kartay hain koi bhi na sota hay na sonay deta hay
khoob ganay gatay hain
larka ya larki jis ki b shadi ho , us ko ubtan lagatay hain balon main tail lagatay hain or phir aik dosray ki b shamat aati hay ubtan k balls bana bana k martay hain


agr koi shamat ka maara so jaaye to subah us ka face dekhnay k like nai hota
tawa ki kalak u k fac pay hoti hay :hehe:

_Dard_Aashna_
20th September 2008, 18:21
Hamaray haan bhi bus yahi he, bulke driver ki rasam bhi nahi he :bwink:

aap ki baton say to lagta hay :mm:
aap k haan siraf dulhan ko chug k lanay ki rasam hay
aur dinner tanawil farmanay ki :mm:

Soulmate
20th September 2008, 19:11
Aslamalikum
Is section main jaisa k shadi sey related cheezain share horahi hai
tu hr culture main shadi ki apni rasomat hoti hai,Pakistan main bai'k waqt mukhtalif cultures hain or saath hi hr family ki bhi apni rasmain hain
App sub batayea k app ki Family main shadi pr kon kon si rasmain hoti hain
Yaqeenan kuch aisi hongi jo k larki sey related hongi or kuch aisi Jo larkey sey..!Kuch rasmain hr family main common hai jaisey k Doodh pilai,sehra bandhai,jooti chupana,goodh bharai,mu'h dikhai(:khi:..itni bar mun'h dekhney k bad bhi jo di jati hai dulhan ko) ,etc etc
Abb app sub apni apni family ki khaas khas rasmain share karain...:rose:

wow very interesting thread laiken mein aik baat bataon ke hamare haan shadion mein zayada rasmein nehi hotein, hamare khandan mein jitne bhi shaadiaan hoin hain sab buhat simple hoti hain :D: laiken kuch friends ke shaadiaan attend ke hain jahan pe kafi sari rasmain hote hain un mein se kuch tu achi hain laiken kuch bilkul fazool hain mere khayal se aur sara sar paise ka zayah hai aur kuch nehi :donno:

saraah
21st September 2008, 16:31
Assalam alikum kool thread
shadi ho aur rasmain na hoon tu dulhan aur dulha ke elawa sab thora bore hojatey hian:D

i'll share soon

pakiza yar muje tou lgta hai dulha dulhan sb se zyada bore hoaty han:khi:

Mr. Sialkoty
22nd September 2008, 03:55
loh
maza na howa khatta dahi ho gia jo kharab bhi ho gia :lahoul


aap ki baton say to lagta hay :mm:
aap k haan siraf dulhan ko chug k lanay ki rasam hay
aur dinner tanawil farmanay ki :mm:

Aye dil'e'veran bata teri aakhri aarzu kia he :nunu:inni chutiyaan.

Apart, hamaray haan waqee, cheezon ko simple kia jata he. Hum loog ziada rasmon mein nahi pertay, aur waise bhi mein khud kai rasmon ko khatam kerne ke haq mein hoon, jub un rasmoon ki philosophy pe jata hoon to me ko bari ajeeb ajeeb cheezein nazar aati hein, bagair sir pair wali. Mein personally Nikkah aur waleemay ke haq mein hoon, hallagulla khush'gapiyoon se bhi kia ja sakta he, mazak ker ke kia ja sakta he. GTG ker ke kia ja sakta he. Isn't it ?

Mr. Sialkoty
22nd September 2008, 03:56
pakiza yar muje tou lgta hai dulha dulhan sb se zyada bore hoaty han:khi:

Dulhay ka chehra suhana lagta he
Dulhan ka to dil deewana lagta he :bwink:

bari cheezein hotay hein yeh dono jeev b, pretend kerte hein ke bore hein, lekin ander se phuljariyaan phoot rahi hoti hein...aaho :bwink:

saraah
22nd September 2008, 08:33
Dulhay ka chehra suhana lagta he
Dulhan ka to dil deewana lagta he :bwink:

bari cheezein hotay hein yeh dono jeev b, pretend kerte hein ke bore hein, lekin ander se phuljariyaan phoot rahi hoti hein...aaho :bwink:

hazrat ali ka qoul hai......hr shakhs apnay tajurbay k mutabiq raaye deta hai":eye:

Mr. Sialkoty
22nd September 2008, 08:35
hazrat ali ka qoul hai......hr shakhs apnay tajurbay k mutabiq raaye deta hai":eye:


mein kithay phus gaya 372-shock

_Dard_Aashna_
25th September 2008, 11:43
Aye dil'e'veran bata teri aakhri aarzu kia he :nunu:inni chutiyaan.
ye danda meray haath main ho aur tera sir samnay ho :nunu: yahi meri aakhri aarzo hay
meri chuttion ki tum ko parwa kabhi hoi kab :mm:


Apart, hamaray haan waqee, cheezon ko simple kia jata he. Hum loog ziada rasmon mein nahi pertay, aur waise bhi mein khud kai rasmon ko khatam kerne ke haq mein hoon, jub un rasmoon ki philosophy pe jata hoon to me ko bari ajeeb ajeeb cheezein nazar aati hein, bagair sir pair wali. Mein personally Nikkah aur waleemay ke haq mein hoon, hallagulla khush'gapiyoon se bhi kia ja sakta he, mazak ker ke kia ja sakta he. GTG ker ke kia ja sakta he. Isn't it ?

sir jee
wo rasam rasoomat b to infact hallagullah he hoti hain
naig lena gate rokna jota chupana ye bhi khush gappiyon k hamrah he hota hay

any way apnay apnay views hotay hain.

_Dard_Aashna_
25th September 2008, 11:44
mein kithay phus gaya 372-shock


razia gundon main ghirr gai jaayyyy 372-shed

Mr. Sialkoty
25th September 2008, 19:23
ye danda meray haath main ho aur tera sir samnay ho :nunu: yahi meri aakhri aarzo hay
meri chuttion ki tum ko parwa kabhi hoi kab :mm:



Yeh baat kuch hazam nahi hui 372-shed

Mr. Sialkoty
25th September 2008, 19:24
razia gundon main ghirr gai jaayyyy 372-shed

Aye shah'zamaan tu kahan reh gaya, mujay bachanay kyoon nahi aaya :drama:

_Dard_Aashna_
26th September 2008, 20:00
hazrat Ali Ka Qoul Hai......hr Shakhs Apnay Tajurbay K Mutabiq Raaye Deta Hai":eye:
Mashaallah Jazakallah

_Dard_Aashna_
26th September 2008, 20:02
Yeh baat kuch hazam nahi hui 372-shed
hajmola apply karo 372-shed

_Dard_Aashna_
26th September 2008, 20:04
Aye shah'zamaan tu kahan reh gaya, mujay bachanay kyoon nahi aaya :drama:

wo dosri razyaaon ko bachanay gia hoa hay :hahaha:

Mr. Sialkoty
27th September 2008, 08:23
hajmola apply karo 372-shed

Hajmoola skin pe mulll loon kia 372-haha

Mr. Sialkoty
27th September 2008, 08:23
wo dosri razyaaon ko bachanay gia hoa hay :hahaha:

Razia aisay kaam kerti he kyoon hein ke baad mein unhein..........aaho :fp:

_Dard_Aashna_
2nd October 2008, 17:25
Razia aisay kaam kerti he kyoon hein ke baad mein unhein..........aaho :fp:
sari razyaain hoti he tum jesi hain :cn:aisay wesay kam karti hain
phir aaho:fp:

_Dard_Aashna_
2nd October 2008, 17:29
Hajmoola skin pe mulll loon kia 372-haha
way mundiya thuwada tay hazmay da system v ookha aey thuwadi tara'n dinga :cn:

MorningGlory
2nd October 2008, 17:41
munda uncle ki baat bahut haad tak sahi hai
hamarey mashrey main jo rasmian shadi main hoti hain
kabhi kabhi bahut ajeeb bhi lagti hain
yahan arabs main aik rasam dekhi jo mujhey bahut achi lagi aur iss main koi burai bhi nazar nai aai
yahan shadi ka aik hi function hota hai jis main larki waley aur larkey waley mushtarka toor pe shareek hotey hain...ladies haal ke entrence pe aik bahut decorated table rakhi jati hai aur uss ko candles se sajaya jata hai aur uss pe aik diary rakhi jati hai yani guest book
iss book main har aaney wala mehman dulhan dulha ke lein wishes, duain likhta hai...aur ye koi zaruri nai ke app lazmi lekhin
phir jab dulha ladies main aata hai tu iss book main apney jazbat ka izhar karta hai aur book ko band kardiya jata hai dulha ke likhney ke baad koi aur uss book main kuch nai likhta
:)

Ahoo Interesting.

Hamaray yahan to zaidatar shadi k rasm o rivaj jo jitna poster nain post kiaay hain sub hinduana seekhay huway hain.

Ai poster mention karna bhool gaeen shayad. Quran k saay main rukhsati.

MorningGlory
2nd October 2008, 17:42
way mundiya thuwada tay hazmay da system v ookha aey thuwadi tara'n dinga :cn:

Fair inna noon HAJMOLA day do.

aquari
6th October 2008, 04:36
Ji aquari salam arz hai…me bs idhar anay hi wali thi k dekhun aap ki rasmen,yani k shadi ki rasmen kahan tak pohanchin…..:)
Ap ne relationships ki baat ki,……khushi gham me shreek hona chahiye…theek hai…ek hawalay se zra me maathi hun k muj se death wgera pe afsos /taziat wgera bilkul nae ho pata.bt im trying to overcome that…….jo khushi ki baat hai…..tou esa nahi k me bilkul nae jati…..jati hun bt….koi ek aadh din attend kr leti hun….bt kbhi kisi rasm me shreek nae hui,like baraat ka istqbal krne k liye line me lag jao phoolon ki patiyan nichawar krne k liye…..etc etc……..(mera khyal hai iss ko b rasm hi kahen ge na:embarasse)……doosri baat ye k invite krnay walay thorra bohat gila tou krtay ahn.bt wo muje jantay han.means…..apka ek image bn chukka hota hai na…tou wo jantay ye han k me bohat ziada mix up anhhi hoti(infact me bachpan me boaht shy thi…)……..bt iss k sath yeh b ajntay hai…..k how much loving n caring I m……so muje kush khas msla nahi hota…….na ja kr…..infact aap married han na ap in nazakton ko mesus krti han….me janab abhi iss khoobsurat qaid se azad hun :embarasseiss liye thorri boaht apni manwa leti hun….dekhain ge agay ja k kya hota ahi.bt muje ALLAH pe bhrosa hai……..k bohat behtar hoga ……..im very hopeful……….ab me in rasmon me koi hissa tou nae daal saki….so itna krti hun k aap ko yeh honour de dun k apni pasand batadun….:phool:.k muje kesa wedding function pasand ha…frankly speaking….i like just nikhah n walima…(I do like paki culture n traditions……n these rasms r a part of that…bt khud pe inko imply krna awkard lgta hai,...dekhna achaa lgta hai,ekk khoobsurat sa ehsaa hota hai no doubt)ji tou me kya pasand krti hun…….nikah esay ho k larrki bawuzu ho k iss pak rasm me shreek ho..kiyon k uski nyi zindagi ki shuruaat honay ja rahi han…..aur libas “sooha jorra” ho.which shud be shlwar kameez….nikah shud b as simple as possible(chahay jitne mrzi brray pemaanay pe krain)……haan walime bohat shandaar ho bt purwaqar ho..ap smjh gyin an meri baat….mere nazdeek ye shadi hai..
.zaroori nae k meri raaye se mutfiq hua jaye…….lakin…….meri yahi raaye hai….
ab me zra "ooper" nazr dorrati hun ja k ap logo ne kya kya rasms share kin phir aapko batoon gi wht i liked...prayers:)
W salam saraah
Ji app ney thek kaha humarey family waley bachpan sey humari nature sey waqif hotey hain or humara ek image ban jata hai isi lya koi khas masala nahi hotaa:)koi kuch bhi aiteraz nahi krtaa...haa after maried image or mizaj khud hi tabdeel hojatey hain don't worry waqt sub sey bada ustad haii :) or phr kuch families main shadi waqai bauht simple hoti hai.
NIkkah k lya bawazoo tu dear dulhan hoti hi hai ha shalwar qameez k barey kuch nahi kehti waisey aaj kal akser mehdi waley din ya shadi waley din morning main nikkah hojata hai (mera nikkah bhi shalwar qamez main Friday prayers k foran bad hi howa thaa..yeh or baat hai is ki waja kuch or thi :drama:)
app ney sahi kaha woh baraat ka istaqbal bhi humara ek tradition hai waisey bhi mehman ka isteqbal jitna purjoszh hoo is main mehman ki izzat hai or phr u know baraat tu baraat haii :wk

aquari
6th October 2008, 04:41
awesome thread AQ

wesay taqreeban her rasam her family main hoti hee hay
thori thori changings k sath
hamaray haan .......
mayon walay din , mami chachi phupi khala , ye log aa k larki maayon bithati hain
larkay walay deegar saman k sath larki ki saheeliyoooooooonn k liye bhi mehndi choori latay hain

laazmi
nai to phadda ho jana hay :hehe:

mehndi laga k naig lenay ki rasam b hoti hay chahay ham larki walay hon ya larkay walay

and
barat main dulha ki gaari rook k dulhan k bhai naig letay hain phir dulha stage pa puhunchnay pata hay

lekin dulha bhi badla ley leta hay
khanay k time pay
khanay say inkar kar deta hay
phir dulhan k bhaai us ki minaten kartay hain hath dhulwatay hain
us ko naig detay hain
phir wo akro khana khata hay :hehe: kitnay mazay say wasoli kar li

dulhan ki sister ya ghar ki koi bari khaton dodh pilaai ki rasam karti hain
dulhay k dost dodh ka glass uchak letay hain amoman aisa he hota hay , ye b aik rasam he hay

nikah k baad , khobsurat say mirror main aarsi mushaf ki rasam hoti hay
wohi tariqa .. shesha samnay rakh k dulha dulhan pay dupata dal detay hain

us k bad dulha dulhan ki maang bharta hay

sandal or dhanak say [ disco ya afshan b kehtay hain dhanak ko ]

ghar lay ja k kheer khilaai ki rasam hoti hay
ghar k tamam afrad dulhan ko aik aik chamchi kheer khilatay hain apna intoduction b karwatay hain gifts b detay hain or dulhan k jhotay chamchay say dulhay ko kheer khilatay hain


sari rasmen mendi or barat tak h hoti hain walimay main kuch nahi hota

walimay k bad dulhan jab apnay meykay renay jati hay
to susral say jatay hoye , us ki goud bhri jati hay
baray say romal main kuc phal fruit cheni chawal dodh or pesay diye jatay hain
same yahi, meykay say susral wapsi pay hota hay
us k bad dulhan dulha jis jis ghar dawat main jatay hain wahan yahi karwaai hoti hay
yeh tamam rasmain merey lya new hai pr hain mazey ki
in main sey 2 merey ha hoti hain ek kheer khilaney ki or doosri godh bharai mager different andaz main:eye:

aquari
6th October 2008, 04:42
hawwww
ye to yaad hona chahye tha 372-shock
kabhi kabhi bhoolna bhi chahyeaa:eye:

aquari
6th October 2008, 04:46
wow very interesting thread laiken mein aik baat bataon ke hamare haan shadion mein zayada rasmein nehi hotein, hamare khandan mein jitne bhi shaadiaan hoin hain sab buhat simple hoti hain :D: laiken kuch friends ke shaadiaan attend ke hain jahan pe kafi sari rasmain hote hain un mein se kuch tu achi hain laiken kuch bilkul fazool hain mere khayal se aur sara sar paise ka zayah hai aur kuch nehi :donno:
apna apna point of view haii
chalain kuch main tu maza aya,thori bauht enjoyment k lya hi tu rasmain hoti hain



mehndi wali raat , sab jagtay bhi hain ra't jaga kartay hain koi bhi na sota hay na sonay deta hay
khoob ganay gatay hain
larka ya larki jis ki b shadi ho , us ko ubtan lagatay hain balon main tail lagatay hain or phir aik dosray ki b shamat aati hay ubtan k balls bana bana k martay hain


agr koi shamat ka maara so jaaye to subah us ka face dekhnay k like nai hota
tawa ki kalak u k fac pay hoti hay :hehe:
yes yeh tumerey haa b hota haii
is ubtan khelney main kapry bauht kharab hojate hain

aquari
6th October 2008, 04:56
Mazeed kuch rasmain batati hn
ek rasm hoti hai kheer khileny k yeh larki ki rukhsati k bad larkey k gher jaker hoti hain
meri apni family main yeh rasm khasii badtameezi sey ki jati hai:khi: means dulhan ko tu phr bhi sharafat sey dulha spoon sey 7times kheer khila deta hai mager kunk as u all know dulhan nath pehni hoti hai is lya spoon bhi bari mushkil sey us tak poohnchta haii or saath main huting alag hoti haii...or jab larkey ki bari ati hai tu larki k haath yani hatheli pr kheer dali jati hai jo ussey khani parti haii is main kheny waley ka tu pata nahi pr dekhney waloo ko bauht maza ata haii
goodh bharai usualy mehdi waley din ya rukhsati sey pehely ki jati hai sometimes ager time short hoo tu after rukhsati bhi krdi jati hai.
dulha k gher main jab dulha k room main janey ka time ata hai tu tamam behnain,cosuins waghaia room k darwazey pr rasta rookti hai or naig wasool krk ussey ander janey dya jata haii .
Rukhsati k bad nexty day morning dulhan tayar hokr sub sey pehley apni saas or gher k tamam baroo ko salam krti hai jis k lya nanad lekr jati haii,phr sari family sey taruf hota hai hr koi mithai khilata hai or saath hi mun'h dikhai k tur pr koi gift bhi deta hai.
is k bad larki k gher sey us ki sisters nashta lekr ati hai yeh nashta usualy itna hota hai k gher main mojoud tamam gher waley kr lain specialy dulha dulhan tu isi sey nashta krtey hian waisey koi khas rule nahi ager koi kum bhi nashta bhejey tu sirf dulha dulhan ko krwa dya jata hai baqi hr gher main zahir ahi nashta tu banta hi hia is lya yeh baat larki walo pr choor di jati hai k woh jo aford kr sakain waisey bhi rukhsati k waqt khaney k daig b saath bheji jati haii trak jin gher waloo ya kisi barati ney khana na khaya hoo tu woh aram sey gher jaker kha ley.
Nashta k bad dulhan apni behnoo k saaath (dulha ko choor kr:tasali:) apney gher chali jati haii,sham ko dulha ata hai dulhan ko leney ,us waqt dulhan ki ammi dulha k haath pr kuch na kuch paisey rakhti hai or dulan k saath koi na koi chootey choey gifts krk usey dulha k saath bhej deti hai,baqi sometimes usi din valima hota haii ya next day wohj valima ki date pr hai.
Valima waley din dulha khud reception pr khara hota hai apney in laws k istaqbal pr phr sara VIP treatment larki waloo ko milta hai.

_Dard_Aashna_
6th October 2008, 15:18
munda uncle ki baat bahut haad tak sahi hai
hamarey mashrey main jo rasmian shadi main hoti hain
kabhi kabhi bahut ajeeb bhi lagti hain
yahan arabs main aik rasam dekhi jo mujhey bahut achi lagi aur iss main koi burai bhi nazar nai aai
yahan shadi ka aik hi function hota hai jis main larki waley aur larkey waley mushtarka toor pe shareek hotey hain...ladies haal ke entrence pe aik bahut decorated table rakhi jati hai aur uss ko candles se sajaya jata hai aur uss pe aik diary rakhi jati hai yani guest book
iss book main har aaney wala mehman dulhan dulha ke lein wishes, duain likhta hai...aur ye koi zaruri nai ke app lazmi lekhin
phir jab dulha ladies main aata hai tu iss book main apney jazbat ka izhar karta hai aur book ko band kardiya jata hai dulha ke likhney ke baad koi aur uss book main kuch nai likhta
:)


ye sifarat kaaron walay aadab shadi main kidher say aa gaye :D:

_Dard_Aashna_
6th October 2008, 15:21
Mazeed kuch rasmain batati hn
ek rasm hoti hai kheer khileny k yeh larki ki rukhsati k bad larkey k gher jaker hoti hain
meri apni family main yeh rasm khasii badtameezi sey ki jati hai:khi: means dulhan ko tu phr bhi sharafat sey dulha spoon sey 7times kheer khila deta hai mager kunk as u all know dulhan nath pehni hoti hai is lya spoon bhi bari mushkil sey us tak poohnchta haii or saath main huting alag hoti haii...or jab larkey ki bari ati hai tu larki k haath yani hatheli pr kheer dali jati hai jo ussey khani parti haii is main kheny waley ka tu pata nahi pr dekhney waloo ko bauht maza ata haii
goodh bharai usualy mehdi waley din ya rukhsati sey pehely ki jati hai sometimes ager time short hoo tu after rukhsati bhi krdi jati hai.
dulha k gher main jab dulha k room main janey ka time ata hai tu tamam behnain,cosuins waghaia room k darwazey pr rasta rookti hai or naig wasool krk ussey ander janey dya jata haii .
Rukhsati k bad nexty day morning dulhan tayar hokr sub sey pehley apni saas or gher k tamam baroo ko salam krti hai jis k lya nanad lekr jati haii,phr sari family sey taruf hota hai hr koi mithai khilata hai or saath hi mun'h dikhai k tur pr koi gift bhi deta hai.
is k bad larki k gher sey us ki sisters nashta lekr ati hai yeh nashta usualy itna hota hai k gher main mojoud tamam gher waley kr lain specialy dulha dulhan tu isi sey nashta krtey hian waisey koi khas rule nahi ager koi kum bhi nashta bhejey tu sirf dulha dulhan ko krwa dya jata hai baqi hr gher main zahir ahi nashta tu banta hi hia is lya yeh baat larki walo pr choor di jati hai k woh jo aford kr sakain waisey bhi rukhsati k waqt khaney k daig b saath bheji jati haii trak jin gher waloo ya kisi barati ney khana na khaya hoo tu woh aram sey gher jaker kha ley.
Nashta k bad dulhan apni behnoo k saaath (dulha ko choor kr:tasali:) apney gher chali jati haii,sham ko dulha ata hai dulhan ko leney ,us waqt dulhan ki ammi dulha k haath pr kuch na kuch paisey rakhti hai or dulan k saath koi na koi chootey choey gifts krk usey dulha k saath bhej deti hai,baqi sometimes usi din valima hota haii ya next day wohj valima ki date pr hai.
Valima waley din dulha khud reception pr khara hota hai apney in laws k istaqbal pr phr sara VIP treatment larki waloo ko milta hai.

in asri baton main sab say achi cheez hay , salami aur gifts :hehe:

SherAli
6th October 2008, 15:21
ye sifarat kaaron walay aadab shadi main kidher say aa gaye :D:
hmmm.....do kunboN ke maa bai'n sifaaratii ahl-kaaroN ke aadaab o sakaanaat :)

saraah
6th October 2008, 16:25
W salam saraah

app ney sahi kaha woh baraat ka istaqbal bhi humara ek tradition hai waisey bhi mehman ka isteqbal jitna purjoszh hoo is main mehman ki izzat hai or phr u know baraat tu baraat haii :wk

WASLAAM
theek hai aquari ji.....jo aap ki aagiya:salam:

jesa WO kahain ge.......wesa hi kr lain ge....:khi::embarasse

aquari
10th October 2008, 07:20
WASLAAM
theek hai aquari ji.....jo aap ki aagiya:salam:

jesa WO kahain ge.......wesa hi kr lain ge....:khi::embarasse
:eye:


in asri baton main sab say achi cheez hay , salami aur gifts :hehe:
te hor ki..